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The fact that you thought you did somethingI think the racist is triggered lol.
I'm really not shocked by your behavior. You're obviously an activist with an agenda and a big fat chip on your shoulder.
You and your little gang (that word is not racist no matter how much you wanna bitch about little shit like that) have no power here.
The things you think are valid points are actually laughable.
Triggered? Hardly. I'm getting hours of entertainment off watching you fumble over your own logic.
P.S. You never told me whether I was right about you having no man. I want to know if I need to pay up.
Imagine thinking that the word “activist” is a bad thing and constantly using that like it’s an insult.
Imagine having vile and disgusting views about people of another race collectively, sharing copy-and-pasted racist views and statistics that are easily disproven with sources and citations from actual scholarly, academic, demographic, and statistical data...yet still somehow thinking that you’re NOT a racist just because you have a mandingo fetish.
Imagine thinking that it’s weird to have a “big fat chip on your shoulder” in a society where you are constantly minimized, blocked, and targeted by violent systemic and institutional racism, and then told it’s your fault because those who don’t experience it think it mustn’t be real simply because it doesn’t impact them.
Imaging believing that an entire other race of people is fatherless, inherently criminal, inherently violent, socially low, lazy layabouts, even having false statistics about them on hand, yet still being desperate for their dick, and not seeing the dissonance there.
Imagine being of a completely difference race, and in some cases from a completely different country, and trying to tell Black people, whose experiences could not be further from your own, that their lived experiences are invalid and that only your assessment (powered by statistics and views that were easily disproven) is fact. Once again demonstrating privilege in believing that you can validate or qualify their experiences although you have never and could never experience life from their lens.
Imagine having your points consistently disproven by actual data and the lived experiences of others, and just pivoting to “you’re boring, “you’re wrong”, “that’s not valid”, “nope, not true”, “omg, let’s just move on” even though it’s YOUR points that have been disproven with actual sourced and cited data.
Imagine typing horrible and vile things about others, then, when called out, pivoting to, “OMG, you’re attacking me, you’re harassing me” in a move that echoes so many encounters from the real world, like the Central Park jogger or the more recent incident with Keyon Harrold and the “Soho Karen”.
Imagine being more upset at the people defending against these kind of disgusting and disproven generalizations, then you are at the people making the generalizations. More upset because you have to scroll through a session of accountability then you are at the people who caused the moment by inserting their input into a conversation that didn’t concern them and then descending into racism. Perhaps because you believe the same thing they do and think the defense is moot.
Imagine having been given warnings by the moderation and admin as proof that your behavior is unacceptable, and barely escaping being banned, and still somehow thinking you’re right.
If, nothing else, the past few pages have been an valuable case study in racism (the ignorance, conditioning, & lack of intelligence that powers it) fetishism and the cognitive dissonances of it, and privilege (the bold and aggressive ways it encourages those with it to use it to silence and invalidate others who trigger them and make them uncomfortable). We also get to see how racists manipulate the mechanism, stopping just short of the things necessary to be blatant hatespeech, thus avoiding full prosecution.
At this point, I think all that needs to be said has been said. HOWEVER, I hope that the non-racist people in the thread are taking notes on how these things play out, so they can recognize it, and do the work of confronting it in their real life. It’s more than just negativity. It’s conditioning, ignorance, privilege, it’s blind or intentionally looks away, it tries to make the victim look like the bad guy, and it’s real.
Again, kudos to the moderators/admin who have allowed these discussion to take place instead of just closing the thread or deleting things, and done what they can do within the rules. It can be disruptive, but it was a necessary disruption.
Imagine having vile and disgusting views about people of another race collectively, sharing copy-and-pasted racist views and statistics that are easily disproven with sources and citations from actual scholarly, academic, demographic, and statistical data...yet still somehow thinking that you’re NOT a racist just because you have a mandingo fetish.
Imagine thinking that it’s weird to have a “big fat chip on your shoulder” in a society where you are constantly minimized, blocked, and targeted by violent systemic and institutional racism, and then told it’s your fault because those who don’t experience it think it mustn’t be real simply because it doesn’t impact them.
Imaging believing that an entire other race of people is fatherless, inherently criminal, inherently violent, socially low, lazy layabouts, even having false statistics about them on hand, yet still being desperate for their dick, and not seeing the dissonance there.
Imagine being of a completely difference race, and in some cases from a completely different country, and trying to tell Black people, whose experiences could not be further from your own, that their lived experiences are invalid and that only your assessment (powered by statistics and views that were easily disproven) is fact. Once again demonstrating privilege in believing that you can validate or qualify their experiences although you have never and could never experience life from their lens.
Imagine having your points consistently disproven by actual data and the lived experiences of others, and just pivoting to “you’re boring, “you’re wrong”, “that’s not valid”, “nope, not true”, “omg, let’s just move on” even though it’s YOUR points that have been disproven with actual sourced and cited data.
Imagine typing horrible and vile things about others, then, when called out, pivoting to, “OMG, you’re attacking me, you’re harassing me” in a move that echoes so many encounters from the real world, like the Central Park jogger or the more recent incident with Keyon Harrold and the “Soho Karen”.
Imagine being more upset at the people defending against these kind of disgusting and disproven generalizations, then you are at the people making the generalizations. More upset because you have to scroll through a session of accountability then you are at the people who caused the moment by inserting their input into a conversation that didn’t concern them and then descending into racism. Perhaps because you believe the same thing they do and think the defense is moot.
Imagine having been given warnings by the moderation and admin as proof that your behavior is unacceptable, and barely escaping being banned, and still somehow thinking you’re right.
If, nothing else, the past few pages have been an valuable case study in racism (the ignorance, conditioning, & lack of intelligence that powers it) fetishism and the cognitive dissonances of it, and privilege (the bold and aggressive ways it encourages those with it to use it to silence and invalidate others who trigger them and make them uncomfortable). We also get to see how racists manipulate the mechanism, stopping just short of the things necessary to be blatant hatespeech, thus avoiding full prosecution.
At this point, I think all that needs to be said has been said. HOWEVER, I hope that the non-racist people in the thread are taking notes on how these things play out, so they can recognize it, and do the work of confronting it in their real life. It’s more than just negativity. It’s conditioning, ignorance, privilege, it’s blind or intentionally looks away, it tries to make the victim look like the bad guy, and it’s real.
Again, kudos to the moderators/admin who have allowed these discussion to take place instead of just closing the thread or deleting things, and done what they can do within the rules. It can be disruptive, but it was a necessary disruption.
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Honestly, it’s always odd when people form opinions while admittedly not being familiar with the discussion, having neglected to take the time to “really read that much of what’s in here”.
What you’ve asked has already been answered:
Being white and liking Black men does not make you racist. That has never been said or suggested.
Northerner2023
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Well you're like me then I will fill you in briefly according the the gospel of some individuals on here. Tyas a "racists" or "colourist" because he prefers white girls but apparently if you don't fancy a balck person you're racist and if you're white like me and fancy balck men you're a fetishist lol so you can't win lol
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If a White person likes black dick, who tf cares leave them alone. At least they aren’t racist. I don’t think someone racist would even be attracted to black guys.
Same with Black person liking a white person, or how some people fetishize Asians.
Fetish is basically just a unexplainable sexual attraction.
It gets wrong and suspicious when people start saying shit like “I wouldn’t date a _____ but I have fantasies of fucking them because _____”
Same with Black person liking a white person, or how some people fetishize Asians.
Fetish is basically just a unexplainable sexual attraction.
It gets wrong and suspicious when people start saying shit like “I wouldn’t date a _____ but I have fantasies of fucking them because _____”
Once again, I’m not really sure why this argument is being made as literally nobody has said that there’s anything wrong with white people liking Black men or vice versa. It’s absolutely OK to like someone of another race, no matter what your race is. Nothing to the contrary has ever been said, so this argument doesn’t really have relevance.
Highlighting racial fetishists, i.e., people who have racist and bigoted views of another race but still desire them sexually, is in no way suggesting that there’s anything wrong with liking someone of another race wholesomely.
Also, your thought that someone who is racist would not like Black guys is false. Racial fetishism goes back centuries, even to days of slavery, and millennia before. If you’d like to know more, here’s some reading material:
“It’s not something I can shake”: The Effect of Racial Stereotypes, Beauty Standards, and Sexual Racism on Interracial Attraction
The Colonial Roots of the Racial Fetishization of Black Women
https://www.gold.ac.uk/media/docume...tres/centre-for-urban-and-comm/carrington.pdf
Other Question…
“We’re Not Here For White People’s Pleasure.” On Race, Fetish and Objectification.
There’s a difference between a negative racial fetish and a fetish in general. And liking someone of another race shouldn’t be a fetish, because it shouldn’t be an “unexplainable sexual attraction” when you like another human being. It’s only a racial fetish when you have negative views of the person based on their racial characteristics.
Once again, this seems to be either an issue of people not reading the discussion beforehand.
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Anyways, y’all are weird. This discussion is the cringe, y’all are just going in circles about opinions (everyone thinks their opinion is right, especially on the internet so arguing is...pointless).
where the dick att?
where the dick att?
Widowssspeak
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Weird for not taking racist shit, by standing up to bigotry and racism despite it being the internet? Convo is cringe because it’s undisputed facts that you can’t contest, nor comprehend? If you’re content in your ignorance, just say that.
A discussion where people are standing up against racism is “cringe”. Yikes.
Everything thinks their opinion is right, but only one group is speaking from facts and basic human decency, while the other is sharing false statistics, hateful ideologies, and pivoting to victimhood.
Also, there is no dick because Tyga hasn’t posted.
And the way some of you are altering/distorting the conversation, misrepresenting what has been said to twist it into something it wasn’t, pretending to be apathetic and indifferent while lowkey trying to minimize the action of the racist posters while portraying the people standing up against it as aggressors, and being more offended by the fact that people are standing up against bigotry than you were by the actual bigotry that was posted in the first place...is getting really obvious.
Everything thinks their opinion is right, but only one group is speaking from facts and basic human decency, while the other is sharing false statistics, hateful ideologies, and pivoting to victimhood.
Also, there is no dick because Tyga hasn’t posted.
And the way some of you are altering/distorting the conversation, misrepresenting what has been said to twist it into something it wasn’t, pretending to be apathetic and indifferent while lowkey trying to minimize the action of the racist posters while portraying the people standing up against it as aggressors, and being more offended by the fact that people are standing up against bigotry than you were by the actual bigotry that was posted in the first place...is getting really obvious.
WE DONT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION
EVERYONE GOT ONE
KEEP IT TO YOURSELF
WE ARE ONLY HERE FOR THE NUDES.
EVERYONE GOT ONE
KEEP IT TO YOURSELF
WE ARE ONLY HERE FOR THE NUDES.
Widowssspeak
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Then provide them or keep it moving. We’re having a discussion, on a discussion board. bye.
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Take this shit to Twitter lol, you’ll get better engagement/people with better morals than a website full of horny men who are just looking for dick, this thread will be locked because this is not what is supposed to be going on in here lol...
Also, If someone would’ve just ignored whatever post got them triggered, this wouldn’t be going on. You can’t control how other people feel/think through the internet (especially this site...)
ignoring people/stopping the discussion when all it is is causing arguments and you see you’re not getting through to them >>>>
Also, If someone would’ve just ignored whatever post got them triggered, this wouldn’t be going on. You can’t control how other people feel/think through the internet (especially this site...)
ignoring people/stopping the discussion when all it is is causing arguments and you see you’re not getting through to them >>>>
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CORRECTION: You don’t care about racism. We get it. Thanks.
The excuses. You can’t be a horny man just looking for dick and still not be racist or excuse racism. Make that make sense. In fact, there are numerous non-Black people in this thread who have stood up in support of the discussion, whether by commenting or liking. Just say YOU don’t care and move on. Stop attempting to speak for everyone.
Conversely, if the racists had just ignoring the discussion between Black people about colorism, which is relevant to our culture, this wouldn’t be going on. They can’t control how we feel/thinking through the internet. Interestingly, you’re shifting blame to us instead of acknowledging the people who started the issue. Why should we ignore blatant racism and bigotry?
Tyga hasn’t posted anything new, so there’s nothing new. Find something else to beat off to until he does. Don’t try to control this conversation, especially if all you’re going to do is shift blame to the victims.
Isn’t it funny how the people on the other side of the discussion post JUST AS MUCH AS WE DO, but some of these people don’t have an issue with their posts. AND EVEN LIKE THEIR POSTS. And when we had moved on and the guy from Alamaba was still ranting and calling us activists and gangs, they had no issue.
But when we post, we’re the aggressors and the bad guys.
It’s just so odd, huh.