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Remember, the women here supposedly lie because all male issues are dimensional on their peens.
(Eyeroll)

I happen to think liars are liars and that happens to be an individual flaw not genetic. Insecurity doesn’t make an entire gender at fault.

 

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Ok, Elbow Lickee Max....
(I'd say that is a within the first few weeks comment)
I am a blabberfingers extraordinaire and can expound/lip off at length.
Guys care about length, I've learned.


Objectifying people is psychologically dangerous.
An entire generation of my people was destroyed because a charismatic leader made us the scapegoat of a nations problems.

It's the basis of violence, of genocide.

It's also rude on a one on one level.
This is why one should be kind to service workers, for example.
Recognize humanity.

Objectification creates an other, and we need to get beyond that limited view.

Now, in certain relationships or even one night scenarios, feeling objectified by someone you trust (I'm leaving out folx with mental issues who seek this randomly) can be incredibly arousing. Even at just one point in an evening.

Its similar to being subservient as a way to hand decision making over to someone else.

Am a babbling, or is this making sense?

I like that you differentiate between consensual sexual objectification and societal objectification (for lack of a better phrase). The latter is absolutely deadly and is partially where genocide is born. The former is sexually desired in those specific situations. I appreciate that you make these distinctions because it’s much easier to lump this all in one big basket of “disgusting mindsets that I will never understand”. Doing it this way gives freedom to those who love objectification as a kink and follow SSC.

I believe I understand now why you say objectification is a limited fetish. You would say it is limited by whom it can be safely employed with and by it’s inherent danger in the larger society. Is that correct?

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I’d also say limited in participants. You need to have a taste for it, in real time and not just as fantasy.