titan1968
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I don't believe in polygamy or in polyamory nor could I be in a such a relationship-- I would feel very uncomfortable.
As Lordpendragon put it so well, marriage is a question of balance and harmony. It is hard enough for two people, but can it be achieved by three or more people? It makes for some balancing act.
I believe that many marriages fail for two reasons: 1) the partners are not willing to work hard to maintain their marriage; 2) they married for the wrong reasons or they were pressured.
As Lordpendragon put it so well, marriage is a question of balance and harmony. It is hard enough for two people, but can it be achieved by three or more people? It makes for some balancing act.
I believe that many marriages fail for two reasons: 1) the partners are not willing to work hard to maintain their marriage; 2) they married for the wrong reasons or they were pressured.
Indeed DC - the duality of monogamy. Yin and Yang, but that is just about balance and harmony - if that is achieved by two, three, or four and more, then so be it.
I can't see any rational argument for monogamy in an affluent society. Morally, religiously, ethically, and socially for children perhaps, but not rationally. I would base my reasons on the reality of the failure of more than half of all monogamous relationships, and the hard work that most others have to put in to mantain it.
I often wonder how many people are happily married - on a % basis like the orientation scale.