Size-queenism.

[fournineteenfiftynine]

This:
I too love big cocks, but I would prefer much more a hard cock.

 

[auncut10in]

I think it is totally reasonable to put your preferences in your profile if that is what you are looking for. I also think it is totally reasonable to only want to be in a relationship with a guy that is hung big. Why not? It is your life and you should not have to compromise on the kind of guy you want to be with. Sure there are plenty of wonderful guys out there with smaller dicks. But that is not what you are looking for.

That said, there are other ways to handle your issue as well. Me and my boyfriend are both tops. It does present a problem with the type of sex we have with each other. But our relationship is so much more than just sex , neither one of us want to make that the defining issue in our relationship. So we have an open relationship and find guys that we can both f**k. It works for us. It may not work for anyone elses relationship, but does that really matter?

 

[malvada]

as long as you're still young and hot enough to only take what you want. why not?

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sera]

I would try to get over it...you don't want to pass up a great relationship just because the guy has an average cock

Solid advice!

 

[Halopete]

well firstly you shouldn't feel bad about your preference, every body has them and lots of guys have ones that are more shocking then just preferring a big cock, i to am also a huge cock "Enthusiast" ( hate the term size queen coz i'm not a bloody queen at all ) and i love the feeling of a massive cock just opening me up and spearing me but i have also learned that a big cock isn't every thing, for instance had a guy with a massive massive cock few months back and he was crap !!!! i mean just awful, and the last guy i had sex with was just average and he was the best sex i have ever had hands down!!!
all because a guy with a massive cock in some cases just rely on there size and have no technique, after a little while it just feel like he was out plowing a field and it was rather boring

so i guess my advice is this, try different things against your preferences because you never know what you might like until you try it but most of all ( and this is important ) don't beat your self up over things you can't control preferences are just that and most of the time they can't be controlled

 

[macho8]

I am still hoping its a phase I am going through...

 

[Big Del]

I work with a woman who is a total size queen - I think I am in love............

 

[macho8]

Well i have fallen in love with a guy who has an average size. I miss getting fucked pass my second hole, but i love him dearly... so its more about the sex now

 

[sizehungry]

I make my preferences very clear from the outset . By doing this , i hope to avoid hurting someones feelings , though ,sometimes ,this does not work . For me , from the very first time i fully took a huge cock , i was forever hooked . On occasion , if i meet a smaller guy , we include fisting & large toys , but ,in reality (for me ) , there is nothing like some mega-hung guy/s , pounding it into me balls-deep . Just love it .

 

[EquusAZ]

... our relationship is so much more than just sex , neither one of us want to make that the defining issue in our relationship. So we have an open relationship and find guys that we can both f**k. It works for us. It may not work for anyone elses relationship, but does that really matter?

^^^^
This

I got into my current relationship because we meshed so well as a couple. Sex? Was it the best? It doesn't matter really. A few years later due to medical complications my partner can no longer have sex. The last official time we had sex was in 2010. We're still together, and still in love. We've got an understanding as far as sex goes (see my other posts). I love him. Be sure no matter his size - that you can love him FOR him, otherwise you're just in it for the sex. And believe me, sex does NOT last.

 

[Hoss]

I have this fascination with big dicks. Like most of you here I have more than appreciation for them. There is something so raw and pleasing about a huge set of equipment. Something very impressive

I've had problems with my fetish though, and I was wondering what you guys think about this. I am a "size-queen" in the sense that I have a fetish. But I've met guys that were genuinely nice and charming and everything you might want in a prospective partner. But as soon as they dropped their trousers The spark just went. I've felt really ashamed of it because I wonder if I really am that vain?



Is it a legitimate fetish that can't be gotten around or is it just vanity?

p.s. I live in a place where it is pretty darn difficult to find a fuck buddy, let alone a fuck buddy that is well endowed and likes the same things you do. So maybe I just need to get over it?

Don't see it as a fetish, I see it more as a preference sort of the way I prefer a nice polar bear over a twink. That said, I would not rule out the twink if he had other things going on for him. That's the thing about attraction and sex. 1 of the best men I was ever with was a puny little cocksucker of a runt who sported a dick less than 5 inches long however we got along great until the dimwitted s.o.b. decided he'd rather be alone.
Oh by the way, the sex was strangely very good both ways with him as a top or as a bottom.

No need to get over your ideal size preference, there is always hope.

 

[macho8]

i miss my second hole getting a pouring tho.. i guess will get a toy for us to use..

 

[wappingite]

All of this depends on what terms you set up in a relationship. You can be a size fan and still fall for someone of average or small size. Relationships are dynamic things and take cultivating over time, especially in terms of sex. If you love having your second hole plugged, get your partner to use a toy on you, or even better, get him to wear a strap on. Given the tiny percentage of men who can reach your second hole 'naturally', I don't think your partner would be offended or jealous over this. Open and honest communication always helps.

You could also open up the relationship if you're both agreed to it, so you could get your size fix from time to time. There are no rules except what you two decide is best.

Congrats on finding your partner.

 

[macho8]

just got a double ended dildo and spent yesterday opening me up. my second hole was popping (never felt it so tight before)

 

[royboy361]

Eventually you have to stop fucking and start talking.

 

[924628]

I think you're perfectly entitled to your preferences. Desire is not something that you can control any more than you can control your personality. If you like big, you like big. Small fellas will just have to put up with it. It is unfortunate that you do end up missing out on some really great guys who might be poorly endowed but you'd be in exactly the same position if you had a fetish for small cocks and you met a really great well hung guy. Such is life. Learn to live with it.

 

[Elngyn]

If i like the guy i like him hot his thing

 

[someperson]

Is it a legitimate fetish that can't be gotten around or is it just vanity?

not a fetish




fetish refers to a non genital object.

 

[MistyOne]

I don't think you should feel ashamed about it as at the end of the day, we can't help what we are attracted to and what we want. Hopefully each person finds what they're looking for but that can be tough. At the end of the day, it's up to you and what you decide to pursue.