Taking It Up The Ass

[B_The Greek Dude]

Have a nice weekend.

Have a nice unsafe drop in blood pressure via your drug of choice.

 

[dansk1]

You need to savor it, ride it slow and easy, and concentrate on the good feeling -- and that's all! To get pounded and for someone to go too fast will make it another week with no sitting down.

 

[hot-rod]

Get yourself a stainless steel hose and dildo to hook to your shower head. Lay down in the tub on your back and clean yourself out really good. Don't rush because it will take about 45 min to do it well. Use warm water too. Then take a rather long dildo and start to fuck yourself until you have it all the way up. The more you do this, the more relaxed you become. Then you will be ready to take one up the butt the size of Quercusone. mfg: :aargh4:

 

[salvatruco]

I've had a couple of big cocks, and I have honestly been able to work with it. Part of it is they have been very experienced, compared to me. I know that with one guy, it was so big that we couldn't do it doggy style. Doggy style can be uncomfortable with a big guy until you are used to it with other positions. When it is too big, I usually go for my legs over his shoulders. This position seems to be the least uncomfortable.

Also, spooning position is not bad. I think you just have to relax and take some deep breaths. Lube is great and once you have speed going, he can pound you as much as he wants, just let him know when you are tired.

 

[fistbottom]

toys whilst wanking

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Firstly ignore whatever you see in porn. Those guys have been taking it for years, some of need a little more patience and gentleness to get warmed up. Dont him shove it in deep first go, that just hurts like a bitch. Start slow and gradually ease into it. And remember as he is pushing in you push out, it'll open your ass and make it much easier to take him.

Lube up and enjoy the ride

 

[Jason321]

U see Frank! Lotsa lube! Try dildos up ur ass while wanking!

 

[B_boynextdoorkpt]

I worry about that too, that anal stuff, but I think that when I meet him, he will know what to do and I will be ready to do it, right Monster? lol
landon

 

[220483]

THANKS for all the advice [withpoppers or not... ] specially the NOT living in a porn flick one! THAT'S the most important thing... IT'S just not, drop your pants and lets shove it in... TAKE time, use lube, relax and HAVE fun!

for all the asking ones, YES, it's me in the avatar and you can see more in the thread:
http://www.lpsg.org/87748-new-pics-white-tuxedo.html

have FUN and ENJOY!

 

[EdWoody]

If you don't enjoy it, why try? There is no shortage of bottoms in the Gay community. But sometimes it seems like there aren't any tops left at all.

They just did a study in London, and there were literally twice as many self-professed bottoms as tops.

 

[kudo451]

Personally I really can't say what the right answer for you is though I can identify with your situation. I got curious about taking it as a bottom some years ago and though successful, I still feel like I have a ways to go.

I find when you get past the drug suggestions and the slut advice (do I really need a bag of dildos lying around--I don't think so), it starts to boil down to the real issues of giving yourself up to another guy. How it makes you feel about your own manhood: and most of all--who really wants to fuck around with shit?!

The answers for me where many,

A). It really takes the right guy to even get started. I am not the type to give it up to anyone. But I wanted to for "this guy" I really did and it worked out. Of course after that I kind of got a lot more successful with other guys, but that is another story.

B). It takes time to work out the misconceptions others have about bottoming that you may have rattling around in your own head; even in the heart of the gay community the feedback isn't necessarily positive. But I do think that a lot of resistance for many of us comes from not wanting to be grouped into the over-active total bottom stereotype.

C). Let's get practical!

1. Most guys seem to have a fairly clean colon for the first few inches. So spontaneous sex is not out of the question. But practicing giving yourself enemas wouldn't hurt. you only really need to clean out the colon, not the entire dietary track.

2. A dildo would only help you explore your own ass and what works for you. doesn't really help you take it better, but the experience in exploration might. Though a real cock is so much more effective.

3. Surprisingly, the best advice I ever got about taking it up the ass was from a good friend with an exclusively top boyfriend--with a big cock, take a hot bath or shower (as hot as you can stand it) just before sex if possible. For some reason it relaxes the colon and your internal muscles without getting everything loose.

All in all, the real goal is to build confidence so that you have some control over what you are getting yourself into...or in this case what you are letting get into you. The more confident you are about what is going on the more enjoyable and successful you will be.

 

[220483]

kudo451: AMAZING advice!
thanks a lot!

 

[Belly_Dancer]

toys whilst wanking

This short and sweet answer was going to be my advice exactly.

Even though I am a woman, the way I trained myself to respond to anal stimulation was to do it whilst masturbating, and then have orgasms with something in my ass. I found that the orgasms were much more intense. A gay male friend of mine says the same is true for him. So, I think if you train your body to associate it with pleasure, it helps. Taking a big cock up the ass still hurts a lot at first, but with the right lube, relaxation, and simultaneous stimulation to your genitals, the pain can become pleasure (or so I'm told). :wink:

 

[Freddie53]

I worry about that too, that anal stuff, but I think that when I meet him, he will know what to do and I will be ready to do it, right Monster? lol
landon

Landon I seriously doubt that Monster is the only guy on the LPSG that is lusting after your ass.:tongue:

The question about Monster is is there an ass here at LPSG that Monster is NOT lusting

 

[B_Nick4444]

THANKS for all the advice [withpoppers or not... ] specially the NOT living in a porn flick one! THAT'S the most important thing... IT'S just not, drop your pants and lets shove it in... TAKE time, use lube, relax and HAVE fun!

for all the asking ones, YES, it's me in the avatar and you can see more in the thread:
http://www.lpsg.org/87748-new-pics-white-tuxedo.html

have FUN and ENJOY!

damn! you're hot!

(come on over, I'll get you started the right way!):biggrin1:

 

[hot-rod]

That's terrible advice. You might as well suggest that he do a line of coke off of the guy's cock.

Oh that might be really good too!

 

[ericbear]

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