Trans women + straight (trans chaser) men taking over Grindr?

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Has anyone else noticed a shocking amount of trans women and straight men with "trans only" tags taking over grindr? It's annoying the hell out of me, surely there's more specific apps they can use? I swear there's more and more of them, and fewer and fewer actually gay men on there, is everyone jumping ship? Where is everyone going? Kind of annoyed at being pushed out by straight men AGAIN, they only get the entire world, god forbid grindr not be for LGBT people anymore, every straight guy with a trans lean is showing up in droves, great time to be a trans woman I guess, not so great for us gays. I'm gonna have to start wearing a dress and a wig if I want to get some dick
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Has anyone else noticed a shocking amount of trans women and straight men with "trans only" tags taking over grindr? It's annoying the hell out of me, surely there's more specific apps they can use? I swear there's more and more of them, and fewer and fewer actually gay men on there, is everyone jumping ship? Where is everyone going? Kind of annoyed at being pushed out by straight men AGAIN, they only get the entire world, god forbid grindr not be for LGBT people anymore, every straight guy with a trans lean is showing up in droves, great time to be a trans woman I guess, not so great for us gays. I guess I'm gonna have to start wearing a dress and a wig if I want to get some dick
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I've never used Grindr before. Always used Skout or Badoo for trying to hook up with trans girls. Both used to be much better, lately it seems any hot trans girls are all looking for "donations"...

If there are trans on grindr though, why would it matter to you that there are people looking for trans only? It shouldn't affect you on there at all, just certain people off limits.
 
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I've never used Grindr before. Always used Skout or Badoo for trying to hook up with trans girls. Both used to be much better, lately it seems any hot trans girls are all looking for "donations"...

If there are trans on grindr though, why would it matter to you that there are people looking for trans only? It shouldn't affect you on there at all, just certain people off limits.
Because the more people on grindr the more you have to scroll, without a subscription you literally have to pay to scroll past the first two pages, which are always full of trans women and straight men. Stay out of my app, I'm annoyed that I probably gave you ideas! And if you think that liking trans women makes you that 10% gay think again, if you don't like MEN you're 0% gay.
 
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Because the more people on grindr the more you have to scroll, without a subscription you literally have to pay to scroll past the first two pages, which are always full of trans women and straight men. Stay out of my app, I'm annoyed that I probably gave you ideas! And if you think that liking trans women makes you that 10% gay think again, if you don't like MEN you're 0% gay.
Grindr is a scroll not a swipe app?

Nah, I prolly won't download it if that makes you feel better lol.

I still think the penis end of a trans girl makes it 10%.
 
Grindr is a scroll not a swipe app?

Nah, I prolly won't download it if that makes you feel better lol.

I still think the penis end of a trans girl makes it 10%.
It doesn't. If it looks like a girl, sounds like a girl, acts like a girl then it's a girl. A man is a man, if you look at Jason Momoa and don't get turned on you aint gay. We don't have time for the sexual confusion of straight men, you all have too much already, always wanting to have your cake and eat it too.
 
It doesn't. If it looks like a girl, sounds like a girl, acts like a girl then it's a girl. A man is a man, if you look at Jason Momoa and don't get turned on you aint gay. We don't have time for the sexual confusion of straight men, you all have too much already, always wanting to have your cake and eat it too.
So where do you draw the line then? I mean there are many Trans Girls out there that didn't do a great job and still mostly look like a guy, or what about cross dressers? What category would they fall in for you? Some with makeup, the right lighting and a high pitch voice can look, sound and act like a girl.
 
So where do you draw the line then? I mean there are many Trans Girls out there that didn't do a great job and still mostly look like a guy, or what about cross dressers? What category would they fall in for you? Some with makeup, the right lighting and a high pitch voice can look, sound and act like a girl.
That's up to you to decide as a straight man. If it doesn't look like a woman to you, then it's a man in a dress to you. Not every man can transition seamlessly into a woman, and that sucks for them, but if you are attracted to WOMEN and trans WOMEN who look like WOMEN then you are straight. I am not attracted to ANY trans women, because I am not attracted to women, even if they have a penis. I am 0% straight, even if I find myself attracted to a trans man, which I have very rarely been.
 
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That's up to you to decide as a straight man. If it doesn't look like a woman to you, then it's a man in a dress to you. Not every man can transition seamlessly into a woman, and that sucks for them, but if you are attracted to WOMEN and trans WOMEN who look like WOMEN then you are straight. I am not attracted to ANY trans women, because I am not attracted to women, even if they have a penis. I am 0% straight, even if I find myself attracted to a trans man, which I have very rarely been.
So if its up to the men to decide what does it for them, why does Grindr have to be different? If you don't like what you see there's plenty more on the site. At this point I don't think there is one dating app that is exclusive to any one interest so why should Grindr be that? There is no exclusive straight app, exclusive lesbian app etc.
 
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So if its up to the men to decide what does it for them, why does Grindr have to be different? If you don't like what you see there's plenty more on the site. At this point I don't think there is one dating app that is exclusive to any one interest so why should Grindr be that? There is no exclusive straight app, exclusive lesbian app etc.
There's not plenty more is the problem, I feel like it's becoming a trans women and straight men hookup app and everyone else is being pushed out! It's like gay men are going extinct, I have no idea where the hell everyone migrated to!
 
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There's not plenty more is the problem, I feel like it's becoming a trans women and straight men hookup app and everyone else is being pushed out! It's like gay men are going extinct, I have no idea where the hell everyone migrated to!
Sounds like your issue then is not trans taking over Grindr, its that there's less full on gays out there.
 
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Sounds like your issue then is not trans taking over Grindr, its that there's less full on gays out there.
If you used grindr you'd understand what 'm talking about, there are gays on there their profiles are just being pushed out, and everyone is migrated to other apps but there's too damn many, and they're all spread around so it's hard to find anyone. Grindr has been my home base for my whole gay life, I don't want to be pushed out. As a straight man you get the luxury of assuming the people around you share your sexuality, it's irritating beyond belief that you're taking over our apps, the one place where we can meet each other.
 
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If you used grindr you'd understand what 'm talking about, there are gays on there their profiles are just being pushed out, and everyone is migrated to other apps but there's too damn many, and they're all spread around so it's hard to find anyone. Grindr has been my home base for my whole gay life, I don't want to be pushed out. As a straight man you get the luxury of assuming the people around you share your sexuality, it's irritating beyond belief that you're taking over our apps, the one place where we can meet each other.
Maybe just cuz I'm in NY, but I feel like lately there seems to be gay people everywhere.
 
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What do gay people look like though? Straight men are also usurping our culture, it's getting more and more difficult to spot actual gays in the wild.
I feel like it's pretty easy to spot. Way they walk / talk / dress etc. LOL I'll tell u what the NY Knicks have a big rainbow center that for sure. KAT
 
I think that's true. That's why I left Grindr for TheBlowers. It's still a hookup site but I find it rather healthy. I find great cocks by gay and bi men! No problem with Trans but I like it better when on date site for gays, there's men who loves men !
 
Grindr has been quite homophobic for a while now. They ban people for putting in their bio that they only look for biological men. Also you are not allowed to exclude trans people from your filtered results. Dont expect to much from that platform.
 
I agree with OP, there's many in my location too, but not as much as he experiences probably.

Winger207 sounds like someone who's just trying to aggravate op with stupid questions.

But apparently trans girls are not getting much dick from straight guys either. Straight guys are just being assholes to them mostly.

Probably has to do with the fact they aren't really straight and struggling with their sexuality big time. Unfortunately this manifests as being an asshole to others.
 
I agree with OP, there's many in my location too, but not as much as he experiences probably.

Winger207 sounds like someone who's just trying to aggravate op with stupid questions.

But apparently trans girls are not getting much dick from straight guys either. Straight guys are just being assholes to them mostly.

Probably has to do with the fact they aren't really straight and struggling with their sexuality big time. Unfortunately this manifests as being an asshole to others.
Yes I have noticed this a lot, like I mentioned before grindr is packed with straight men identifying as bisexual but who are only interested in feminine trans women. And it confuses them because they see a woman, which they are attracted to, but that woman has a penis, and it both excites and scares them. But they can take their sexuality crisis off my gay hookup app! I don't have time for straight men and their problems, their lives are insanely easy compared to ours, and they have 95% of the human population to play with, they need to go away and let us have our tiny slice to ourselves. I am actually really starting to have depression over this, I'm surrounded by straight people on all sides, I feel like the only gay person in the world, where is everyone?
 
Yes I have noticed this a lot, like I mentioned before grindr is packed with straight men identifying as bisexual but who are only interested in feminine trans women. And it confuses them because they see a woman, which they are attracted to, but that woman has a penis, and it both excites and scares them. But they can take their sexuality crisis off my gay hookup app! I don't have time for straight men and their problems, their lives are insanely easy compared to ours, and they have 95% of the human population to play with, they need to go away and let us have our tiny slice to ourselves. I am actually really starting to have depression over this, I'm surrounded by straight people on all sides, I feel like the only gay person in the world, where is everyone?
You'll have to move to an expensive progressive city and pay 90% of your income in rent for that experience. Small towns or far away areas won't do it for you. The gays like to show off in trendy cities.
 
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