Respect

maybe you're patient than me manlyb. i'm not going to deconstruct every stereotypical post and try to figure out why the OP is so misguided, even if they guise it in the form of questions. why would you entertain an idea that only once race is capable of this atrocious behavior?? you could pull any random 15 pimply-faced prepubescent teen and ask them "do all members of a race exhibit the same behavior" and they'll look at you like you're crazy because it's simply silly and rude to imply that any particular bad behavior is only executed by one race. the idea of such is one of the birthchilds of racism (all black people are.... all german people are..... all chinese women are.....) asking it in the form of a question doesn't make it any less mindless and thoughtless than stating it as a fact.
 
Ugly is as ugly does.

How surprising that NJ and Marls are upset (the most racist two on the board - of any race - I suspect).

Why am I not surprised to NOT hear either say " You know what? You're right. Darned if I noticed it before, but the black guys in porn ARE pretty derogatory to their white opposites"?

Marley, stop your ranting dude, you're beginning to sound like NJ (or am I stereotyping you guys?). LOL.
 
Ugly is as ugly does.

How surprising that NJ and Marls are upset (the most racist two on the board - of any race - I suspect).

Why am I not surprised to NOT hear either say " You know what? You're right. Darned if I noticed it before, but the black guys in porn ARE pretty derogatory to their white opposites"?

Marley, stop your ranting dude, you're beginning to sound like NJ (or am I stereotyping you guys?). LOL.

how am i racist?? **grabs popcorn**
 
how am i racist?? **grabs popcorn**

try reactionary.

Try jumping on anyone ever that ever suggested anything that you believed, whether misguidedly or nay, to be treading on the toes of a black person.

You're so boring.

I'd have thought about the original original post and either denied it or decried it as being a foul or I might have said "You know what, maybe there's sumfin' in this" as there obviously is - you only need to watch mainstream porn to see that.

Your race is portrayed as being sexually abusive to whites. I never said you were such, but the porn industry portrays you as such. Don't shoot the messenger.
 
OK! Now I am going to get in it! What on earth? I will start out saying that I dont watch porn so I cant speak to it. But I think first and foremost, Porn is created to cater to fantasy . So I would think it is more disturbing that people watch this and actually think this might be real. I think if you want to assume that black men fall into the Big Black Buck stereotype you will. I am happy to say that even though I know there are brutal men and WOMEN of every race, I have been blessed not to come in contact with Black men who behave in this fashion.
 
OK! Now I am going to get in it! What on earth? I will start out saying that I dont watch porn so I cant speak to it. But I think first and foremost, Porn is created to cater to fantasy . So I would think it is more disturbing that people watch this and actually think this might be real. I think if you want to assume that black men fall into the Big Black Buck stereotype you will. I am happy to say that even though I know there are brutal men and WOMEN of every race, I have been blessed not to come in contact with Black men who behave in this fashion.

i didn't even think about that expect. who develops opinions of races based on FUCKING PORN!!! since when is PORN an accurate depiction of reality? if you think life immitates porn you're sadly mistaken. tell me, where else do you get your info on black people?? rap videos?? sitcoms?? day-time trash tv??
 
Mainstream porn is one place where racial stereotypes are not only accepted, our stupidity for being turned on by anything that shows a cock getting pounded into a hole brings the industry billions.

They must laugh at the boardroom meetings when they come up with ideas. Imagine the absurd questions during the interview process to both parties in involved? These people make so much money off of people who don't bat an eye at.

I find free porn, i wont throw money at that industry that thinks we are all so stupid that we can see past the obvious.

I take pride in being a classy lady, now if only that kind of porn were out there people like me and NJQT wouldnt be watching gay porn.
 
For those who watch mainstream porn, do you agree that whenever it's black guys and white girls, the girls are generally abused and called bitches/sluts/whores etc., but when it's white dudes with black girls, the scene is generally more loveable and respectfull?
I don't agree with all your premises, but yes, the "big black poles in tiny white holes" porn is usually that way. It's a specific genre or niche of the porn industry, and caters to the "Mandingo-Complex" fetish folks. You ask about if black men are like that in real life, but honestly, have you ever seen ANY porn that realistically portrays real life? It's supposed to BE fantasy; by definition, most porn is NOT like real life.

what gave it away?? the only thing STD could've done to be more offensive would be to call black people a bunch of knuckle-dragging, english-slaughtering, out-of-wedlock baby-producing, drug-selling, can't-read, no good porch monkeys
I think you are over-reacting, Marley. I don't think that was the OP's intention. He made a valid comment about a certain type of porn, but made the mistake of wondering if art imitates life. It usually does not. I've seen the kind of porn he's asking about, and honestly, it makes my skin crawl. He could just as well have asked "do all librarians become cum-sucking sluts when they take off their glasses?" or "do all white women have 78 DDDDD tits, and wear crotchless panties, fishnet stockings, and 6-inch spike heels to bed?"

how much clearly can you perpetuate a negative stereotype against black men?? intention becomes irrelevant when your entire idealism is based on misguided notions that single out a single race for poor behavior that EVERY race exhibits.
Again, I think he was asking about the Mandingo-porn...
 
Those were some pretty cool youtube links...

That guy offers an answer to the original question of this thread, and more importantly, agrees with the premise.

I'm not sure I agree with the answer offered, however, because I just don't understand why white men would like to see and white women would like to be dominated.

I always thought that aspect of sexuality was more of a fetish than anything else...

For example, I was with a woman for a while, and eventually it became clear that she wanted to be physically hurt during sex (as well as draw my blood!) and I left thinking "boy that was weird, that never happens!"

Is that really every woman's secret desire and every man's secret ambition?

I kinda doubt it. I think the porn industry is "putting the cart before the horse" (no tongue in cheek intended) and producing a lot of what they think people want, without actually knowing what they want. Then people end up buying it because they're horny and they just want to see ANY kind of sex on screen, and then they end up sort of getting used to it.


Sad really. (*tear*)
 
i clearly did overreact, but is that so hard to expect?? how much longer am i going to have to excuse questions like "is it okay to call you nigger" "how come black guys sag their pants" "black people talk funny how come you guys don't use proper english" "why do black singers always scream and growl"

i can play that came too: "how come white people smoke meth" (this question is stupid cuz EVERY race has meth addicts)
"how come white guys always molest children" (again, every race)
"how come white people always kill anyone with different beliefs" (again, every race does this)

first of all the post is offensive in its notion that the negative images of black men's sexuality in porn might be reflective of real black men's sexuality

second, it's questions like these along with "why do black guys.." "can i touch your hair..." that have been plaguing me and many other black people our entire lives. is it too much to ask to be looked at as an individual and NOT have your opinion of me be based on rap videos, porn, and news stories about gangsters??

why didn't the OP ask if all black people are as poetic as maya angelou?? why didn't the OP ask if all black people are good singers like whitney houston??
why didn't the OP ask if all black people are as well-spoken as barack obama??

one thing i think many people are completely ignorant of is that the tendency is stronger to look at NEGATIVE behavior and ask "gee does this represent all black people?" i always ask this question: which of these headlines are more likely to be run in the morning paper and on CNN

-black author hits NY Times bestsellers list
-gang of african american thugs terrorize lower east-side
-rapper Ludacris starts foundation for underpriveleged kids in the inner-city
-rapper 50 cent pulled over, drugs and guns found
-black woman invents a hair-product that will save women 30 minutes in the morning
-black mother arrested for leaving her children in the car, heat exhaustion killed both kids

once again, i think america is completely ignorant of its tendencies to focus on NEGATIVE aspects of the black community. if i googled hiroshima, the holocaust, civil war, i could ask "geez are all white people blood-thirsty hypocrites cuz a lot of yall like killing people who's beliefs are different, but i don't because i know each individual white person is, well, an individual. i don't ask questions or base my opinions of white people on what i see in porn, movies, heavy metal music videos, or any other form of media. i don't form any opinions about ANY person until i hear them speak. however when examining the black community there's a tendency to look at the worst examples of our race and say "is everybody..... is every black person....."

this DOES go both ways. i spent many years listening to my father tell me how white people were gonna keep me down and stab me in the back but guess what. my first crush was a white girl, my BEST friends (as a gay black man) is a white christian couple. my favorite teacher in high-school was white. why is there so much color in my life and in my friends?? because i judge NOONE on any other merit than their own.
 
It's a stereotype and I've seen plenty of porn where white guys are rough with black women.

edit: The pornographic black man stereotype was created and perpetuated by white men by the way. Also, you'd be amazed how many hardcore white supremacists get off to watching a giant black cock fuck a white girl.
 
We rule the race on serial killers. I think it's a dietary thing.

And i think that black guys are more respectful to their white counterparts on cam because the producers take him out for a backwhipping prior to filming. Just so he knows who is the boss.

I've seen black males say the exact same stuff on cam. I hope people knew i was being sarcastic in the above statement.
 
We rule the race on serial killers. I think it's a dietary thing.

And i think that black guys are more respectful to their white counterparts on cam because the producers take him out for a backwhipping prior to filming. Just so he knows who is the boss.

I've seen black males say the exact same stuff on cam. I hope people knew i was being sarcastic in the above statement.

i chuckled madem, unfortunately some people really do get their opinions of black men from rap videos and gangster stories on the news, just like some men deal with women based on what they've seen in pornos. maybe black men and white women should band together to form a super race/sex.... great hair, cute asses and fashion abilities that are second to none!!!

(disclaimer the above was a joke and i know stereotypes are not accurate depictions of anyone?