Sex position tips/help??

[D0D]

So, I am hoping to get woman's perspective on different sex positions and how they feel for the girl. One of my favorite is legs on my shoulders while I am on top, or her knees are to her chest and her feet on my chest while I'm on top (g-force or laun chair I think?). I also like doggy style when she arches her back. Incredibly sexy. Unfortunately my girlfriend can't seem to handle these positions very long before she has to change it up. I really don't know why and she doesn't seem to know either. Its a bummer because those positions are pretty fun for us and help mix it up. I was wondering if any girls have had similar expierences or any tips to make these positions much more comfortable for her. Thanks in advance for any tips or advice, I really appreciate it!

 

[MickeyLee]

umm to make it more enjoyable for her... change positions when she asks you to?

 

[LaFemme]

Yup. I agree. When someone says "ouch", stop. Maybe she doesn't bend that way.

Personally, I like those positions, too, but can't hold them too long. I have back and hip problems (car accident from long ago) and it starts to hurt. Stretching and yoga helps some what, but it depends on her. It depends on her flexibility, on where she carries her weight, how big her breasts are, if she's had any traumatic injury to her body - all kinds of factors. Oh, and age.

So basically, some things can change with stretching before hand and some things can't. Big breasts and knees to chest leads to trouble breathing - can't change that. Stop when it hurts.

 

[D0D]

good advice, I always make sure listen to her. I also like the strtching suggestion as well, something we both could work on . I guess my question was a little bit more direct at the P in the V aspect and if there are better angles or variations of those positions that might be better to try. Thanks for the responses I really appreciate it!

 

[Ed69]

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[D0D]

That's really cool I had no idea there was even stuff out there like that! I appreciate the advice. Still looking for some more advice about maximizing her pleasure in different positions if anyone has more advice. I feel like it is easy for guys, just get her to squeeze her legs together/ cross them and it feels tighter ect. always curious about the women's perspective and how to bring up the topic with her.

 

[LadyJesseQuinn]

Yup. I agree. When someone says "ouch", stop. Maybe she doesn't bend that way.
....Stop when it hurts.

for real, in any position. what you wrote about flexibility, breast size, and such is bang on too.

what jumped out at me in the OP was this:

I also like doggy style when she arches her back.

There are two ways to arch your back. one with your stomach pushed out and one where you flex/lock your abs to keep your stomach taut as you arch. I've found in the past that if a guy is large and I don't flex my abs I can actually feel his dick bumping into my organs from behind. Feels about as good as it sounds.

May not make any difference for your girl but wanted to mention it anyway. Lock the stomach, keep it taut and it like...provides more room or something and for me at least is the difference between pleasure and pain.

Might be worth a try?

 

[AlteredEgo]

Aim for the butt while your penis is in her vagina. In this manner you can avoid undue pressure on her cervix, which is located on the front, not at the end.

 

[D0D]

huh, I've never thought about that @AlteredEgo ! I'll have to give it a try. That is total opposite what I have been doing, I usually try to hit the front wall which is probably what @LadyJesseQuinn is getting at with hitting organs and possibly cervix. I know doggy on her knees usually turns into her lying on her stomach (she moves into that pretty quick) probably trying to change the angle or tighten her stomach or something. Great advice! has anyone else had a similar problem and found any similar solution or even another different one?? Does size make a big difference in doggy position/ legs over head for girls?

 

[D0D]

*legs on shoulders, not over head haha

 

[nailz]

So, I am hoping to get woman's perspective on different sex positions and how they feel for the girl. One of my favorite is legs on my shoulders while I am on top, or her knees are to her chest and her feet on my chest while I'm on top. I also like doggy style when she arches her back.

vaginally, that first position is just about the only one i can't do with a large penis. i feel like i'm getting punched in the stomach but if you have an average or below-average sized penis its one way to get really deep penetration and make it feel bigger than it is.

doggy style can be amazing or excruciating depending on how aroused i am, how long the guy's penis is, and the angle.
some guys just don't read the cues we give during doggy style and are so fucking retarded about this, so i'm going to post a little tutorial
i know i'm totally generalizing here and there are going to be exceptions (people with back problems or less flexibility maybe) but for the most part:

the first position usually means we are enjoying it, especially if we're looking back at you or our ass is pushed back towards you: this usually means you can pound away

the second position means it fucking hurts. its unbelievable how many guys just don't get this i mean look at it: we are literally trying to escape from your penis. especially if the woman is doing this and starts inching forward away from you: this does not mean move forward to follow her or pull her back onto you

change angles, go slower, don't go as deep, or change positions.. but do not just continue pounding away. so many guys have misread this simple body language and just manhandled me back onto their cock or kept pounding away and 'following' me until i was at the edge of the mattress

 

[Fencepost]

Excellent comments, ladies! I have run into some of these problems with my girl. I will try my best to incorporate these techniques.

 

[JulieInNaplesFL]

If he isn't banging my Cervix he ain't doing it right.

OK, so I'm strange, I love my Cervix banged hard and then passing it all the way to the back hard.

Told you I'm strange.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I hate all of those positions because it makes it too deep. I have a short vagina. I prefer missionary where I can angle my hips just the way I like and he holds off on pounding too hard.

I have had guys try to get me to arch my back like a porn star and they never listen when I tell them I can't because it's too painful.

 

[dfresh3]

Lots of good info here, thanks. Nothing is more of a sex buzz kill than when they do that 2nd picture of doggie stye.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Lots of good info here, thanks. Nothing is more of a sex buzz kill than when they do that 2nd picture of doggie stye.

Imagine the extreme pain. I'd say it's more of a buzz kill for her.

 

[185248]

Yeah, men don't arch their backs, move from side to side, the old "sitting crouch, thrusting cock" Up high, down low, swivel....shallow, deep, medium, wax on, wax off. Usually, sounds are a give away as to what works...unless one is deaf, then you grip a wrist, or use eyes..

 

[950483]

I've got nothing to say about missionary position other than it does nothing for me at all : / , not with my legs on his shoulders either.

I haven't had problems accommodating size so much, but in the past have had problems where doggy style feels good at first, but the partner then moves his penis out of the exact angle and position that felt good, or is just moving at the wrong pace and rhythm for me.
Stay still and let her do the work.

 

[950483]

Also, in some positions maybe she would be able to put her hand around the base of your penis while it's inside to control how far in you go.

 

[Doranq]

@nailz

if they aren't taking the body language *hint*
Why not just tell them directly through verbal communication? Then or later you could tell them that when you do so-and-so it means that it is bad, not good. Or if you do this-and-this it is a good thing.

Problem solved, they stopped doing it and now they know for future reference. Even if they never sleep with you again, at least they know for the next person and are not continually doing it under the assumption they are doing good by her. Everyone walks home a winner that day. (and future days)