Staying hard while bottoming

[Gomez02]

For me it truly depends on who I’m with, often times I’m soft when getting fucked but I believe it’s mostly because I don’t really care for the person and the sex but when I’m with someone who I really like and engaged with than I’m hard

 

[hale989]

If I’m getting pounded by a hung dude, I tend to lose my erection. Too many other sensations going on to stay hard.

With average size cocks I can stay hard.

 

[deleted21371071]

Historically, I've always been rock hard during sex. Top, bottom - whatever, it's solid. Two nights ago though, I had the weirdest experience.

Hooked up with a Grindr dude - we'd had a session a few weeks ago and he was pretty good. 7" or so and a keen little fucker, so thought I'd hit him up again for a bit of fun. We're fucking pretty intensely, he's flipping me over in all sorts of positions and after a while I can really feel him grinding up against my prostate - it felt immense. I'm super fucking horny, loving every minute of it, and he flips me on my back and starts ploughing me again - feels incredible....I go to grab my dick to jerk it and I'm taken by surprise - it's flopping around, flacid. Yet I'm fucking turned on, every part of me was enjoying it and I felt hard, but wasn't. He fucked me so good I came all over myself - this limp little semi pumping it out!

Just needed to share, first time that's ever happened.

 

[Subbttmcub]

Being a total bottom like I am I never really worried about staying hard, I ussally get hard at first esically if I start by sucking the guy first But often I am to shy about my cock size so of I already naked I never do get hard, but I do love the feeling of Cumming while soft

 

[rockhardbttm]

I never understood how some guys cannot stay hard while bottoming. I’m always hard while bottoming, or else I’m not into it. Same if in topping, if the guy is not hard I’m not into it because i like to see a hard dick flopping as I fuck him.

Total bottom here... I'm always a complete brick when getting fucked. Nothing makes me harder. The better to top the harder I get. Yeah... I don't understand those guys saying oh I only focus on my hole. So do most bottoms and I rarely even touch my dick when getting fucked but it's still hard af! Not something I have to think about.

 

[jamesbnyc]

My limp dick feels little at all, but I guess you could say my asshole gets rock hard for cock!

 

[John-Z23]

Having anything up my ass, be it a prostate stimulator, dildo, fingers, or an actual cock, will involuntarily cause me to get an erection. As a matter of fact, when I mentally feel like masturbating but can’t get an erection, I just put a dildo in, and presto, problem solved. But I will say that when I orgasm with something up my ass, I cum with a lot less volume. I think this is because the same muscle movement that causes me to skeet (I’ve always thought of it as "bare down to pee and pull up to skeet") also requires my anal sphincter to clinch.

So if I have something up my ass and my hole can’t close all the way, I don’t orgasm nearly as hard. So when I cum from an actual cock, I usually just dripple cum out rather than shoot it any distance. My tops do love the gripping though! So likewise, when I’m playing by myself, I will usually remove the toy (dildo, prostate stimulator, etc) right before I cum, for maximum effect.

 

[chrisrobin]

I wonder how many guys stay hard while they are being fucked, and how many lose their erection.

I am versatile and I know when I am the bottom, I get extremely hard and stay hard until I cum. If I'm even slightly soft when we start, the blood rushes straight to my cock when I'm entered. I've seen porn where the guy is extremely soft, just flopping around, and I couldn't understand how that could be.

My current partner is one of those guys who gets soft. He must like it because he wants me to do it to him, though. I even offer to bottom and he wants me to top.

So do you lose your hard on while bottoming?

Always have a rock-hard erection when being fucked, many times I even cum hands-free.
In porn it is not real and there are many stimulants used, hence the bottom is just meat to be serviced by a hard cock