Hah, I'm in the same boat as Scarlet! If my libido was any higher I'd break something, and it wouldn't be a part of me! Either a weenie or a Magic Wand, and I've already burnt out one of those. The Magic Wand, not the weenie, although I've come close!
Stress is a mood killer. And we're both under stress right now. But it's affecting him differently.