Straight Friend Sending Snaps

[Bsj]

Can someone help me out with this.

A friend of mine likes to workout. He posts on his snap here and there after his workout fully clothed, I usually swipe up and compliment him. He has his own gym at his house.

Recently, he started sending me snaps of him taking pre-workout, sometimes him doing sets and sometimes just a gym selfie. The last three pictures have been of him with a hard on.

Today, he sent me a full body video of him flexing his arms, he was hard on the video and he flexed his dick too.

He seems to have a big dick, I would like to compliment him about it and see where things go. I just don’t know how to go about it.

 

[deleted136887]

If I send pics of me withba hard on, I would expect compliments.

 

[17264491]

Can someone help me out with this.

A friend of mine likes to workout. He posts on his snap here and there after his workout fully clothed, I usually swipe up and compliment him. He has his own gym at his house.

Recently, he started sending me snaps of him taking pre-workout, sometimes him doing sets and sometimes just a gym selfie. The last three pictures have been of him with a hard on.

Today, he sent me a full body video of him flexing his arms, he was hard on the video and he flexed his dick too.

He seems to have a big dick, I would like to compliment him about it and see where things go. I just don’t know how to go about it.

Does he know your sexuality or preferences/tendencies ? Have you ever subtly hinted that you do/may like guys too?

You could use humor and ask him what he lifts to make his crotch muscle grow like that & see if he bites.

 

[Bsj]

Does he know your sexuality or preferences/tendencies ? Have you ever subtly hinted that you do/may like guys too?

You could use humor and ask him what he lifts to make his crotch muscle grow like that & see if he bites.

No he doesn’t know my sexuality, nor have I hinted that either.

I do wanna make a comment/joke about it but I don’t know how or what to say. I don’t wanna say something and ruin the friendship lol

 

[Bsj]

If I send pics of me withba hard on, I would expect compliments.

What kind of compliments would you expect? I don’t wanna say something that might ruin our friendship.

 

[deleted8421221]

What kind of compliments would you expect? I don’t wanna say something that might ruin our friendship.

Don’t think he’s worried about that. He’s trying to see how you’d respond. Give it a shot by complimenting him. See where it goes…. And maybe share here???

 

[deleted136887]

What kind of compliments would you expect? I don’t wanna say something that might ruin our friendship.

"Wow.
I did not realize you had such a huge cock"
would make my day.

 

[Inkzuku]

"Wow.
I did not realize you had such a huge cock"
would make my day.

Typically i feel like people wouldn't use the word cock to just throw around a nice first compliment to someone's package lol. If you still wanna go the same route but make it seem more subtle you could just say "wow i did not realize you were so huge dude" idk lol whenever I come off too strong it tends to scare em away or weird em out.

 

[deleted136887]

Typically i feel like people wouldn't use the word cock to just throw around a nice first compliment to someone's package lol. If you still wanna go the same route but make it seem more subtle you could just say "wow i did not realize you were so huge dude" idk lol whenever I come off too strong it tends to scare em away or weird em out.

Appreciate your comments.
I do feel that the question was directed at me, and that would would have impressed my totally. Of course thats my take only.
However, I do not send nude pics of myself to gay friends.
They have seen me naked on nude beaches, changing rooms etc, and I have been complimented , and I appreciate it from men, as well as women.
Just as I give compliments to my friends.

 

[Bsj]

Appreciate your comments.
I do feel that the question was directed at me, and that would would have impressed my totally. Of course thats my take only.
However, I do not send nude pics of myself to gay friends.
They have seen me naked on nude beaches, changing rooms etc, and I have been complimented , and I appreciate it from men, as well as women.
Just as I give compliments to my friends.

Well the thing is that he didn’t send a nude picture of him. He sent me a video of him fully clothed flexing his arms, he was wearing sweatpants and you could clearly see he had was hard.

 

[Bsj]

Typically i feel like people wouldn't use the word cock to just throw around a nice first compliment to someone's package lol. If you still wanna go the same route but make it seem more subtle you could just say "wow i did not realize you were so huge dude" idk lol whenever I come off too strong it tends to scare em away or weird em out.

Thank you for this, I don’t wanna come out to strong at him and scare him away.

 

[Assman1]

If a guy is sending pictures of himself hard to other men, not women......

 

[Assman1]

Duh

 

[deleted136887]

Well the thing is that he didn’t send a nude picture of him. He sent me a video of him fully clothed flexing his arms, he was wearing sweatpants and you could clearly see he had was hard.

OK!
I was under the impression he sent you a nude pic of him with a hardon.
So that obviously changes things .
Still....He did send you a pic.
Just a
" You look good" will do then?

 

[Assman1]

OK!
I was under the impression he sent you a nude pic of him with a hardon.
So that obviously changes things .
Still....He did send you a pic.
Just a
" You look good" will do then?

Well then, yeah, that does change things. My apologies.

 

[deleted136887]

Well then, yeah, that does change things. My apologies.

no apology needed, I did not take offense.

 

[chrisrobin]

Can someone help me out with this.

A friend of mine likes to workout. He posts on his snap here and there after his workout fully clothed, I usually swipe up and compliment him. He has his own gym at his house.

Recently, he started sending me snaps of him taking pre-workout, sometimes him doing sets and sometimes just a gym selfie. The last three pictures have been of him with a hard on.

Today, he sent me a full body video of him flexing his arms, he was hard on the video and he flexed his dick too.

He seems to have a big dick, I would like to compliment him about it and see where things go. I just don’t know how to go about it.

Certainly he's after some sort of reply even if the pix are of him erect but clothed, cant be as if he didn't know he had a boner - so even if you only complimenting him on all his hard muscles...

 

[17264491]

Certainly he's after some sort of reply even if the pix are of him erect but clothed, cant be as if he didn't know he had a boner - so even if you only complimenting him on all his hard muscles...

I partially concur. His endorphin high may have clouded his perception that he was hard & showing. He may get that after every workout & he's unaware as to how it comes off when sending these snaps.

 

[17264491]

No he doesn’t know my sexuality, nor have I hinted that either.

I do wanna make a comment/joke about it but I don’t know how or what to say. I don’t wanna say something and ruin the friendship lol

Do you see him often? I suggest practicing the aloof tone for your humorous comment and when ready, make it in person. I have seen so many people miss sarcasm or be tone-deaf when just reading that same comment and it gets taken the wrong way.

Good luck & keep us posted.

 

[chrisrobin]

I partially concur. His endorphin high may have clouded his perception that he was hard & showing. He may get that after every workout & he's unaware as to how it comes off when sending these snaps.

Oh I think he knows he's sporting an erection, no-one sends pictures without looking at them first and a large hard protrusion in the groin area wouldn't have been missed - its if he's going to the next level of showing his major wood in the flesh