Soaking

[shephusky]

Has anyone heard or done of soaking, where you insert dick into pussy, but you don't move. Not sure if just tip or balls deep.

 

[Jon1971]

I've heard of it. Some young kids of certain religious persuasions believe that their virginity is still intact if there's no thrusting involved. There's also a next level where a trusted friend jumps on the bed while you are soaking.

 

[halcyondays]

Yes. Forty-plus years ago a girlfriend said you like to soak.

I was kind of surprised to hear Chelsea Handler say she had never heard of it before on James Corden's show last night. Maybe she has never had or leaned about tantric sex.

The term's been around for decades. It's coitus reservatus--not moving while coupled.

Remember the bedroom scene in Out Of Africa? Robert Redford whispers don't move to Meryl Streep?
She says I want to move. He repeats don't move.

That's tantric sex. It's basically like edging while coupled with a partner. Make it last. Don't rush off to orgasm. Long, lingering, languid sex. Stay on plateau as long as you can or want.

The whole Mormon thing about it not being sex is .

 

[shephusky]

Any others?

 

[deleted5300951]

this sounds sooo hot, gonna try wiht my girl tonight

 

[shephusky]

this sounds sooo hot, gonna try wiht my girl tonight

So what happened?

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

Sounds too much like drinking Decaf coffee or those people in the gym who spend most of their time sitting on a machine, playing with their phone and then tell everyone they worked out.

Why go halfway, as the teasing temptation alone would turn one's balls a shade deeper than the deep blue sea right before they explode.

Now, there have been times I stayed in a pussy for a while without thrusting while either resting or basking in its walls after blowing a load and she sometimes likes the feeling of it just being there motionless and filling her up. But to deliberately penetrate and not move at all and call it "sex". No.

Those (particularly young and possibly pious couples) who purposeful do this are just trying to justify a "God's eye" loophole in that somehow, like only doing oral or anal, it is not really sex and doesn't count.
Bottom line: fundies are weird.

 

[shephusky]

Has anyone tried this recently, who gets off first?

 

[shephusky]

Has anyone here done this in the past year?

 

[lapdog2001]

I've never inserted my erection all the way in, then stopped any kind of thrusting. I have paused if I feel I am getting to the point of no return too quickly, in hopes of calming down and being able to continue fuck.

The closest to Tantric sex I've ever had was when a girlfriend was riding me and I asked her to stop as I was getting too close to orgasm far too quickly in our session. She stopped, and I may have 'cum' just a little while breathing deep and trying not to have a full orgasm.

When I calmed down she started to squeeze my cock with her pussy muscles (Kegels) which felt good enough to keep me hard, but not overwhelming so I didn't have an orgasm. After a few minutes of both of us trading off Kegel exercises she started riding me again and we went on to having full blown orgasms

 

[caffeinated]

The show "Jury Duty" had a hilarious bit about soaking, including the whole buddy-jumping-on-the-bed thing.

 

[95racer]

Did not know there was a term for this. Just part of a fun, love making session. Would do this with an old FWB. Go all the way in, hold it, lightly grind on her clit, and kiss. Sometimes she would 'O' during it. She would do the same thing when on top. Good memories!

 

[Oldcowboy]

Of course! Tantric sex,

Has anyone heard or done of soaking, where you insert dick into pussy, but you don't move. Not sure if just tip or balls deep.

of course! Delayed orgasm, mulitiple orgasms, orgasms w/o ejaculating,—-prolonged ecstasy!
caution: may lead to stable of expert cocksuckers—-and some phenomenal lady friends.

 

[bigbenis]

Mormonism can not be a real religion bro