Typical size concerns

[johnnyunitas]

As one can see in my photo gallery with a ruler along the top when erect I can measure close to 7 inches. I know that is a 'respectable' number but for whatever reason when I look at my dick or take pictures from different angles it, to me, appears paltry. Not only the length but also the girth- it seems spindly and I am convinced I have a skinny dick (5.25 at it's thickest and less than 5 in at it's thinnest).*

Does this constitute as penile dysmorphia or is there some truth to my assessment?


I'm aware this may be a tiresome subject line. I am not searching for compliments. I guess just looking to be convinced which may be a pointless endeavour in and of itself. I would especially appreciate a woman's take if there are any reading this. In all honesty you, like me, probably have better things to do with your time than look at dick pics.





*This is in no way an attempt to insult people who may have 'legitimate' issues with their size, I'm just trying to work out some stuff on my own. If it appears I am bigger than you think I'm being naive in my self-consciousness just know that I mean no offense.

 

[art]

Get laid and don't worry about the size of your cock.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

As one can see in my photo gallery with a ruler along the top when erect I can measure close to 7 inches. I know that is a 'respectable' number but for whatever reason when I look at my dick or take pictures from different angles it, to me, appears paltry. Not only the length but also the girth- it seems spindly and I am convinced I have a skinny dick (5.25 at it's thickest and less than 5 in at it's thinnest).*

Does this constitute as penile dysmorphia or is there some truth to my assessment?


I'm aware this may be a tiresome subject line. I am not searching for compliments. I guess just looking to be convinced which may be a pointless endeavour in and of itself. I would especially appreciate a woman's take if there are any reading this. In all honesty you, like me, probably have better things to do with your time than look at dick pics.





*This is in no way an attempt to insult people who may have 'legitimate' issues with their size, I'm just trying to work out some stuff on my own. If it appears I am bigger than you think I'm being naive in my self-consciousness just know that I mean no offense.

Yeah I am exactly like you. I feel like my dick is nothing special. Whenever I look at it, it doesn't seem big. I'm also self conscious about my girth. I do believe it's a form of dysmorphia. I also have it with my weight. I know I'm obese but i used to never see myself as THAT fat. But truthfully I'm a fucking disgusting slob fat. Society made sure my dysmorphia of that was shattered. But as far as toward my dick, no one is going to make comments in everyday life to make me question my POV towards it.

Years of taking pics and getting comments have slowly started to peel away my self doubt on my size, but truly I still feel like I'm not really that large, just good at taking pics.

 

[johnnyunitas]

Yeah I am exactly like you. I feel like my dick is nothing special. Whenever I look at it, it doesn't seem big. I'm also self conscious about my girth. I do believe it's a form of dysmorphia. I also have it with my weight. I know I'm obese but i used to never see myself as THAT fat. But truthfully I'm a fucking disgusting slob fat. Society made sure my dysmorphia of that was shattered. But as far as toward my dick, no one is going to make comments in everyday life to make me question my POV towards it.

Years of taking pics and getting comments have slowly started to peel away my self doubt on my size, but truly I still feel like I'm not really that large, just good at taking pics.

I guess we both need to cut ourselves a break and appreciate what we've got. I don't believe you're a disgusting slob if that means anything.

 

[long_pencil]

I guess we both need to cut ourselves a break and appreciate what we've got. I don't believe you're a disgusting slob if that means anything.

@johnnyunitas I am very similar to you. PM me...we should talk!

 

[notN2pussy]

I think many when viewing themselves looking down or not impressed if you look in the mirror that's what other see or photos

 

[long_pencil]

I think many when viewing themselves looking down or not impressed if you look in the mirror that's what other see or photos

Says someone who has a thin cock, as judged by others!

 

[notN2pussy]

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[BigD_2]

Your dick is gorgeous @johnnyunitas . Wish you were into guys so I could play with it but go have as much fun with as many ladies as you wish, they will be lucky to meet a guy with a great cock like yours.

NOW are there thicker cocks in the world, yes there are, but don't let that concern you. Yours is awesome.

 

[IntactMale]

What NotN2pussy said was accurate. Regardless of anyone's size, the downward perspective will always give a smaller appearance, its just how perspective works. While looking in the mirror can be useful, there are some visual tricks there as well. People naturally look at a mirror and perceive the image as portraying an image that is as far from them as the mirror is, when in reality it is twice that distance. It normally doesn't make that much of a difference, but if you look at your penis in the mirror and while standing 5 feet away and think that that is how your penis appears from a distance of 5 feet, you are incorrect.

But whether that's correct or not, there's no need to worry about anybody's size if you are too timid to post pictures of your own, @ABL

I understand the feeling of looking at yourself and feeling smaller than your measurements, like I said its a matter of perspective. What I have found more useful is taking pictures, especially if I can emulate a picture someone else has taken. I feel like it make more of a comparison between the two. However, this may not take into consideration the difference in proportions of body size.

 

[long_pencil]

What NotN2pussy said was accurate. Regardless of anyone's size, the downward perspective will always give a smaller appearance, its just how perspective works. While looking in the mirror can be useful, there are some visual tricks there as well. People naturally look at a mirror and perceive the image as portraying an image that is as far from them as the mirror is, when in reality it is twice that distance. It normally doesn't make that much of a difference, but if you look at your penis in the mirror and while standing 5 feet away and think that that is how your penis appears from a distance of 5 feet, you are incorrect.

But whether that's correct or not, there's no need to worry about anybody's size if you are too timid to post pictures of your own, @ABL

I understand the feeling of looking at yourself and feeling smaller than your measurements, like I said its a matter of perspective. What I have found more useful is taking pictures, especially if I can emulate a picture someone else has taken. I feel like it make more of a comparison between the two. However, this may not take into consideration the difference in proportions of body size.

I’m not too timid at all...here’s pics of me soft and hard. Comment away and feel free to be brutally honest...\\

 

[deleted716371]

I would say you represent not only an individual cock size dysmorphia, but a cultural. And sites like this tend to strengthen it, but can also give some relief? You just need to listen to the reasonable voices, the the rational arguments and science about cock size. And listen to the women. Men are obcessed with cock size and for that there seem to be no treat. On an individual level however I believe you can.

 

[fratpack]

Now that's a cock I'd definitely go down on and hopefully all the way

 

[thick_]

Search the ask a woman thread about cock size to answer your question. Many of the women are very honest about it.

 

[long_pencil]

Now that's a cock I'd definitely go down on and hopefully all the way

Whose are you referring to?

 

[fratpack]

Whose are you referring to?

The ones pictured

 

[long_pencil]

The ones pictured

Nice...thanks. You should PM me. We should “share” some more with each other.

 

[1337357]

What NotN2pussy said was accurate. Regardless of anyone's size, the downward perspective will always give a smaller appearance, its just how perspective works. While looking in the mirror can be useful, there are some visual tricks there as well. People naturally look at a mirror and perceive the image as portraying an image that is as far from them as the mirror is, when in reality it is twice that distance. It normally doesn't make that much of a difference, but if you look at your penis in the mirror and while standing 5 feet away and think that that is how your penis appears from a distance of 5 feet, you are incorrect.

But whether that's correct or not, there's no need to worry about anybody's size if you are too timid to post pictures of your own, @ABL

I understand the feeling of looking at yourself and feeling smaller than your measurements, like I said its a matter of perspective. What I have found more useful is taking pictures, especially if I can emulate a picture someone else has taken. I feel like it make more of a comparison between the two. However, this may not take into consideration the difference in proportions of body size.

i think just about everyone on here has bodily dysmorphia to one degree or another; part of it is the influence of porn; part of comes from all of the digital and interpersonal chatter about penis size; and part of it is (as others have noted) a function of optical perspective;

and, yes, i’m convinced that penis size in relation to body size is crucial;

also, there’s a certain kind of penis that looks especially big on here; it needs to be long but not TOO long, lest its length disguise its girth;

 

[Notaes]

Get laid and don't worry about the size of your cock.

Get your cock wet in a hot pussy and learn how to use it and you will feel like your a fucking
Stud! Learn how to drive a woman crazy with your cock. Learn to make her scream with your cock and all your fears will subside. You can do it!

 

[1337357]

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What Is Penile Dysmorphic Disorder - Body Dysmorphia for Penises