str8 men gay porn

[fortiesfun]

Sexual orientation is made up of three independent parts: identity, desire, and behavior. We'd think that those all have to line up with each other, but they often don't.

Most men have a strong personal self-image of heterosexuality. Many of those men can watch all kinds of porn, including totally gay porn, get highly turned on, and still find themselves desiring sex with women only. And their personal sex life is made up of MF interaction only.

But other men, who still have a str8 personal identity mix the other two elements in other ways. They sometimes desire both men and women, but only act on their desires with women. They sometime only desire women, but still occasionally have MM sex, as in the old "a blow job is a blow job no matter who is giving it."

And, of course, we've known since Kinsey that most men have a certain fluidity over time. They experience some level of desire for men at some point in their lives, and they have some sexual contact with other men at some point in their lives. Yet most still think of themselves as basically straight.

None of this has anything to do with gay vs. straight. I'm not speaking at all of men with bi or gay sexual identities, of which, of course, there are many in this world including me.

So in answer to the OP's question, it isn't really the "input" that matters. What you watch doesn't determine who you feel you are, what you desire, or what you do. Straight men can watch gay porn and still be straight. If they still feel str8, feel desire for women, and act on their desires with women, even the most fastidious taxonomist would still agree that they are totally straight. (As in a Kinsey "0")

But, if they find gay porn arouses desire for men, and want to act out with men. That is a different story. Then they should PM me immediately...:tongue:

 

[jfrsndvs]

there has been some interesting replies to this question.

just because a str8 man will watch gay porn, I don't think makes him gay, he is only desires actual contact with a woman, then I think that makes him str8, now if he has some desires to be with another man and acts upon them, then he is at least bi-sexual.

there was a question about lesbian porn, yes in my opinion that is considered gay porn, it's the same sex porn, though many many men get off on that, that is because the content is women, just as many women will watch 2 men having sex, it's their attraction to men.

personally to me, if a guy considers himself 100% st8 or 50% gay or whatever the percentage, who really cares, it all depends on the person themselves, at least a str8 man can admit that he has seen and enjoyed gay porn, there are many reasons a str8 man can enjoy gay porn, whether it's to learn new j/o techniques, compare sizes, to see if gay men are more hung or whatever, that doesn't make him gay, just as a gay man who watches str8 porn doesn't make him str8.

 

[WildHoney]

Watching porn is purely fantasy in my opinion. I am not bi woman but can totally get turned on by watching ANY well done hot porn, be it FF , MFFFF , MMM or whatever.

Porn is not reality, your watching hot sex with hot cocks, or hot chicks, most red blooded males will tune in to that as sexy. Doesn't mean you want to act on it.

Hell I have some fantasies that would have me arrested, doesn't make me a pervert ( or does it? :tongue: )

:smile:
Honey

P.S hubby doesn't like gay porn at all, the only one who watches two guys get it on in this house is ME :biggrin1:

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

I am not really into porn, i look at it seldom. Porn movies make me incontrollably laugh! Don't ask me why, but the faces tehy pull, the moves, everything is so grottesque that it is funny.

Maybe i prefer pictures.

 

[classyron]

I think that it does all come down to identifying. I, personally, do not enjoy watching lesbians because I cannot project myself into the fantasy. For a straight man that is extremely rare (I know, I have asked every guy I know). I answered that I watch gay and straight because I have watched gay porn, but I do not JO to it. I can see myself jerking to other guys masturbating because I like to watch myself masturbate, thus the 1% in my profile. I get aroused by the idea of sex, so I am sure that I would get hard watching gay sex, but it is not my preference. I actually prefer fairly vanilla sex, but my big thing is watching people masturbate. I always have to finish looking at a woman.

This is an interesting poll.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

I, personally, do not enjoy watching lesbians because I cannot project myself into the fantasy. For a straight man that is extremely rare (I know, I have asked every guy I know).

Doubtful. They are just saying what they think others would say or what they think you want to hear. I get this from my brothers-in-law all the time. It's impossible to know what posturing guys really think.

 

[NovaBone]

I'll watch any kind of porn -- gay, straight, bi -- as long as the cocks are big, the people are attractive and the sex is intense and steamy.

 

[dags]

Interesting thread. As our current society has set the guidelines thus far I reluctantly will classify myself as in the gay catagory. Labels Labels Labels!
Anyway I watch and get off on straight or gay porn. I'm pretty sure none of my gay friends do, I must not be totally gay. Glad none of my gay friends KNOW I also watch straight porn, I would never hear the end of it!

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Glad none of my gay friends KNOW I also watch straight porn, I would never her the end of it!

Yeah, there's a bit of reverse discrimination isn't there. That's something I react against--that I have to fit anyone's neat little preconceptions.

 

[Jason321]

Love watching beefy muscular hairy man to man sex. They must be hugely muscular, hairy chest, hairy legs etc. Rough men. Think men of Ragingstallion. Thats just my liking anyway. Ps 80/20 here. And yes, i jerk off watching them

 

[beltboy]

I do think that we can separate the visual from the experiential. Gay porn is interesting and arousing to watch, but that does not mean one necessarily wants to engage in the act...

 

[EBlend]

Interesting thread. As our current society has set the guidelines thus far I reluctantly will classify myself as in the gay catagory. Labels Labels Labels!
Anyway I watch and get off on straight or gay porn. I'm pretty sure none of my gay friends do, I must not be totally gay. Glad none of my gay friends KNOW I also watch straight porn, I would never hear the end of it!

You're not the only one in this category! I'm gay, but I watch straight porn, bi porn, and even lesbian porn sometimes! And while some gay guys think I'm weird, those friends who I can talk about this stuff with usually just shrug and laugh.

 

[D_Ollyvalle Treegirth]

funny, i'm gay and i watch a lot of straight porn.....

this is exactly what i was gonna say. Dunno why it can get me off so much but it does.:biggrin1:

(maybe we all DO have fluid sexuality after all...)

 

[D_Ollyvalle Treegirth]

The funny thing about "straight" porn is that it is amazing how much it focuses on the guy's dick. It focuses on the dick while it's thrusting into a vagina, or getting sucked by a girl's mouth, and then there's always a close-up when it shoots it's "product."

Now, it's commonly known that "maintstream porn" is marketed to guys, so, you have to get the idea that guys - no matter wehther they consider themselves straight, bi, gay - like to see dicks and see them working.

Fact of life folks.

seems to me the presence of a dick is just a mechanism to allow a str8 male viewer to imagine himself in the scene....I wouldnt assume it means the guy has any "gay" percentage at all. It's akin to the way we usually identify with a particular character in a movie, and get more emotionally invoilved that way.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

I gotta disagree...

I know a few guys so straight that the sight of a dick in a porn movie ruins it for them... they would prefer just girl on girl action.

I think the vast majority of men, regardless of what their actual preferences are, are pretty much turned on by ANYTHING sexual.... especially cocks.

Guys who won't watch gay porn... mostly don't want to watch it because the fact that its hot makes them feel uncomfortable about themselves....

The difference between soft and hard porn is the erect cock.

If you like porn... you like cock.


Doesn't necessarily mean you're gay... I think it means you're normal.

As I have said before... I think we men are pretty much capable of successfully fucking a cantaloupe, if horny enough...

I think the measure of your gayness is not whether you like to look or suck...

Its how much you want to kiss and cuddle another guy.

Gay or straight is about who you are attracted to as an intimate more than just what makes your dick work.

I want to be with women... Sex with women is the best it gets... that's the mental and emotional preference.

But my dick works just as well if its a guy sucking on it, even though I have no interest in kissing him.

 

[EBlend]

I have to agree there. I've had people ask me how I can say I'm gay if I like pussies too. I always say it's because I FALL IN LOVE with guys more easily. I like women, I love them as friends, I get turned on by pussy, but I don't make the connection of being in love with the whole woman (I think a lot like the straight guys who like dick.) I love to kiss guys, feel so-so about it with women, though I sometimes get horny as all get out seeing pussy.

So to connect this to the original post, I myself could understand about a straight guy even wanting to be sexual with another guy, but still seeing himself as straight because he's not in love with the guy.

 

[hairyman101]

i still say all men have a "gay gene" some alot more than others. i am gay but if im horny enough and there is woman with her pussy all wet and warm dont think im going to say "go away bitch" im not a flaming gay...maybe thats why. i just want sex somehow...someway.

 

[redheadbubblebutt]

I absolutely love to watch gay porn but I don't know if I'll ever actually go through with having sex with another guy. I like to fantasize about it but as far as actually pursuing it is concerned I've never had enough of an inclination. There's only one guy I've met my entire life that I've fantasized about having sex with. There are some porn stars I've fantasized about but out of the 200-300 porn stars I've seen I'd like to have sex with only about 3 or 4 of them. I'm REALLY picky when it comes to cocks. It isn't just about length for me. It's also about shape. And I think I've only seen 2 male porn stars that had asses that turned me on. When it comes to female porn stars there are hundreds of them that I'd like to fuck and most of them have asses that turn me on.

 

[223790]

I absolutely love to watch gay porn but I don't know if I'll ever actually go through with having sex with another guy. I like to fantasize about it but as far as actually pursuing it is concerned I've never had enough of an inclination. There's only one guy I've met my entire life that I've fantasized about having sex with.

Exactly how I feel. I watch it at times because it is different - a break from the ordinary. Could I ever do it myself - NO. It's just a fantasy. I'm both intrigued by it and repulsed by it at the same time. I've had opportuinities to do it before, but I couldn't. It just didn't feel right. I do still however fantasize about it. As for me - 3 guys that I've known that I've fantasized about. I never did anything about it because they were good friends and I didn't want to damage our friendships. I'm not really friends with these guys anymore. We are all married (to women) and these guys all have kids now. One I was attracted to on an emotional and physical level, and the 2 others on a purely physical level (no personality but incredibly attractive). It sure made it hard to be in the locker room and shower with them! The funny thing is that they were checking me out just as much as I was checking them out. Maybe they felt the same way I did? I still jerk off thinking about it.

 

[lewis27529]

I love having sex with a girl and having another guy there as well fucking her with me. It's all fair