Sexual Attraction To Men is Fading HELP!

[CareyD]

So recently ive noticed that I am not getting “turned on” by men. Don’t get me wrong I love men and the male body. I can and do engage all day but it doesn’t excite me sexually. However, when I’m taking NSFW PICS or making my own content I get extremely horny. I’ve used my content more to masturbate than standard porn. My content is all solo never any guest appearances.

What could this mean? Am I a sexual?

Any thoughts?

 

[Brodie888]

You sound like you are masturbating to porn too much and your brain has become desensitized. Your brain likes novelty/variety but if it's getting high stimulation all the time, it ignores anything of that level or less.

So you get off on your own stuff because it is different but eventually that will lose it's novelty too.

It's like buying a new cologne and using it every day. Eventually your brain gets bored and ignores it

 

[luvhusky1]

You sound like you are masturbating to porn too much and your brain has become desensitized. Your brain likes novelty/variety but if it's getting high stimulation all the time, it ignores anything of that level or less.

So you get off on your own stuff because it is different but eventually that will lose it's novelty too.

It's like buying a new cologne and using it every day. Eventually your brain gets bored and ignores it

What he said

 

[mikeurlover]

Stop watching porn. Go touch some gay bushes.

 

[branleur]

Don’t worry—unless you feel like you’re turning heterosexual. In that case, yes, call an emergency meeting!!

 

[quiteHorny]

You sound like you are masturbating to porn too much and your brain has become desensitized. Your brain likes novelty/variety but if it's getting high stimulation all the time, it ignores anything of that level or less.

So you get off on your own stuff because it is different but eventually that will lose it's novelty too.

It's like buying a new cologne and using it every day. Eventually your brain gets bored and ignores it

exactly this. this is actually one of the true benefits of no fap. forget all of the other crap. If you are legitimately noticing that things you found attractive is no longer attractive. You need a porn/masturbation detox. Your over indulging.

 

[kiki12321]

So recently ive noticed that I am not getting “turned on” by men. Don’t get me wrong I love men and the male body. I can and do engage all day but it doesn’t excite me sexually. However, when I’m taking NSFW PICS or making my own content I get extremely horny. I’ve used my content more to masturbate than standard porn. My content is all solo never any guest appearances.

What could this mean? Am I a sexual?

Any thoughts?

You are still a HOMOSEXUAL, darl, just temporarily frigid

 

[CareyD]

I agree with the feedback. I do look at naked men wayyy too much.

I’ll do a cleanse…. It’ll be hard (probably not)

 

[Clanko]

I agree with the feedback. I do look at naked men wayyy too much.

I’ll do a cleanse…. It’ll be hard (probably not)

Absolutely nothing wrong with loving yourself btw. Keep up THAT good work!

Aside from the "no fap" and porn detox, which I whole heartedly agree with. Have you tried switching up the kinds or types of guys you are "normally" attracted too and the scenarios you put yourself with them? Burn-out FOR SURE, but your tastes could also be evolving. If the detox does not have the desired intensity, try changing up the types of guys, the locations, the scenarios, the roles and roleplays, the kinks. Variety is key. Rinse and repeating your ultimate pig life from 10 years ago MIGHT become boring eventually.
e.g. if you are a grindr pig, maybe find a guy that wants to play out an old fashioned boyfriend fantasy where you both hold off on the choked-out piss-fuck until you guys have built some good old fashioned sexual fucking tension. The real stuff where over the clothes might make you bust because you, your partner, or your circumstances have REPEATEDLY denied you primal release.

Other option, find a twin.
Other solution: evalute why you get no satisfaction with others, like are you always too busy on getting others off and not yourself. (I think I am projecting that last one! )

I wish you an abundance of precum stained underwear on your journey.