i totally agree.but alot of guys think just because they have a big penis they are wanted by every woman in town.thats far from the truth.they just make themselves out to look like idiots.this is a fact.madame_zora said:Yeah, I posted about this a while ago, but I'll tell it again. I asked a roomful of strippers about this and the answer is YES, size does matter. But everyone has a different preference, and in this group it was pretty even across the board. Some preferred smaller because they said their vaginas were not very deep and big ones hurt. The larger number preferred average because that's what fit the best. Only two of us like big ones, and we both knew our vaginas were deeper, so it's mostly a physical fit thing. Getting the right size matters, not the biggest size.
LordPendragon, your point is perfect and on target. FWIW most women are NOT size queens, neither would they appreciate being held to unrealistic standards.
sexycobra said:What about the "wow" factor (this has been discussed in other threads on this forum)?
In my experience, it may be that different women prefer different sizes, but it's always a little special for them when they meet a "big one" (and I'm certainly not the biggest around here). So yes, there is the issue of physical compatibility, but I would say (again based on my experience), that psychologically, a big dick is more exciting to see/play with for almost all women. Even though they may not be willing to admit it freely, their spontaneous reactions to seeing a big one are the best indicator as to whether it matters to them, psychologically at least.
madame_zora said:Size matters .... Everyone's different, so you'll just have to play it by ear, like we all do.
GottaBigOne said:Ok, madam, I fess up, my cock is really only 3" long, can you ever forgive me???? Will you still want to spank me??? WIll you?? Please??
madame_zora said:... I'd sell my left tit to hang out with you in a coffee shop and talk about anything at all.
Ahem. Quite a generalization. In fact, my current boyfriend is only the 4th man I've ever been with, and is the only one who is bigger than average.helio415 said:asking a question about what the women on this site see as the perfect size is totaly stupid. you should know that the women that visit this site are all size queens. so you know that the answer will be biased twards larger sizes.
madame_zora said:I need a guy to be able to reach my cervix (about 7") and have no preference about girth. This is a physical issue, not a "wow factor" thing. Once that goal is achieved, bigger isn't necessarily better or worse, skill is what is important. I'm NOT out on a hunt to find the biggest dick, just want to be satisfied.
shawnconfid said:That's my gf's situation exactly...
madame_zora said:If your realtionship is going well in other ares, try some toy play if she's open to that kind of experimentation. That way you two can both get what you want out of the experience. You could start out with whatever foreplay your both enjoy, then the traditional sex, THEN go for some dildo play after you've orgasmed. Most women take a while anyway, so she'll be good and hot by then, and seeing her squirm might just get you "up" for round two! I think it's cool that you are here looking for answers to improve your sex lives.
*edit- if she's like me, she might really enjoy you dangling your soft cock in her face while you do this so she can lick and suck on it while you do her with a dildo, fun for both and very hot.