Mmmm, yes, shibari (Japanese rope bondage). So beautiful and erotic. Apparently, I am very lucky and in Toronto we have some excellent SM clubs with lots of bondage and wonderful examples of shibari. I've recently become very interested in learning how to do this on men and am taking applications for guinea pigs. :biggrin1:
Aside from my rope interest, which for me is more aesthetic-based than an SM fetish, I very much enjoy using my cuffs on a man for tactile play, tame ball stretching and edging. God, having a man at my mercy and edging him for hours, making him beg for release... (shudder) Few things make me wetter.