Virginity

[prepstudinsc]

Congratulations on being a virgin...it's something to be proud of. DON'T be in a rush to lose it. I lost mine at 19 and I wish I had waited longer. I still regret it 16 years later.

 

[D_Harold_Hopnoodle]

Let's see... for me it was age 22 or 23 (can't remember exactly) with the woman I would later marry at age 26.

I don't regret waiting that long. I slightly regretted not waiting until marriage, but that regret has disappeared as I've shaken off some of the guilt that I carried from having been otherwise indoctrinated growing up in the Bible Belt.

Not that I think it&#39;s categorically wrong to suggest waiting until marriage (or until a committed relationship, for those people whom this country&#39;s government may choose to idiotically deny the right to legally couple). <<Descending from soapbox>>

Y&#39;all virgins out there--- chin up. First do no harm to others, then do what you know you want, when you know you want it. As wise people have said, just chill out, and it&#39;ll all be okay. You&#39;ll undoubtedly remember your first time, but ya know, it probably won&#39;t change too terribly much about the way the rest of your life goes. Unless, that is, you go au naturale and happen to get that one lucky roll of the gametes...

 

[Irish]

18, freshman year of college to my then-girlfriend. We had been dating since our freshman year of high school and it was the first time for both of us. It was interesting, she&#39;s just barely 5&#39; tall and just tiny as could be, we just kind of assumed we were doing something wrong because we couldn&#39;t get things to fit quite right. Thinking back on it, it was funny as hell.

Any regrets I have are about the way our relationship ended, but not about having sex with her. I loved her then, and I love her now.

 

[Dr. Bubbles]

I commend all of you who have kept your virginity for personal reasons, moral convictions or what have you. Virginity is something that is special, something that maintains a level of innocence that you and only you can decide to give. So many times I wish I would have waited before giving in. My first was not exactly a memorable moment, if you know what I mean. I regret ever giving him that opportunity.

I have seen where so many of us have been victims of sexual violence. For that, my heart extends to each of you. I, too, have been there and it was something that almost destroyed me. As if the humilation and almost my death were not enough, my assault almost became a public spectacle because I held a pageant title during this time. Shortly after the assualt and my "so-called recovery," I was contacted by pageant officals and eventually was asked to give up the title. I did and resigned for "personal reasons." Talk about public humilation... I felt as if I were raped all over again... I will never forgive them or "that association" for being so brutal and insensitive.

I say all that to say to you that have been victimized... regardless of the circumstance and what it entails, if you have never had sex on your own terms you still have your innocence. A rape is a horrid and tragic experience, but one that does not warrant your feelings of loss of innocence. I extend to each of you warm feelings of love and best wishes for a propserous life. Enjoy it and live it to the fullest. When that special person comes alone, you will know and then you will be able to share the best gift ever with them.... yourself.

 

[dickbulge]

15

Everyone&#39;s story is so romantic. Well most.

Older guy picked me up at departmaent store and sucked me off. He met me several times (and I don&#39;t blame him, I was hot shit&#33 and I probably took the first cock in my mouth at that time.

Several months later an older guy picked my up and I screwed him for the first time.

First women was at 22. This guy picked me up (do you see a trend here?)
and we had a three way with his wife.

No regrets. Loved it all and still do. I should have charged for it........

 

[13788]

Blueeyes: Alright...well I thought I would come back and report that I have now had sex...no longer a virgin here. I&#39;m 26, so none of the rest of you should feel wierd about still being a virgin at whatever your age. When it&#39;s right, it&#39;s right. I didn&#39;t even really plan losing mine...but I did in a way. I have been with my boyfriend now almost 4 months. Last month, we went out to this restaurant we love and were staying in a hotel right near it. We&#39;ve done that a few times and it always leads to getting into bed, but until that night, we did things other than sex...oral, manual, you get the idea. Well, that night I just knew while we were at dinner. I could feel that it was right. So when we started fooling around, well, it just happened.

Being someone that really, really hates pain, I was glad that I hadn&#39;t really thought about when it would happen because I was really afraid it would hurt. Well, I was even happier to find out that it totally did not&#33; One great thing about waiting until you are older to lose your virginity, for a girl, is that your hymen has thinned out, so it really doesn&#39;t hurt. I still bled and it felt like a really warm sensation (not quite a burning sensation), but it didn&#39;t hurt (and I&#39;m a wimp, so you know I&#39;m not kidding). He&#39;s a pretty thick guy too, hense the sex with large penis website.

Anyone who is contemplating giving themselves to someone else, just remember...it&#39;s your body. Do not let someone else say when, where, how or whom. You get to decide because that body was given to you and no one else. If you have the unfortunate circumstance of being with someone who does not accept no for an answer, then as the woman before me stated, do not lose your sense of self. Rape takes your power away, nothing else. Rape is not about sex, but about power, so take that power right back and do what you can to make sure that person gets somewhere where they can&#39;t do it to someone else. And then try to move on...and let yourself heal, both physically and emotionally until the time is right with someone who does respect you, and your body.

I can&#39;t tell you how many people I know that regret their first times. It seems that in this country we have lost sight of ourselves. We forget that if we&#39;re doing something to be cool, or to piss off mommy and daddy, or to prove some stupid point: the only person you end up hurting is yourself&#33;

Be true to yourself...wait until it&#39;s right, without question...and then, enjoy&#33; Cuz when it&#39;s right...damn it&#39;s good&#33;

Take care all&#33;

 

[Str8Man]

Hey Late bloomer here too. Didn&#39;t go all the way till I was 19 and we did it at the lake, and in the lake...

But I was 9 when I first rubbed my wood on a little pussy. She was 11 and had a few little hairs.. I was too sheltered to know it would fit inside her or I could say 9 years. I have 2 kids now so that&#39;s kinda scarry....

 

[13788]

AzNightSun: well i was 17 and she was the girl that lived next door very hot looking red head

 

[Spirando47]

Waiting for marriage.. which won&#39;t be any time soon.

 

[13788]

hung_big: I just lost my male-virginities (if there&#39;s actually a word such as that) today

 

[naughty]

Originally posted by hung_big@May 15 2005, 03:15 AM
I just lost my male-virginities (if there&#39;s actually a word such as that) today

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Chris,

is that you? Good to have you back, dear&#33; So what is this you are saying?

Naughty

 

[Supportive Female]

Originally posted by hung_big@May 14 2005, 11:15 PM
I just lost my male-virginities (if there&#39;s actually a word such as that) today

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Hung_Big,

Thank you for welcoming me to the board a few weeks ago, I didn&#39;t get a chance earlier; you&#39;ve been absent of late. And from the sound of it, quite busy, too&#33; : 9

I hope your new experiences were terrific, and continue to be&#33;

 

[13788]

Snicklet69: i was 16 with a normal sized guy and 21 with a sex large man

 

[thomuk81]

I&#39;m 24 and still a virgin, never even been kissed I;m kinda used to it now, although I do get extremly horny somedays - wanking is good&#33; I do dream about having a hunky, loving boyfriend to make love to me roughly when ever he feels the urge, but I do also live in a fantasy world....

I planned on losing my virginity before I turned 20, now it&#39;s looking more like 30....? I hope I find him soon x

 

[Mr_Clark]

I was 21, with my fiancee. I only regret that it wasn&#39;t earlier. I had options earlier in life but I had been brainwashed by the rednecks into believing I was completely unlovable due to my lack of interest in WWF and carburetors, so I didn&#39;t pursue them.

I&#39;ve always been church-free so I don&#39;t see virginity as anything special or to be proud of. It&#39;s nothing to be ashamed of either, though. It&#39;s just something you haven&#39;t done yet. I don&#39;t understand you guys who regret losing it when you did.

 

[Sharps-Rifle]

I was 11 years old when a neighbor lady (Jenny) asked me to do some yard work for her. I was innocently mowing the lawn, wearing shorts and my cock fell out the leg of my shorts. Jenny looked out her window and saw me. When I got done mowing the lawn she told me I could use her shower to clean up. I didn&#39;t think anything of it and agreed. When I got out of the shower I happened to remember I would have to put my sweaty clothes back on but -- they were no where to be found. Jenny had thrown them in her washing machine. I came out of the bathroom wearing a towel and found Jenny wearing nothing at all. She approached me, she said "shh -- don&#39;t say anything -- just enjoy this" and GAWD ALMIGHTY, I obeyed&#33; My clothes didn&#39;t get dry for hours, neither did her pussy. Damn, I had a fine time with that lady. She was an excellent teacher and I tried my hardest to be an attentive student.

Its hard for me to believe that was 47 years ago.

 

[Phat_Matt_9inch]

What a charming fictional recount of days gone by.

 

[Pecker]

Originally posted by Sharps&#045;Rifle@Jun 1 2005, 04:18 PM
Its hard for me to believe that was 47 years ago.

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Yes, it is hard to believe. :glare:

 

[Sharps-Rifle]

Pecker and Phat Matt:

I&#39;ve got no qualms with your not believing me. I&#39;m 58 years old and fairly secure with life by now. My experience with losing my virginity happened just as I told it here and, all these years later, I find the memory of that experience to still be very sweet indeed.

Thank you for your interest.

 

[Dr Rock]

:shrug: what part of Sharps-Rifle&#39;s post strikes you guys as being so unlikely? I was also 11 when I first had sex, although it was with other kids my own age. however, when I was 12 my best friend&#39;s mother did practically the same thing to me as Sharps-Rifle describes, albeit in different circumstances (and as far as I remember, that WAS the first time I had proper hetero sex). as far as I&#39;ve been able to gather, neither of those things is really that uncommon or remarkable.