Staying hard while bottoming

[BBB2.5]

Some guys are hard-wired to be able to get or maintain an erection while being fucked. Others are hard-wired not to be able.

I sometimes get kinda half-hard but that usually has more to do with what, if any, foreplay came beforehand. I don't really pay any attention to my dick when I'm getting fucked; all of my focus is on the super intense pleasure I feel from getting my hole fucked, and how much I love to get deep dicked and used by a horned up guy to get his nut.

Whether I get an erection or not is completely separate from whether I'm enjoying it, or sexually stimulated.

A great explanation, the same applies to me. For me it's all about the pleasure of taking dick .... !!!!

 

[StuJr]

I also think that since I’m a bit of an exhibitionist, I get and stay hard because it’s a turn on that I am being fully exposed and my partner is seeing me in a very intimate position. He can see the full size of my dick, the way it points, how I trim my pubic hair, the texture of my balls, the look on my face, etc... He sees me in a position that is normally hidden from the rest of the world.

 

[ArabicBottom]

I honestly can’t stay hard when I’m getting fucked. I’m 100% a bottom and usually staying hard throughout is... hard.

However, I cum hands free if my prostate gets rubbed well enough. I’ve had anal orgasms that last 15 mins or so and wouldn’t trade them for getting hard and jerking off

 

[Colfelt]

I never understood how some guys cannot stay hard while bottoming. I’m always hard while bottoming, or else I’m not into it. Same if in topping, if the guy is not hard I’m not into it because i like to see a hard dick flopping as I fuck him.

 

[glp372_]

for me if the prep/foreplay was a little rushed it may take me a bit to get fully hard, but I always end up rock solid while getting fucked anyway, that just affects how quickly. it’ll happen with or without dick stimulation for me too

 

[10285021]

I occasionally get a bit softer if really big toys are being used and I have to focus, but otherwise rock hard.

 

[Tomtom10]

I wonder how many guys stay hard while they are being fucked, and how many lose their erection.

I am versatile and I know when I am the bottom, I get extremely hard and stay hard until I cum. If I'm even slightly soft when we start, the blood rushes straight to my cock when I'm entered. I've seen porn where the guy is extremely soft, just flopping around, and I couldn't understand how that could be.

My current partner is one of those guys who gets soft. He must like it because he wants me to do it to him, though. I even offer to bottom and he wants me to top.

So do you lose your hard on while bottoming?

I always lose my hard on when bottoming - literally as soon as i'm penetrated, I can feel it subsiding. That doesn't mean I'm not enjoying it...the feelings and sensations are exquisite. Maybe some of us guys just can't handle so much stimulation so our bodies focus on one haha! I can just about maintain an erection if I constantly stimulate my cock, but it makes sex an effort so I tend to just go with the flow and let it go soft. So yeah - I'm one of those guys who is totally soft and flopping about. I find it kinda hot to watch soft guys being penetrate though - amplifies the power and dominance of the top!

 

[dfw051980]

interesting replies.
From a tops perspective - most if the guys ive topped are hard at some point while im fucking them. Now i do think it all depends on the situation and bottom and how he likes it. I feel like its rare that when i fuck a guy doggy style or from behind him that they are hard or can stay hard. Ive been told my length, girth works in their favor for stimulation especially when they ride me. Also I think my slight curve in my cock helps breaks through their wall and hits their spot perfectly when they either ride me or i fuck them missionary with them on their back. Id say most guys when they ride me are hard and can cum fairly easily this way.

I think thats also a reason bottoms like poppers it relaxes but yet stimulates them so they can take dick but also get hard and cum while getting fucked.

But as stated from other guys who bottom i think it really depends on situation and which way you like to be fucked.

 

[dfw051980]

I always lose my hard on when bottoming - literally as soon as i'm penetrated, I can feel it subsiding. That doesn't mean I'm not enjoying it...the feelings and sensations are exquisite. Maybe some of us guys just can't handle so much stimulation so our bodies focus on one haha! I can just about maintain an erection if I constantly stimulate my cock, but it makes sex an effort so I tend to just go with the flow and let it go soft. So yeah - I'm one of those guys who is totally soft and flopping about. I find it kinda hot to watch soft guys being penetrate though - amplifies the power and dominance of the top!

I love both aspects. I love fucking a dude and watching his cock flop around while we fuck (especially if hes hung). But it totally gets me off to to see my bottom hard while im inside them, that drives me crazy.

 

[hunghardandleaking]

A great explanation, the same applies to me. For me it's all about the pleasure of taking dick .... !!!!

This is exactly me when I am bottoming haha

 

[OzCock2009]

For me being fucked is an incredibly intense experience. I usually get and stay very hard, leak heavily and, cum really fast when being fucked.

 

[BBB2.5]

This is exactly me when I am bottoming haha

I think there are a lot of bottoms who feel the same way. As a side note, I bet fucking you with all that dick, it would not matter if you were hard or not ... LOL

 

[hunghardandleaking]

I think there are a lot of bottoms who feel the same way. As a side note, I bet fucking you with all that dick, it would not matter if you were hard or not ... LOL

I will say I haven't had any complaint so far

 

[Rex3611]

Not only can I not stay hard when getting pounded. I've only had one orgasm the whole time I've been sexually active. I usually show up to get them off. I stopped trying to cum because tops don't have the patience.

 

[Lehnsherr]

I'm almost always rock hard and I pre-cum a lot. I couldn't imagine it any other way. Most tops are surprised how hard I get and enjoy grabbing my dick while fucking me.

 

[Doodlepip001]

I love both, but do go soft when I'm bottom. I love the sensations of having a guy inside me, but I think my body becomes totally focused on those sensations in my arse, rather than any sensations on my dick.

 

[Here_Now]

Being versatile, I am always erect. Bottom, top, top, bottom...I'm rock hard (no drugs of any type ever). Even after an orgasm, I stay erect. I would love to find a guy who stays hard like I do, but I have not met anyone who can. I've learned not to take it personally when I am topping them.

 

[LatinBubbleButt1]

As a bottom I don’t get hard at all. I just really get off on the sensation of having a dick up my ass, getting fucked and knowing their getting off too. It doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying it by not getting hard.

 

[chrisrobin]

I wonder how many guys stay hard while they are being fucked, and how many lose their erection.

I am versatile and I know when I am the bottom, I get extremely hard and stay hard until I cum. If I'm even slightly soft when we start, the blood rushes straight to my cock when I'm entered. I've seen porn where the guy is extremely soft, just flopping around, and I couldn't understand how that could be.

My current partner is one of those guys who gets soft. He must like it because he wants me to do it to him, though. I even offer to bottom and he wants me to top.

So do you lose your hard on while bottoming?

As soon as that cock tickles my asshole my cock is rampant and remains that way till it cums and the fucker cums, only on retraction does it subside.

 

[9ariari0]

I am vers myself, and when I do bottom, I lose the erection straight away, but once I get comfortable with being fucked I regain it back and can stay hard until I cum. I just wish that one day I will be able to cum hands free while getting fucked.