I'm versatile and love to top as well, but mostly bottomed for a while now because it means I don't cum as fast, which I always hate. When I cum early, my sex drive is usually completely gone. On the other hand, I love being edged and at the beginning I'm always sensitive and could cum immediately, but after a certain point I can last for a long time. That's usually when I felt confident fucking my ex-partner, but usually his hole was too tight and I came quickly.
I think when I started bottoming more, my cock wasn't used to his tight hole anymore and made me cum quickly whenever I tried fucking him. Because at the beginning of the relationships I had some nice sessions fucking him. Never pounding, because he didn't like it and obviously made me cum fast.
It has been difficult on Grindr since most look for tops or bottoms and not vers guys. I've always been honest about my problem and most weren't interested after that. Recently, I found a guy who seems interested, but haven't met him yet. I have a feeling if I have a nice hole to fuck, my cock can get used to the feeling again. Especially if it's an understanding vers guy.
Now, the questions is. What can I do on my own? More edging, less jerking off, a tight Fleshlight? I always hoped edging would increase my stamina. Recently, also started with the PC muscle exercises again.
But yeah, at the moment, I really don't feel confident fucking a guy.
I think when I started bottoming more, my cock wasn't used to his tight hole anymore and made me cum quickly whenever I tried fucking him. Because at the beginning of the relationships I had some nice sessions fucking him. Never pounding, because he didn't like it and obviously made me cum fast.
It has been difficult on Grindr since most look for tops or bottoms and not vers guys. I've always been honest about my problem and most weren't interested after that. Recently, I found a guy who seems interested, but haven't met him yet. I have a feeling if I have a nice hole to fuck, my cock can get used to the feeling again. Especially if it's an understanding vers guy.
Now, the questions is. What can I do on my own? More edging, less jerking off, a tight Fleshlight? I always hoped edging would increase my stamina. Recently, also started with the PC muscle exercises again.
But yeah, at the moment, I really don't feel confident fucking a guy.