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Or her cervix could be retroverted, which can cause sex to be uncomfortable or painful
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C'mon peeps, let's keep it real here. I know there are a few around here who are perhaps a bit bigger but 8x6 is still very very big, and the vast majority of women will never encounter one that big. The average cocks the girl perhaps had before would have likely been 5" to 6" long x 4.5" to 5" girth. Suddenly being presented with an 8"x6" can be intimidating. My advice Roraman is to make sure she feels in control of how much cock she gets. It'll be best if you lie on your back and let her ride you. It will take great self restraint on your part as you'll have to try not to thrust hard, but over time she'll feel more relaxed and bit by bit she should get used to your size. But you must be patient, it might take a few weeks or months before she's made the mental and physical adjustments necessary to happily allow you to take the lead and fuck her.
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Thanks, Riven...
I agree. Honestly, statistics don't lie. 5 to 6 inches is what MOST WOMEN see in the bedroom. You can't just magically 'change something' and make everything better.
Another fact.... straight out of a nursing textbook...
The average size of a woman's vagina is approximately 4 inches long. Yes, a vagina can stretch. Yes, the vagina was MADE to stretch during childbirth, but I've never heard ANY woman say that vaginal childbirth didn't come without PAIN attached to it.
Bottom line, it will take TIME and patience for her to get used to it. It will also take plenty of regular sex, where SHE controls the angle of penetration AND the depth.
In my experience, ONE position felt the most comfortable for a while, and then after several months, I was able to slowly move on to other things. I preferred a modified missionary position, where I wrapped my legs around his lower back, and instead of him thrusting in and out... it was more of a 'rocking' motion... that I controlled.
Giving her an orgasm or two before penetration ALSO REALLY helps. :wink:
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That's okay sweetpetite. You're right about the orgasm or two. Without doubt there's nothing as good as being really turned on to loosen a girl's pussy. Most of us (and I'm ashamed to admit that I'm guilty too) get down to penetration far too quickly. Both men and women are driven by instinct to get it over with quickly, but with practice it's possible to really heighten sexual pleasure by taking time to slowly build up the excitement. Eh, sweetpetite? (Loosens collar at the thought of.....
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Agree, but sometimes you need to take more time, relax, etc. If it doesn't work the first time, so be it. Relax again, come back and try once more in a few days or so. Don't push it.
If it is indeed vaginismus then professional help is in order.
I had the same problem with a gal years ago. It wasn't my length. It was my girth. She got used to it after about 2 months.
