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NO this is not a post from a guy to get hard. But if that happens, im not responsible.

I wanted to know if any of you have ever tried it and did it seem easier than taking someone elses hand?

I've never really tried it before because i assumed it would be difficult and painful, as trying fisting with my husband was painful as we progressed past 3 fingers. So i have been fingering myself more during masturbation and slowly working my way into doing the "duck hand" and getting like half of the length of my fingers in. It seemed to stretch easier for myself than for someone else.

So lastnight with the help of my husband pushing my hand inward, i was able to get close to the widest part of my fist. It was quite empowering, and while it wasnt exactly pleasurable, it certainly wasnt painful and felt so neat.

So there. My huge black hole of a vagina is just getting bigger. I'll keep you posted before it sucks up the entire universe.
 

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Fisting is not my thing, so I don't have any experiences to add, but why not work up or "train" by buying some very large dildos or huge round butt plugs (that can be used vaginally) in various extreme-end sizes?

I've seen quite a few of these items in some shops and they seem to be hot sellers.
 

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My vagina doesnt really open up to much i've noticed, I can stick a small circumference in there just fine. but i've tried the big dildos to stretch myself out a little so i dont have problems with penetration. Doesnt seem to work, it has to be a psychological thing.
 

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I am into fisting, in the sense that I watch fisting porn and it usually gets me off. :08:

However, I have never been successful when trying it with a partner, male or female. With the size of my ass, one would think I could be fisted :biggrin:, but I actually have a narrow pelvis and physically cannot accommodate a hand. Or, at least, anything past the 'duck hand' you described, PM.

If you know that you're good physically, perhaps you could try purchasing a speculum to get your body used to a wider stretch?
 

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what is your obsession with fisting lately!?

girls gape better from thick cock than hands in my experience.
 

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what is your obsession with fisting lately!?

girls gape better from thick cock than hands in my experience.
what is it you have against fisting?

does it make your penis sad that she might be enjoying something bigger than it?

and why do you assume it's about gaping?
 

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what is it you have against fisting?

does it make your penis sad that she might be enjoying something bigger than it?

and why do you assume it's about gaping?

i never said i had something against fisting.
did I ? ? ?



i simply asked what inspired her interest dolfette...ease up i am on your side.

gaping actually has alot to do with accepting something large
into or out of the vagina...
like my girthy greasestick,a baby...to even believe it or not
tiny girl hands.

chill out.
 

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the original post has a tinge of hysteria to it,

it sounds moreso like you want to "prove" you can do it, and less
about sexuality, you say it is not pleasureable per se,but you want
to practice to be able to fit your fist inside yourself?

what about fisting yourself do you find "empowering"?

i personally have never felt the urge to put my fist inside myself,
my ultimate goal is a pleasureable experience vs a clinical one.
my boyfriends cock is the same girth as my hand,
his thickest matches my thickest.
i could fist myself,but "why?"
:confused:
 

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BlackHoleFun and Psidom if you really want to know about my fascination with fisting...

My desire to be fisted started about 6 years ago. Out of no where during foreplay my husband and i got really crazy and started stretching me out while we were in the bathtub. It seemed like the warm water made for my stretching to happen a little easier.

As many here know, i have a very small vagina. It's not just tight in the hymen area, the vaginal canal itself and muscles are very tight. It's been a real problem for me. It's not a vaginismis sort of tightness. Im just naturally built this way.

So it was fun but also painful to have my husband try to stretch me to his fist. His fist is huge for a man and my vagina is just too small. I love to watch fisting videos and i would love to have that feeling so many women decribe.

So we've tried many times but its just never been able to happen. I've never liked the sensation of fingering myself, but ive been craving that sensation and i've been doing it while masturbating more and more. Im finding that i can fit more of my own fingers (since they are smaller obviously) and i love feeling my vagina stretch around them.

So im working on getting to self fisting because i can totally see this being possible, unlike the impossibility of taking my husbands hand. The pain of that is unreal.

There is nothing remotely attractive to me about gaping or wanting to be able to gape. It's just a mountain i want to conquer as people who are built like me never get to have extreme fun.
 
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I have to hand it to you PM :cool: well I would it could be done, you have made a fine fist of sisterhood, but, well, sorry, you are just going to have to put up with thick hard cock for a while. :tongue:

PS - I missed your above post. Do you tent? I have always thought that this was the moment that maybe I could do it.
 
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