I have read a lot of threads on LPSG about guys in a hetero marriage who are bi, or curious and struggle with holding off their same-sex desires or curiosities. Those posts and threads have given great perspective to me.
What about guys married or in relationships with another dude, but have hetero attractions or desires? My husband and I have been partners for three years. Back in my high school days, I dated guys and gals and it was very enjoyable. After my husband and I got married, I have been entirely monogomous, but I am finding myself more and more interested in girls again. If my husband were not fully gay, we would have already just had a MMF threesome, but he has no desire for that anymore.
Before I get the standard 'be faithful, do not cheat!' diatribes, anything that is decided is full disclosure with my husband. I will not be trying forbidden fruit. It would only be with his full permission, and ground rules.
That said, he hates the idea of me being with a girl, or a MMF. How do I reconcile my growing desires for a girl with my gay marriage?
What about guys married or in relationships with another dude, but have hetero attractions or desires? My husband and I have been partners for three years. Back in my high school days, I dated guys and gals and it was very enjoyable. After my husband and I got married, I have been entirely monogomous, but I am finding myself more and more interested in girls again. If my husband were not fully gay, we would have already just had a MMF threesome, but he has no desire for that anymore.
Before I get the standard 'be faithful, do not cheat!' diatribes, anything that is decided is full disclosure with my husband. I will not be trying forbidden fruit. It would only be with his full permission, and ground rules.
That said, he hates the idea of me being with a girl, or a MMF. How do I reconcile my growing desires for a girl with my gay marriage?