This is a thinker....

the woman I love and hope to spend my entire life with... versus the baby I have never met and, If I do my job right, will leave me in 18 years....


Of course the wife.

The world is chock full of babies... I could love any one of them...
but there is only one of her.
 
Most men would save their wife on the other hand most wives have a hard time with the loss of a child and realy never get over it so they would be angry with the husben and get devorse most time anyways. It would be a personal choise made between the couple and the family.