I guess I needed to sign in to this name to show you it’s real.
1. I didn’t remember I even had a name here, I don’t frequent it.
2. I was getting a lot of unwanted messages about my ass for years so yes I started onlyfans for the guys who wouldn’t leave me alone anyways. But to touch on your point about millions and not giving them what they wanted.
I am a straight male who let life catch up with him and gained weight. I hated doing content cause I hated how I looked and was not loving attention from guys. I knew that with me not being willing to sacrifice myself and my standards (no nudity) I wouldn’t be able to make millions. Yes I did it cause I could profit but just because I wasn’t willing to do everything people wanted, it gives no one any right to sell or even share my content. I don’t hate gays, but I’ve come across many I wish I never met with doing this kind of stuff. But I’m done, I don’t need the little bit of money I made off it, and it’s not worth the hate and negativity that comes from it.
Hey Rob,
I want to start on the body comment.
Nothing is wrong or unusual about putting on a few extra pounds. What is more important is how it makes you feel about yourself.
You were a legit wrestler. That showmanship comes with a lot of territory of looking the part, acting the part and giving the champion-like appearance of your character.
But your physical change shouldn't influence the perception of the man who created that persona in the first place. You're still Rob James, and an extra 'X' lbs doesn't alter that. Slumps happen to everyone, but you are young enough to snap back if it's something you feel is necessary to do. This is beyond how anyone else thinks you look.
the other part is that it's unfortunate that some guys couldn't appreciate from afar and that you felt harassed long enough as the reason for starting an OF.
You shouldn't have to bend to anyone, especially if you weren't comfortable in making it. You're right about standards, but your also owed, as a human, respect when it comes to how people interact with you.
Some of the comments were out-of- pocket and sharing your exclusive content is not fair to you when you made it and you own it.
But I don't want you walking away from this with a soured opinion of the LGBT community.
Some are indeed messy for the lols and some are needlessly cruel if only to make themselves feel better.
But dude, reiterate: you're Rob James! Don't let any of the people in this thread take away from you who you are and the man you built yourself to be.
Take all the time you need to build yourself back up mentally and to remove yourself from spaces that are causing you distress.
You have no obligation to any guy coming to you begging and you've shown a lot more fortitude than most when it comes to handling negativity.
Sorry you didn't get the level of respect you deserved as a human. People tend to forget that real people occupy the other end of the screen.
But I hope you continue to work on you. Continue to be a legend, and stay frosty. But forreal, you need to feel better about yourself and your looks. That's something you owe to you! You owe nobody else a damn thing
And I suppose it was you. Sorry for being skeptical. Like I said, there are weird types on here and I was just being cautious.