The Tease...

[Bean_head]

Does anyone else get more turned on and excited by a women who really knows how to work 'the tease'?

I'll tell you what I mean.

I have friend who dresses absolutely spot on; she has a great figure and knows how to work it, but she doesn't do in a slutty or revealing way, in fact I don't even think I've ever seen so much as a glimpse of her cleavage.

Yet the fact she knows how to work it means more than actually wanting to see her naked; I mean there's loads of ways to see naked chicks right?

I remember a while back during my early working days when I met a lady who used to be at the hotel I was at during the week; she had an amazing voice, quite sultry and really knew how to have a conversation; again not slutty or dirty but great with subliminal messages and double entendres; again this turned me on more than ever wanting to have sex with her.

Am I weird in loving the tease more than than what's at the end of it?

Ladies - do you enjoy the tease? Do you think the chase is just as exhilarating as the sex? Have you ever enjoyed the 'the tease' more than the sex?

Beans.

 

[Bean_head]

No one?

Haha guess its just me then.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

Ladies - do you enjoy the tease? Do you think the chase is just as exhilarating as the sex? Have you ever enjoyed the 'the tease' more than the sex?

Beans.

I totally enjoy teasing and beng teased. Hinting and being suggestive to me is much more eroting than just being blunt about what you want. I enjoy playing up to the guy, and yes, dressing a bit seductively, yet classy (depending on the situation.)

I am a big flirt and all my friends know it. It's just who I am.
So I suppose you could say I tease way more than I get (which is great fun for me and the guys.)

I see nothing wrong with being flirty and friendly as long as everyone knows what will or will not happen at the end of the night.

 

[EllieP]

Well, I guess I am a natural teaser, but I really don't go out of my way to do it. When I started my own business and began dealing with contractors, subs and their men I learned to tone it down a lot. I have had contractors tell me that I am a distraction on site and even spelled out exactly what I was doing that was disrupting the job.

I do tend to flirt without meaning anything other than having fun, and I've learned that this is not alway taken well.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I don't tease co-workers or people I don't know. But I do like to tease or be teased on a date. I like minor competition. I like when we try to see who can distract the other from teasing by teasing better.

 

[rtg]

I think I've gotten this pretty spot on. I'm a big believer in making them wait for a pleasant surprise...why give anything away without it being earnt? Plus, I'm a classy lass ;p

Once they've earnt it though, I'm also a pro teaser in many other ways haha.

 

[Bean_head]

Thanks for the insight ladies, you've got it pretty much spot on and I'm glad I'm not the only one.

I think this sums it up to a tee:

I'm a big believer in making them wait for a pleasant surprise...why give anything away without it being earnt?