How often do you make a move and end up having sex? i.e Puttting your hands in their pants. And how often does it seem to be like "one thing leads to another"? i.e We were just laying on the couch, joking, got too close and then bam! It was on. So basically, how often is it controlling or intuitive? Got a story to go along with it, I'll be proud to listen. I've never really took absolute control over a situation. It was sort of one thing lead to another, and there it was. I really never come off very forward, which is something I'm sure women, or men in someone else's case, love. Like I can't recall ever telling a girl "I wanna fuck you," without almost laughing at myself. But I admire that sort of boldness. Girls say it to me, instead, well after the fact I beat around the bush, making it so obvious I want to without having to say so. I'm like...flirty about it, not bend that ass over bitch about it.