To me, sex is a spiritual experience as some of you have mentioned - however, sex with someone I love is very different to sex with someone I only lust after. In a physical sense, I get as much joy and sensation with both but in a mental, spiritual way; I much prefer to make-love rather than just 'have sex'. There is a special connection that happens - you can't get from a simple sex partner. (Despite how much fun you have!) :tongue: