Staying hard while bottoming

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I wonder how many guys stay hard while they are being fucked, and how many lose their erection.

I am versatile and I know when I am the bottom, I get extremely hard and stay hard until I cum. If I'm even slightly soft when we start, the blood rushes straight to my cock when I'm entered. I've seen porn where the guy is extremely soft, just flopping around, and I couldn't understand how that could be.

My current partner is one of those guys who gets soft. He must like it because he wants me to do it to him, though. I even offer to bottom and he wants me to top.

So do you lose your hard on while bottoming?
 
I stay at least semi hard when getting plowed or stuffed. Much of how hard I am is determined by how turned on I am. Porn is a bad gauge of hardness because the bottoms have been getting fucked for literally 6 or 7 hours. Many of them are high so they can handle the use and size for so long a time and some of those drugs make you go soft. Still other bottoms combat it all by using PDEI's like Viagra or direct acting injectables like Caverject, which forces them to stay hard even when take two cock, super huge toys or a fist or two.
 
Yeah, pay no attention to porn. There's no guarantee those guys are enjoying it in the slightest - erection or no.

I always figured that if you were really into it, you'd stay hard. I don't think I could keep going if the guy I was fucking went soft... I'd be too worried he wasn't enjoying it.
 
On the few occasions that I bottom, I don't stay hard. I have to be relaxed. If I get hard, I clench my sphincter and the top can't penetrate me.
 
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I am 100% bottom... which mean I enjoy being fucked. Does not matter what is being used. Dick, hands, arms, and dildos. Just fuck me and I could care less if my dick get hard.
 
I have a different point of view ,, i extremely enjoy bottoming, and when i'm deeply enjoying the fuck session , i don't think about my cock. I focus only on my fucked ass, my cock usually hard in the start and as get more and more anal pleasure, it starts to relax till it become floppy at the end , even i can cum hands free from it.
So when you fuck a real bottom , don't care about his cock, just pay attention to the look on his face..
 
Soft when relaxing to receive cock, anywhere in between during, hard when I come. When I'm hard I'm squeezing him tightest. Tops love that. I love grabbing and releasing a guy, eliciting ecstatic responses.
 
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I have a different point of view ,, i extremely enjoy bottoming, and when i'm deeply enjoying the fuck session , i don't think about my cock. I focus only on my fucked ass, my cock usually hard in the start and as get more and more anal pleasure, it starts to relax till it become floppy at the end , even i can cum hands free from it.
So when you fuck a real bottom , don't care about his cock, just pay attention to the look on his face..

I do like seeing a guy's face when he is enjoying himself or cumming. I've has guys comment that I get EXTREMELY hard when I'm getting fucked. And it's great to get jacked by the guy topping me. Especially when he edges me a bit first. It is usually one of those toe splaying, leg shaking, jizz-shooting orgasms that I love!
 
I am usually soft when getting fucked. I love to bottom. I mean really love it. Does not mastery if it is a cock or toys i am soft even though i am tended on. Sometimes i get hard but usually love it when entered. I love the way it feels to be fucked and it is separate from my cock. When i get close to cuming, surgery from manual stimulation or from being fucked i get semi hard then have the best orgasms.
 
Its more natural for a bottom to lose his hard-on during anal sex. Most bottoms only care about getting fucked and getting the top off. Pay no attention to porn, its not the real world of gay sex.
 
for me, it mostly depends on the position we are in, and how long the fuck session goes. i get VERY hard when i sit on my boyfriend. . . in fact, i am normally NOT hard when anticipating getting fucked, but the minute he starts to penetrate me, i get rock hard. then, i stay hard for 10 or 15 minutes. . depending on the position, sometimes harder than others. for extended fuck scenes and positions, i normally go semi hard for the 'duration'. . and get boned again when i feel like he is going to cum. again, depends on the scene, and if its a quick fuck or not. :D
 
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Do any of you bottoms like to start out hard, and let your dick go soft while your BF fucks you from behind? I love doing that. . . and then letting him push loads of precum out with his thrusts. Sometimes, that alone can make me cum.
 
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When I've seen porn with the bottom having a floppy cock, I think that it looks like he isn't enjoying himself. Maybe already been fucked several times that day, maybe high. Good to know that it can be just normal for him. I LOVE seeing a guy's hard cock sticking straight up or out, bouncing around as he is getting pounded.