deine_huendin
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I got torn every now and then, also with small things, plug, second finger or something.
but in the back it was "forced" every time, too fast, too dry
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but in the back it was "forced" every time, too fast, too dry
Great info that you are getting here.
I just want to add that the pain you are feeling deep in you might be his cock hitting the top of your rectum at the bottom of your sigmoid colon, there is a bend there and the cock is hitting the wall. I get that full pain when my top is on a deep stroke. I've found for me if I bring my knees to my shoulders if I'm on my back or I try to touch my toes standing, that it opens up the passage and allows the head to pass through. Apparently it feels very good for the top, you will most like think it feels good too.
It's all about learning your body
I just want to add that the pain you are feeling deep in you might be his cock hitting the top of your rectum at the bottom of your sigmoid colon, there is a bend there and the cock is hitting the wall. I get that full pain when my top is on a deep stroke. I've found for me if I bring my knees to my shoulders if I'm on my back or I try to touch my toes standing, that it opens up the passage and allows the head to pass through. Apparently it feels very good for the top, you will most like think it feels good too.
It's all about learning your body
deine_huendin
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knees to your shoulders - sounds like yoga ;-) ?!
I was looking for a thread like this and was having some trouble finding it. Experienced LPSG users, please let us know if there are other threads that talk about this issue.
I relate to the OP 100%, but I think I have some more experience. I have been in a relationship for about four years trying to find the sweet spot. I’ve found that the following helps (from most helpful to least helpful):
1. Desensitizing Lube: I personally use GLIDE anal desensitizing lube. This is by far the most helpful. It helps me take my partner’s dick easier, and I don’t bottom without it. It helps me loosen up and prevents me from over tightening. Sexual sensation isn’t lost because you will still feel your prostate stimulated when getting fingered or fucked.
2. Poppers: I’ve only recently started using these, so I’m not experiences at all with these. These have helped me relax immediately and have helped me take my partners dick more than usual.
3. Communication: definitely a must, but only gets you so far. I can’t even imagining bottoming for someone I just met. I always find myself leading the sex because I’m the one that can get hurt if I don’t set my boundaries.
All in all these are solid tips, but I feel like they don’t get you 100% there. I think tip #4 is to constantly masturbate with anal toys and build your way up to your desired size.
Someone please share your tips. Us bottoms want to take
I relate to the OP 100%, but I think I have some more experience. I have been in a relationship for about four years trying to find the sweet spot. I’ve found that the following helps (from most helpful to least helpful):
1. Desensitizing Lube: I personally use GLIDE anal desensitizing lube. This is by far the most helpful. It helps me take my partner’s dick easier, and I don’t bottom without it. It helps me loosen up and prevents me from over tightening. Sexual sensation isn’t lost because you will still feel your prostate stimulated when getting fingered or fucked.
2. Poppers: I’ve only recently started using these, so I’m not experiences at all with these. These have helped me relax immediately and have helped me take my partners dick more than usual.
3. Communication: definitely a must, but only gets you so far. I can’t even imagining bottoming for someone I just met. I always find myself leading the sex because I’m the one that can get hurt if I don’t set my boundaries.
All in all these are solid tips, but I feel like they don’t get you 100% there. I think tip #4 is to constantly masturbate with anal toys and build your way up to your desired size.
Someone please share your tips. Us bottoms want to take
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The Aneros Progasm or a similar prostate massager does a great job training your body to focus on the prostate.
I also think that the counter-intuitive "push out when he inserts" is always good bottoming advice that made things much easier after I was taught it.
Also, I really really really believe in bottoms starting in cowboy position basically every time. Its just a nice way to have control of insertion, it feels great for the top, and with enough lube gravity does a lot of the work.
I also think that the counter-intuitive "push out when he inserts" is always good bottoming advice that made things much easier after I was taught it.
Also, I really really really believe in bottoms starting in cowboy position basically every time. Its just a nice way to have control of insertion, it feels great for the top, and with enough lube gravity does a lot of the work.
I am super tight and it hurts so bad.
I would buy smmth but my family is super religious and i cant buy or hide anything.
PLEASE HELP!
I would buy smmth but my family is super religious and i cant buy or hide anything.
PLEASE HELP!
I call myself vers, but i’m not really that into bottoming. But when i’m with a really hot guy who’s strictly top, i feel that i have to give in.
really hated bottoming at first. It always seemed to hurt. Years later I’ve learned to enjoy it. One factor is your mindset. whenever I’m drunk i can get totally into it. That’s not sound advice though. I feel that alcohol makes me less upright. I guess the proper advice is to find a way to totally relax.
Next is the type of lube. Before i only used water based lubes because i could easily get some tubes for free at work. They’re not really good for anal. When i tried a silicone based lube, the difference was like night and day.
last would be poppers. I know that’s not for everyone, and there are inherent dangers if you don’t use em properly, but i’ll tell you this. I hooked up once with a humongous guy. I couldn’t believe he was able to put it all in thanks to poppers. I had to ask him to take a pic for proof. Haha.
I’ve been mostly top. Only bottomed around ten times i guess. I’ve never used anal toys, beads, dildos etc. so yeah, poppers really do work even if your ass isn’t used to having stuff inserted.
really hated bottoming at first. It always seemed to hurt. Years later I’ve learned to enjoy it. One factor is your mindset. whenever I’m drunk i can get totally into it. That’s not sound advice though. I feel that alcohol makes me less upright. I guess the proper advice is to find a way to totally relax.
Next is the type of lube. Before i only used water based lubes because i could easily get some tubes for free at work. They’re not really good for anal. When i tried a silicone based lube, the difference was like night and day.
last would be poppers. I know that’s not for everyone, and there are inherent dangers if you don’t use em properly, but i’ll tell you this. I hooked up once with a humongous guy. I couldn’t believe he was able to put it all in thanks to poppers. I had to ask him to take a pic for proof. Haha.
I’ve been mostly top. Only bottomed around ten times i guess. I’ve never used anal toys, beads, dildos etc. so yeah, poppers really do work even if your ass isn’t used to having stuff inserted.
