Size

Size is probably the first thing on a guy's list. It's not even in the Top 10 on mine or most women I know.

The weird thing is we kinda know what's on a guy's list. We don't even have to peek. Most rarely have any idea what's on ours. What's even more sad is that they have no interest in it.
Ain’t that the truth. Physically I care so much more about hands. I love hands. Strong capable hands. Musician’s hands. Worker’s hands. Either way. Just hands that are clean and that I want to hold. No raggedy nails or fungus. Good hands.

A face that looks like it smiles more than it frowns. That’s important, too.

But penis size? I seriously pay more attention to his shoes.
 
Ain’t that the truth. Physically I care so much more about hands. I love hands. Strong capable hands. Musician’s hands. Worker’s hands. Either way. Just hands that are clean and that I want to hold. No raggedy nails or fungus. Good hands.

A face that looks like it smiles more than it frowns. That’s important, too.

But penis size? I seriously pay more attention to his shoes.

I am obsessed with hands. And hands that move purposefully. I think that is half the reason I watch art restoration videos. All the hands are deliberate and skilled.

Examples of Hand Fetish
 
OP - The only organ size of which matters to me is a man's heart.

I can understand you asking around if your wife has been your sole sexual partner in life.
If not, then you obviously are still looking for the answer you want to hear. Which obviously hasn't come your way as per EllieP 's reply.
 
I am obsessed with hands. And hands that move purposefully. I think that is half the reason I watch art restoration videos. All the hands are deliberate and skilled.

Examples of Hand Fetish

I have watched so many of his videos! That's why! The hands!