Semen Retention

I'm on my eleventh days.. been interested to dophamine reset too
I am three weeks in - never gone this far before. Last night I had a “Taoist” massage - with clearly communicated desire to not ejac. I went to a new level - had an intense “high” (not quite an orgasm) then dropped back from it. I felt light-headed and then zen. My urge to ejac has really dropped off and replaced by a sense of calm and control.