Hi My girlfriend and I are on the verge of having a MFM threesome with a guy from CL. BUT... we're still terrified of STDs. Both of us are clean, and of course we'll use condoms, but I know that herpes can spread anyway, and maybe HPV or genital warts too. For those of you who have hot CL hookups (and we really want to be in that group), how do you deal with these concerns? I've tried to press the guy on when he was tested last, but he hasn't responded since last night. I figure he might not ever get back to me, but even if he does, it could easily be a lie. Can I go so far as to ask him for proof? I feel like I should, but I guess it might be too much effort for him, and he seems perfect for the job... once I get some answers on this general question I'll go into more detail.