mic23x6ffm: Hi,
not as big as jonas but 19cm and 5,5cm thick soft.
I wear a regular brief to put things in place and ower that a elastic (retro-)short in a smaller size.
the problem for me: i really have large lowhanging balls. To hide them (at work aso) i have to put tem back, behind my legs - but so it's hard to sit down :-(
anyone with same problems?
how do you handle it?
not as big as jonas but 19cm and 5,5cm thick soft.
I wear a regular brief to put things in place and ower that a elastic (retro-)short in a smaller size.
the problem for me: i really have large lowhanging balls. To hide them (at work aso) i have to put tem back, behind my legs - but so it's hard to sit down :-(
anyone with same problems?
how do you handle it?
FrenchOnion: If a man's handsome, a man's handsome. Say a man has what would be considered by many to be thick hair. Should he pull it out? I'm opting for no. I may be wrong, but I'd rather he didn't. Regardless of what people may think of him when they see him. It would seem to me that the fellow would follow the same social guidelines as most of us do, i.e., comb his hair daily, have a nice cut regularly, shampoo and otherwise clean. I, personally, haven't picked up on a social stream that says, when a man's hair get's this thick then he should cut his hair shorter and more often and should bald faster than normal or what not. I would think this would apply to all physical features: if a man has a particularly attractive face, he should wash it the same as everyone else.
As for "old people", families, and children staring in the park, I had no idea they would do that. If they did stare because of your thick hair, I'd smile back.
As for "old people", families, and children staring in the park, I had no idea they would do that. If they did stare because of your thick hair, I'd smile back.
huge_cock_have_pic: I think depends on the setting. Working in a professional setting, a more than noticable bulge comes across as at least vulgar and at the most sexual harrassment. I have to wear jock straps and spandex on top. Prefer champions new ones that combine the strap and brief to keep your ass from always being exposed.
HungJordan: I am nearly 8" soft and very thick even flaccid too. I have found that It takes quite a bit planning to be discreet about whats hanging there unless you want it to show and be obvious. Any type of brief (underwear), baggy clothes, and long shirts are perfect for covering up. You might feel like everyone is looking at your crotch but believe me, no one is the wiser.
johnny8x8: At 6.75" x 5.75" soft, I'm not sure that I totally qualify for this post, but here goes ...
I'm all for not concealing what I've got which is apparently noticeable under clothes. I certainly don't go out of my way to hide it and most of the time go "commando" regarding underwear. Whether or not I've got underwear on, I show a lot down the left leg.
The issue is that my wife tells me people think I've got a hardon when I don't. (If they saw my hard-on, they'd know that I'm much bigger/fatter hard than soft). So although the comparison to women endowed of large breasts is fair, no one suspects the buxom woman of being inappropriately horny. Whereas a man with something showing in the pants is thought to be "hard" just because he's big. Never occurred to me until a birthday party in summer. I was supervising a bunch of 6-year-olds at my kid's birthday party. I was in docker's shorts but not poking out or anything. And my wife told me later that someone commented to her (not knowing I was her husband) "what's with the guy with the hardon watching the kids?" Wife told her the "guy" was her husband who wasn't hard and as my wife she would know the difference ...
I'm all for not concealing what I've got which is apparently noticeable under clothes. I certainly don't go out of my way to hide it and most of the time go "commando" regarding underwear. Whether or not I've got underwear on, I show a lot down the left leg.
The issue is that my wife tells me people think I've got a hardon when I don't. (If they saw my hard-on, they'd know that I'm much bigger/fatter hard than soft). So although the comparison to women endowed of large breasts is fair, no one suspects the buxom woman of being inappropriately horny. Whereas a man with something showing in the pants is thought to be "hard" just because he's big. Never occurred to me until a birthday party in summer. I was supervising a bunch of 6-year-olds at my kid's birthday party. I was in docker's shorts but not poking out or anything. And my wife told me later that someone commented to her (not knowing I was her husband) "what's with the guy with the hardon watching the kids?" Wife told her the "guy" was her husband who wasn't hard and as my wife she would know the difference ...
47boreas: Hi Jonas from Sweden and other guys!
At my earlier job ladies asked me to wear more spacious pants as my bulge disturbed their peace of mind. One of them told me that black pants will hide the big bulge totally. So I began to wear black pants in the winter. In the summertime I wear spacious light-colored pants.
Now it is OK.
Ladies are not disturbed and men do not envy me my bulge.
Boreas
At my earlier job ladies asked me to wear more spacious pants as my bulge disturbed their peace of mind. One of them told me that black pants will hide the big bulge totally. So I began to wear black pants in the winter. In the summertime I wear spacious light-colored pants.
Now it is OK.
Ladies are not disturbed and men do not envy me my bulge.Boreas
meathose10: Johnny 8x8, I've gotten that "people think you have a hard-on" crap myself, too. But I don't get it - my cock is HANGING , obviously not stiff , and it's natural, gravitational weight and shifting movement seem to me to guarantee that I'm not erect. I always freeball - maybe most people just aren't used to seeing something that size dropping down the thigh of a pair of jeans. Hard is hard. That would always be evident , to my mind.
- Max,
[quote author=boreas link=board=clothing;num=1055860210;start=20#26 date=10/05/03 at 10:22:46]
At my earlier job ladies asked me to wear more spacious pants as my bulge disturbed their peace of mind. [/quote]
Boreas,
I have to say I think those women were out of order. The choice of your clothes should be a matter for you alone. Wearing deliberately provocative clothes is one thing (then perhaps they might have grounds for an objection); but wearing clothes that fit you and help you to look good is another.
Just imagine what they would have said if you had complained that their bulges "disturbed your peace of mind"!
The only was I can dress for total concealment is my wearing ridiculously loose trousers and hanging down my leg, but that is so uncomfortable for me that I never do it. Way back I decided that comfort was the first priority ... with a soft penis larger than most men erect and balls which more than match it there is no way around supporting it all upwards and showing a bulge.
I never wear trousers that "hug" me around the crotch ... sometimes inadvertently it looks a bit much, but my wife soon detects that and advises me. For some reason it always looks worse sitting down.
But a big guy is going to show a bulge almost whatever he wears .. and probably people might think he is erect ... that has happened to me so often that I am used to it.
Meathose .. If you have to wear yourself pointing up as I do, a 7.5 in soft penis is often going to look like a hardon.
At my earlier job ladies asked me to wear more spacious pants as my bulge disturbed their peace of mind. [/quote]
Boreas,
I have to say I think those women were out of order. The choice of your clothes should be a matter for you alone. Wearing deliberately provocative clothes is one thing (then perhaps they might have grounds for an objection); but wearing clothes that fit you and help you to look good is another.
Just imagine what they would have said if you had complained that their bulges "disturbed your peace of mind"!
The only was I can dress for total concealment is my wearing ridiculously loose trousers and hanging down my leg, but that is so uncomfortable for me that I never do it. Way back I decided that comfort was the first priority ... with a soft penis larger than most men erect and balls which more than match it there is no way around supporting it all upwards and showing a bulge.
I never wear trousers that "hug" me around the crotch ... sometimes inadvertently it looks a bit much, but my wife soon detects that and advises me. For some reason it always looks worse sitting down.
But a big guy is going to show a bulge almost whatever he wears .. and probably people might think he is erect ... that has happened to me so often that I am used to it.
Meathose .. If you have to wear yourself pointing up as I do, a 7.5 in soft penis is often going to look like a hardon.
johnny8x8: Max, would have to agree that it's pretty extreme for coworkers to approach a guy about his bulge and actually say something.
I go commando "freeball" as some of you call it, so I flop around when I walk. I haven't work briefs since college and then only in my "calvin klein" phase of fashion. Even then, I couldn't/would't keep in those things, much less pointed up. Gravity and weight kept that from working and instead I worked myself out through the leg openings. Jockeys were THE WORST for poking out through the front. Boxers are okay but even they can be pulling my dick against my leg like some ace bandage.
I go for cotton pants (less scratchy, more airy) but are also more showy. I live in New Orleans, so the heat is up more than not.
If anyone tells me I'm inappropriate because of the contour under my pants, I'll have to object to the contour of theirs ... equal time for eye pollution.
I go commando "freeball" as some of you call it, so I flop around when I walk. I haven't work briefs since college and then only in my "calvin klein" phase of fashion. Even then, I couldn't/would't keep in those things, much less pointed up. Gravity and weight kept that from working and instead I worked myself out through the leg openings. Jockeys were THE WORST for poking out through the front. Boxers are okay but even they can be pulling my dick against my leg like some ace bandage.
I go for cotton pants (less scratchy, more airy) but are also more showy. I live in New Orleans, so the heat is up more than not.
If anyone tells me I'm inappropriate because of the contour under my pants, I'll have to object to the contour of theirs ... equal time for eye pollution.
longtimelurker: [quote author=meathose10 link=board=clothing;num=1055860210;start=20#27 date=10/05/03 at 22:36:03]Johnny 8x8, I've gotten that "people think you have a hard-on" crap myself, too. But I don't get it - my cock is HANGING , obviously not stiff , and it's natural, gravitational weight and shifting movement seem to me to guarantee that I'm not erect. I always freeball - maybe most people just aren't used to seeing something that size dropping down the thigh of a pair of jeans. Hard is hard. That would always be evident , to my mind.[/quote]
You could always have a semi - hence being bigger than usual but still quite floppy - you should still be able to poke it down your leg in this state.
You could always have a semi - hence being bigger than usual but still quite floppy - you should still be able to poke it down your leg in this state.
nudpreston: well, guys... i'm not as big as you guys... BUT I love to show... and have 'Freeballed' for the last 15-years 24/7/365. If people are shocked---why are they looking at my crotch to begin with?
:
It's not in their faces, like over-sized women's breasts.
I love to show. I realize that I'm in the minority here. But if I could be naked, I would! (and have many times in the past, and plan more for the future!)
If they don't like it, then they don't have to look at it!!! As mentioned earlier, we see things every day in life that we don't like. And a sloppy obese man is much more offensive than a "bulge" in a pair of pants! Shame on them for looking down there!
There's my two-cents.
Now go out there and show the world your bulge! 8)
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It's not in their faces, like over-sized women's breasts.
I love to show. I realize that I'm in the minority here. But if I could be naked, I would! (and have many times in the past, and plan more for the future!)
If they don't like it, then they don't have to look at it!!! As mentioned earlier, we see things every day in life that we don't like. And a sloppy obese man is much more offensive than a "bulge" in a pair of pants! Shame on them for looking down there!
There's my two-cents.
Now go out there and show the world your bulge! 8)
I certainly recounted this thread tonight!
'Went by the grocery on the way home and was wearing (I suppose) the correct jeans to show "the bulge" going down the leg.
'Caught several "lookers" (one of whom an older lady who had that disapproving shocked expression
('Sorry mam. Wasn't intentional that I offend you!)
Until I read others' comments here a few days ago, I hadn't really thought too much about "what" others' (onlookers) perception of what they were "seeing" could be in fact...(i.e. is it erect? is it THAT big flaccid?, etc.)
It's true, I suppose. Those of us who have the longer flaccid state really are some kind of an intriguing oddity to the general populace....men and women. For them, it must difficult to comprehend such sizes truly exist when compared to the "average" world.
Timid me, it could be enough to make me self-conscious!
But confidentially...(among my fellow well-hung brothers here)--
(I just won't let it!)
'Went by the grocery on the way home and was wearing (I suppose) the correct jeans to show "the bulge" going down the leg.
'Caught several "lookers" (one of whom an older lady who had that disapproving shocked expression
('Sorry mam. Wasn't intentional that I offend you!)
Until I read others' comments here a few days ago, I hadn't really thought too much about "what" others' (onlookers) perception of what they were "seeing" could be in fact...(i.e. is it erect? is it THAT big flaccid?, etc.)
It's true, I suppose. Those of us who have the longer flaccid state really are some kind of an intriguing oddity to the general populace....men and women. For them, it must difficult to comprehend such sizes truly exist when compared to the "average" world.
Timid me, it could be enough to make me self-conscious!
But confidentially...(among my fellow well-hung brothers here)--
(I just won't let it!)
johnny8x8: Amen, brother.
I'm really not the one that's self-conscious about it -- my wife manages that for me. She's also the one who constantly is doing an "underwear check" if I'm in public with her. Somehow she thinks that an extra 0.05 mm of cotton is going to keep me "under wraps". She honestly can't tell by looking at me whether I'm wearing any or not. I "bounce" whether wearing it or not, so why bother?
I'm really not the one that's self-conscious about it -- my wife manages that for me. She's also the one who constantly is doing an "underwear check" if I'm in public with her. Somehow she thinks that an extra 0.05 mm of cotton is going to keep me "under wraps". She honestly can't tell by looking at me whether I'm wearing any or not. I "bounce" whether wearing it or not, so why bother?
nacard01: i am 9 soft and have found that the only way that seems to work for me as to draw extreme attention is to wear boxer briefs and utilize that sewn in pouch thingee in the front. I put it down in there and it usually stays there no problems pretty snug like. Just have to be careful when you sit down as you can hurt yourself if you sit on yourself.
Freeballing is a bad thing for me as I tend to bump into things. I have had dozens of bruises to prove it.
Not sure if this will help anyone but out of all the different ways I have tried to contain or obscure my bulge from other people this has been the only way but the kicker is..if you are this big soft you have to do this with baggy clothing as well. Levi's in otherwords would be a very bad idea if you dont want attention.
Kermit
Freeballing is a bad thing for me as I tend to bump into things. I have had dozens of bruises to prove it.
Not sure if this will help anyone but out of all the different ways I have tried to contain or obscure my bulge from other people this has been the only way but the kicker is..if you are this big soft you have to do this with baggy clothing as well. Levi's in otherwords would be a very bad idea if you dont want attention.
Kermit
meathose10: Like you, nudepreston, I like to show. I always freeball - don't even own any underwear. My large size is evident and I like that. I've got low-hangers too. So both my long, thick flaccid cock and big balls drop down the left thigh of my levis. I like feeling all that weight roll along my leg as I walk. Sure - people look. Many people LIKE looking at a big dick packed into a pair of jeans. I get followed. The hungry attention excites me. I fill out into a nice, healthy semi.......I figure the lookers like what they see and enjoy watching me surge in size as I become aroused. I have a lot of control and never go rigid. I just hang huger....Meet a lot of people that way.
Being very big soft is normal for the men in my family. We are all about 7.5 soft, quite thick. Also, we have very big low hangers. They tend to compound things. No pun intended.
largerthanyou345: hey ya i know what youre talkin bout......real wierd im bout 8 in. and 7 around flaccid and my dick just doesnt change much during erection....
bobby123: Hihi,
Well I''m 25cm soft and it is not a problem at all since It is possible to wear a T-shirt covering the top part of your trousers... In this way, it is impossible to notice a bulge since...
I think it is inpolite to shock people with your cock just because you are proud of it..
Of course you can be proud but don''t try to worry people by accident. It is not worth it to LOWER your self-esteem in such as a manner
Well I''m 25cm soft and it is not a problem at all since It is possible to wear a T-shirt covering the top part of your trousers... In this way, it is impossible to notice a bulge since...
I think it is inpolite to shock people with your cock just because you are proud of it..
Of course you can be proud but don''t try to worry people by accident. It is not worth it to LOWER your self-esteem in such as a manner
I'm 8X6 soft and can't always hide my bulge. I do try because as previously stated I want to be known and liked for me not my cock. I too have been accused of having a hard on when in fact I was totally soft. Some drunk woman in a bar, had a big mouth and would not shut up about it. I finally went up to her, took her hand and placed it on my cock. I asked her now does that feel like a hard on to you?? She got really red in the face and left. Let them feel it and they will shut up, atleast about the hard on.
I wear boxers because they're the most comfortable to me. Therefore I wear loose fitting pants to help hide the bulge down my left leg. Sometimes I do wear jeans that are more fitted and that makes the bulge more apparent. If my dick ever goes down my right leg then people tend to think I have a hard on, it's just the way it bulges. When I wear the more fitted jeans you can also tell that I am cut.
I could never wear my dick flipped back up against my body for two reasons. The first and most obvious is the bulge it would create. The second is gravity, hell it won't stay up even in a jock with the head tucked under the waist band. No way it would stay up in briefs.
I wear boxers because they're the most comfortable to me. Therefore I wear loose fitting pants to help hide the bulge down my left leg. Sometimes I do wear jeans that are more fitted and that makes the bulge more apparent. If my dick ever goes down my right leg then people tend to think I have a hard on, it's just the way it bulges. When I wear the more fitted jeans you can also tell that I am cut.
I could never wear my dick flipped back up against my body for two reasons. The first and most obvious is the bulge it would create. The second is gravity, hell it won't stay up even in a jock with the head tucked under the waist band. No way it would stay up in briefs.
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