- YBNB,
Ok, right. Firstly, I'm sorry if this feels like a rambling post, but I'm a bit confused here. What I'm going to post about has literally just happened, hence why I'm a bit all over the place.
Right, some background. I'm a 20 year old guy, straight, blah blah etc, nothing special. Normal guy, go to school, work a crap job, get drunk occasionally. My best friend of 6 years, let's call him Ryan, is the same. We hang out all the time, been real damn close since we were awkward teenagers. I love the guy like a brother, and it's always been like that. We've always helped each other out with relationship advice when it comes to girls, and for the most part, we've both been lucky with girls.
Anyway, cutting to the chase, I just got a phonecall from him. At the minute, he's in Edinburgh visiting his girlfriend [she's at uni there]. So he calls me up, rather drunk. Which is odd, considering it's about 3pm. He's had a fight with his girlfriend [not unusual, she's rather fiesty] and has been told to fuck off away from her flat, where he's meant to be staying until friday. So, the first time he calls me, he's drunk, and blunt, and sounds upset. Call is more or less like this
Me: You ok mate? What actually happened?
Him: I told her I'm in love with someone else.
Me: What the fuck! Who?
Him: Who do you think?
I know he's never cheated on her, and isn't after any other girls. After he says that, he goes quiet. He then hangs up. I figure, maybe he's pissed, and has said it to wind up his girlfriend.
While I was on the phone to him. She had texted me, demanding that I call her. So I do. And she accuses me of fucking him. and having a relationship with him. and being in love with him. I'm seriously thinking it's a massive joke they're playing on me. I'm fuckin' angry and just a little confused. It sounds like she doesn't believe me, so I tell her what bar he's in and I call him back.
And when I get through, he tells me he's been in love with me for 3 years. People always joke about how him and I are like a married couple, but loadsa guy mates are like that. I really had no fucking idea how to react. He said he had to tell me now, because I've recently applied to study abroad for a year and I had to know. But I don't fucking leave until summer and I've got no fucking idea what to do or say now.
I hung up on him after that call and turned my phone off. I need to clear my head. I don't exactly know why I posted this here, but so many of you are the level headed arbiter for strangers, and I just need some help. I can't talk about this with friends or family, not right now.
What the hell am I meant to do? :frown1:
Right, some background. I'm a 20 year old guy, straight, blah blah etc, nothing special. Normal guy, go to school, work a crap job, get drunk occasionally. My best friend of 6 years, let's call him Ryan, is the same. We hang out all the time, been real damn close since we were awkward teenagers. I love the guy like a brother, and it's always been like that. We've always helped each other out with relationship advice when it comes to girls, and for the most part, we've both been lucky with girls.
Anyway, cutting to the chase, I just got a phonecall from him. At the minute, he's in Edinburgh visiting his girlfriend [she's at uni there]. So he calls me up, rather drunk. Which is odd, considering it's about 3pm. He's had a fight with his girlfriend [not unusual, she's rather fiesty] and has been told to fuck off away from her flat, where he's meant to be staying until friday. So, the first time he calls me, he's drunk, and blunt, and sounds upset. Call is more or less like this
Me: You ok mate? What actually happened?
Him: I told her I'm in love with someone else.
Me: What the fuck! Who?
Him: Who do you think?
I know he's never cheated on her, and isn't after any other girls. After he says that, he goes quiet. He then hangs up. I figure, maybe he's pissed, and has said it to wind up his girlfriend.
While I was on the phone to him. She had texted me, demanding that I call her. So I do. And she accuses me of fucking him. and having a relationship with him. and being in love with him. I'm seriously thinking it's a massive joke they're playing on me. I'm fuckin' angry and just a little confused. It sounds like she doesn't believe me, so I tell her what bar he's in and I call him back.
And when I get through, he tells me he's been in love with me for 3 years. People always joke about how him and I are like a married couple, but loadsa guy mates are like that. I really had no fucking idea how to react. He said he had to tell me now, because I've recently applied to study abroad for a year and I had to know. But I don't fucking leave until summer and I've got no fucking idea what to do or say now.
I hung up on him after that call and turned my phone off. I need to clear my head. I don't exactly know why I posted this here, but so many of you are the level headed arbiter for strangers, and I just need some help. I can't talk about this with friends or family, not right now.
What the hell am I meant to do? :frown1: