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Subtle Humiliation
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Subtle humiliation is the best. Whether it is just the top saying "you like my big cock, huh?" or by frotting the smaller guy to show him who is boss. Even urinals are hot when two guys realise one is way bigger than the other. That knowledge can never be undone!
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I'm not saying that's EVERY guy who prefers huge cocks. But I think it is the majority. A lot of guy aren't quick to admit it, but at some point it usually comes out. Gay guys are actually a bit more open to smaller guys though, than say bi, curious, or str8 guys. The last 3 are usually just looking for a giant walking cock and balls.
I think some of us just have a minor preference for big cocks (I would describe my own preference as merely above average). I not only would and have played with average sized ones and enjoyed it, but I would even be willing to play with a somewhat below average sized one. Which I doubt really adds up to size king/queen. So the "keep the small cocks away from me" attitude you represented before is definitely not me.
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I love this actually. I'm probably about 8 or so fully hard and it hangs close to that when limp. Size isn't an issue for me in terms of picking a partner but I get turned on when I guy is smaller than me and does or says something that tells me he is at least a little insecure. I see it more with rentboys than I do with casual pickups from cruising, bars, clubs, or on line contacts. Especially if the rentboy is relatively new to the profession, I've had them say things like "Sorry its not bigger," or "Is this okay?" That really sends me.
In those situations I offer low key reassurance and as the night goes on my partner will see I'm okay with it. I could not ever diminish someone like that ever.
Many years ago there was an area outside the campus of not Johns-Hopkins University in Baltimore where college guys looks for hook up and a few to turn tricks. This was pre-internet. I picked up a nice looking blond - of legal age - guy and he said right away "I really need some help today (meaning $$). I asked how much and he gave a low number and I said ok. We went back to my hotel and he was slow to undress. He said, "I'm really not very big, if that's okay" and I assured him he would be fine but he really kept going on about it. He was small when limp - about three inches, but when we got it standing up he was a respectable 5 or so, and he performed like a champ - very enthusiastic. I was happy to tip him more and we met a few times over the years he was in Baltimore. Last I heard he was a lawyer in New York.
But - to get back on point - the rush that he felt insecure and maybe a little humiliation was an incredible rush, and the fact I encouraged him gave me a power in the relationship that was really, to me very hot.
In those situations I offer low key reassurance and as the night goes on my partner will see I'm okay with it. I could not ever diminish someone like that ever.
Many years ago there was an area outside the campus of not Johns-Hopkins University in Baltimore where college guys looks for hook up and a few to turn tricks. This was pre-internet. I picked up a nice looking blond - of legal age - guy and he said right away "I really need some help today (meaning $$). I asked how much and he gave a low number and I said ok. We went back to my hotel and he was slow to undress. He said, "I'm really not very big, if that's okay" and I assured him he would be fine but he really kept going on about it. He was small when limp - about three inches, but when we got it standing up he was a respectable 5 or so, and he performed like a champ - very enthusiastic. I was happy to tip him more and we met a few times over the years he was in Baltimore. Last I heard he was a lawyer in New York.
But - to get back on point - the rush that he felt insecure and maybe a little humiliation was an incredible rush, and the fact I encouraged him gave me a power in the relationship that was really, to me very hot.
As a small guy (4.5" x 4.5") it's really hot to hear about a hung guy who's really nice and would never intentionally make a small guy feel bad about his size, but who nevertheless gets off on unavoidably intimidating a small-dicked guy. Do any other hung guys feel this way? And maybe have even had long-time relationships with the small guy?
My ex was about 5 or so, full hard, very thin. Limp is was about 3 or so. He was Korean-American. He had his issues, but his dick size was never a problem. We were together around 11 years. I never looked anywhere else for sex when we were together.
I have a black friend who is hung very large. He's fucked me many times.
Whenever he sees me he exclaims "my little dick white boy, How are you and then he grabs my ass and pokes my hole.
I get excited just writing this. I love it.
To be a submissive is great.
Whenever he sees me he exclaims "my little dick white boy, How are you and then he grabs my ass and pokes my hole.
I get excited just writing this. I love it.
To be a submissive is great.
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I love this whole concept. Not overt humiliation, just the accepted fact between the two guys that the bigger one is better, that the smaller guy should service the bigger guy and be happy with that. I read a post somewhere about a buy being told "I'm never going to bottom for you because I have the bigger cock", and I just loved that even though the poster didn't. I've always wished I could meet a bigger guy with that attitude.
Hell, this was my life back when my husband and I only played together. I was always the smallest in the room, and if I had a top over, he usually became a bottom for my husband. Only once did the top not bottom--said he could not take my husband's dick.
It was not overt humiliation, but it was a case of me being ignored by the hung while they had the best sex. It was hot, yes, but damn...almost every time.
It was not overt humiliation, but it was a case of me being ignored by the hung while they had the best sex. It was hot, yes, but damn...almost every time.
I'm surprised by how many "small" guys really want to be ridiculed and humiliated and say that it really turns them on. I would never intentionally hurt anyone, but if it turns them on I can cooperate. I am more in to the encounter where a smaller guy is really turned on by how enormous my penis is compared to his small one. Even many guys that are in the normal range seem to get really excited by the size difference and want to talk about it.
When I was in the military we would all shower together..like sometimes 15 men all showering together. There was always a lot of banter about how much bigger my penis size was compared to almost everyone else. It was always done in fun and none of the smaller guys were ridiculed. I loved all the looking and comments in those military showers
Love the subtle/playful humiliation. The glances. Smirks. Knowing that even though nothing is said outright what they're clearly thinking, especially when they brag.
Met quite a few guys that like their bottoms small. Like the contrast. Etc.
Met quite a few guys that like their bottoms small. Like the contrast. Etc.
