RocketMan
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- Male
I find a simple "No, thanks" works fine. 99% of guys will take a "no, thanks" and move on. For that 1%, a hard slap on the hand seems to work wonders when coupled with a "NO. THANKS."
I agree with all of the comments in this thread so far. 'Iowamojoe' stated it well about the subtle intensity that seems to exist in gym wet areas. No matter ones orientation, eyes are darting and glancing everywhere checking out whatever is of interest or simple curiosity.
It seems to me that if a guy is going to be bold enough to reach out and touch you like that, it deserves a bold "NO," or "Leave me alone" response. It's absolutely out of line to get such an unwanted advance. If it happened again I think I would remind the guy that you already told him to stop once, and if he tries it again you will report him. If he tries it a third time, then he deserves to be reported to the management.
Yes, it's an imposition to have to go through all of that. But, given the circumstance, you deserve to be left alone to enjoy your gym membership and the other guy needs to be put on notice to stop bothering you.
I once saw a guy really go off on another in a steam room for what appeared to be touching himself inappropriately. Homophobe or not, it was just a bad scene in a situation with already compromised tension. I think "NO" followed with a warning if it happens again is a better option all around.
Ultimately, it all depends on how much you like the gym you attend. I decided to go to mine another time of day to avoid the guys who regularly sat gawking in the steam. Good luck!