There is a difference between ejaculation and an orgasm

[Anthoknee]

I had a great sexual awakening while sucking a regular hookup's dick last night. Now, I love to suck dick and especially his, but even while I enjoy it, much of the time I'm not hard myself, as I'm so focused on the activity at hand (in mouth?) and getting pleasure from pleasing my partner.

Last night I was particularly horny, I worshipped his cock for a good hour, he busted in my mouth several times over that hour, with no breaks in between. He and I both are able to cum several rounds in one go, but last night I learned something: there's a big difference between "busting a nut" and a full-blown orgasm.

During the session my own dick was rock hard as I was so horny, and I jacked myself off while sucking on my partner's dick. After some time I came, it felt amazing, I busted a huge load all over my stomach and on the wall over me (I'm a big shooter), but I was still horny afterwards, and kept on sucking his still-hard dick while I continued to jerk off my own, using my cum as lube. What came next (pun intended) was completely unexpected.

After a few minutes of jacking off, I felt like I was going to cum. I did have the nice feeling of an ejaculation, but it was dry. It was a little disappointing to be honest, and I thought "that's it?". I kept jerking off while sucking my buddy's dick and less than 30 seconds after that dry ejaculation, my dick got the feeling of busting a nut again and this time, I had one of the most explosive, quivering, leg-shaking ORGASMS I've ever had before, and this time the cum got everywhere. After that, I had to lay still on the bed for what felt like 10 minutes, just totally relaxed, unable to do anything. I'd never experienced anything like it: a dry ejaculation quickly followed by the real thing along with a body shaking orgasm.

Point of the story is I learned a big lesson last night: there is a difference between cumming and an orgasm. I can cum several times in one session, but if I'm lucky enough to have a full-blown orgasm, that's only happening once.

 

[Oldcowboy]

Nice! Im able tò orgasm w.o . ejaculating——which helps many women tò cum—-and I stay hard and horny—-and many women will/can orgasm lots and they come closer together—-—-

 

[Infernal]

They are two different events that happen to occur at the same time. Some men are able to separate them and experience several orgasms without ejaculation. Sometimes they get out of sync, and then you get what you experienced.

 

[Oldcowboy]

They are two different events that happen to occur at the same time. Some men are able to separate them and experience several orgasms without ejaculation. Sometimes they get out of sync, and then you get what you experienced.

I watched a stunning , very athletic Lady go thru a succession of boyfriends.

She has a very strong personality , quite successful and well known.

Eventually, we ended up in bed——I’d been having lots of sex, some that morning—-which helps with my control.

We’d gone out and hat dinner, danced and played some pool—-you could feel her strength and competiveness.

We did a lot of foreplay, I kinda teased her and made her want it before she got it—-wringing wet and hotter than a pistol.
‘I was long stroking her and she was giving every bit back—-almost bucked me off as she came—-and I orgasmed with her.

She started winding down—sort of a wistful look in her eye—-I had just the tip of my cock in——started to make the head twitch and swell started to move with just the head—-her pussy twitched right back—-soon it was full long strokes and she started coming—-and I kept getting more dominant, had her pinned down, hands over her head—-a hard on a cat couldnt scratch and in total control.

She came many times—-closer togethor, almost violently at first and in almost in spite of herself later—-she said youre amazing—-ive needed that my whole life—-but THATS all I got. Thank you.

We kissed and cuddled for a bit—-then I told her—you might be done—-Im not.

I got her on her knees—-now youre gonna start getting to know my cock——and fed it to her.

Then back on bed—-head down—ass up! And totally fucked her into submission—

And—-for control and pure inertness and dominance—-I still didn’t ejaculate—

 

[Oldcowboy]

I watched a stunning , very athletic Lady go thru a succession of boyfriends.

She has a very strong personality , quite successful and well known.

Eventually, we ended up in bed——I’d been having lots of sex, some that morning—-which helps with my control.

We’d gone out and hat dinner, danced and played some pool—-you could feel her strength and competiveness.

We did a lot of foreplay, I kinda teased her and made her want it before she got it—-wringing wet and hotter than a pistol.
‘I was long stroking her and she was giving every bit back—-almost bucked me off as she came—-and I orgasmed with her.

She started winding down—sort of a wistful look in her eye—-I had just the tip of my cock in——started to make the head twitch and swell started to move with just the head—-her pussy twitched right back—-soon it was full long strokes and she started coming—-and I kept getting more dominant, had her pinned down, hands over her head—-a hard on a cat couldnt scratch and in total control.

She came many times—-closer togethor, almost violently at first and in almost in spite of herself later—-she said youre amazing—-ive needed that my whole life—-but THATS all I got. Thank you.

We kissed and cuddled for a bit—-then I told her—you might be done—-Im not.

I got her on her knees—-now youre gonna start getting to know my cock——and fed it to her.

Then back on bed—-head down—ass up! And totally fucked her into submission—

And—-for control and pure orneriness and dominance—-I still didn’t ejaculate—

I have had similar with other women—-often they’ve been outstanding @ something—-athletic, business , looks, rich daddy—-and. It’s kinda gone to their head—-plus have herd of guys panting for their attention—-

Often a string of failed relationships, snotty attitude, bitchy—-and—know it’s gonna come across as misogynist , politically incorrect, etc—-but what many need is to be sexually dominated, all control taken away—-fucked to tears—and then some—-I might have ejaculated once—-but my cock gets gets to a state of ‘hard as steel’ doing this —I can fk forever when it gets that way—-and I love leaving with her totally dominated and knowing I’m still hard—-

 

[bravesoldier]

I'm not sure what my actual problem is, but for years I have not been able to ejaculate much if any. But, I can have dry orgasms where if I were shooting I'd have shot 8-10 good ropes of sperm. I can definitely feel 8-10 muscle contractions when I reach orgasm, yet very little fluid to none.

So, plenty of orgasms with zero ejaculation. It is very frustrating. Anyone have any experience with this problem? One friend suggested I may have a blockage that can be treated, like when I have contractions where I'd normally be shooting, the sperm is being redirected somewhere else. I have heard of backward ejaculation before.

 

[kaiguy87]

Ejaculate constantly whenever I edge for hours or when I'm edging someone else which I love to do. When they shoot a little bit of cum, but don't actually have the orgasm, I feel such a strong sense of power that I can control a man's sensations in such a manner that drives them fucking bonkers. I think there's a growing Dom in me, or some sort of top energy that I apparently give off whenever I do this for guys that I'm very fascinated by and curious to explore. Anywho, by the time they actually have the orgasm, they're usually small, but powerful. However, there are times in which they managed not to ejaculate much at all so once they do pop off, boy do they pop. Off.