Visiting prostitutes

[Over-reaching]

I met up with an old friend from school last night, someone I see fairly infrequently. Anyway, he mentioned that he regularly uses prostitutes, which surprised me: he's a pretty good-looking guy in his late 20s, in good shape, easy to talk to. I asked him why - he said for him, at the moment, it's just less hassle and cheaper than trying to have a long-term relationship (which begs the question about casual sex with acquaintances, but still), and that the sex is very good (him knowing, I guess, where to go for good service!).

So I wonder: how many guys here have visited/do visit prostitutes? If so, do you go to a brothel? An escort working alone? Street girls?

I'm not condemning, and although I never have that is not to say I never would, so I'm just asking.

 

[cameltoelover]

Sure, I've done it. I've had massages which have turned into much more. Also, when in South America especially Buenos Aires, I'll go to a privado. There's usually a lineup of the girls and you can pick the one you like. Buenos Aires also has some cafes and bars with both amateurs and pros. It's like the old saying. Sex for money is cheaper. lol

 

[Over-reaching]

Sure, I've done it. I've had massages which have turned into much more. Also, when in South America especially Buenos Aires, I'll go to a privado. There's usually a lineup of the girls and you can pick the one you like. Buenos Aires also has some cafes and bars with both amateurs and pros. It's like the old saying. Sex for money is cheaper. lol

Interesting. I take it the sex is good then, if you go back?

 

[cameltoelover]

Alot of them are students paying their way through school (a cliche, but true). If you're interested in getting laid, it's much cheaper than dating, plus no need to hurt somebody if you're 'only after one thing'. And the sex is usually very good. I have a very strong sex drive and see it as a stress release, much like going to the gym for a workout. Of course, you should always be safe. I only do it only at the high end of the market which is very safe and very much a victimless crime.

 

[deleted356736]

I have had sex with prostitutes from time to time, both in brothels and also escorts. The sex is generally very good, and sometimes astounding! The best sexual encounters of my life were with prostitutes and escorts, and I often used to wonder why I, as a client, shared better sex than their boyfriends or partners would ever experience.

In Australia, prostitution is legal and regulated, which means a good supply of girls of various ages and experience who are willing to work for what is a lot of money. Escorts can be more expensive, but often have websites which outline services, prices, pictures and so on, so you know what you're getting before you meet.

I have had anal sex with a few prostitutes, something that ordinary women couldn't handle because of my girth. I have also enjoyed mutually pleasuring one-another, with some working girls really getting into it in a big way. You can generally tell when a woman really orgasms, especially if she ejaculates. Afterwards, as we contemplated the puddle on her sheet, the escort I was with told me that she has a job where she gets sexually aroused by client after client, but rarely is she fully satisfied. So when satisfaction happens, it's really big! Another prostitute, whose screams would have been heard all over the suburb, told me much the same thing.

 

[FRE]

I have had sex with prostitutes from time to time, both in brothels and also escorts. The sex is generally very good, and sometimes astounding! The best sexual encounters of my life were with prostitutes and escorts, and I often used to wonder why I, as a client, shared better sex than their boyfriends or partners would ever experience.

In Australia, prostitution is legal and regulated, which means a good supply of girls of various ages and experience who are willing to work for what is a lot of money. Escorts can be more expensive, but often have websites which outline services, prices, pictures and so on, so you know what you're getting before you meet.

I have had anal sex with a few prostitutes, something that ordinary women couldn't handle because of my girth. I have also enjoyed mutually pleasuring one-another, with some working girls really getting into it in a big way. You can generally tell when a woman really orgasms, especially if she ejaculates. Afterwards, as we contemplated the puddle on her sheet, the escort I was with told me that she has a job where she gets sexually aroused by client after client, but rarely is she fully satisfied. So when satisfaction happens, it's really big! Another prostitute, whose screams would have been heard all over the suburb, told me much the same thing.

Probably they're good thespians.

 

[SpeedoMike]

memories! ever hear of Joe Conforti's Mustang Ranch near Reno. Unfortunately the IRS confiscated it for tax anomalies and then took over operating it. it eventually closed and everything sold at auction.

 

[FRE]

memories! ever hear of Joe Conforti's Mustang Ranch near Reno. Unfortunately the IRS confiscated it for tax anomalies and then took over operating it. it eventually closed and everything sold at auction.

That's happened before, and I'm not talking about brothels.

If the federal government doesn't like what someone or some entity does, they can have the IRS come down on them. The victim may win the court case but go bankrupt because of the legal expenses.

 

[wellhung9]

I never have, but would consider it. You guys do make good points. I would have to go to some kind of brothel. I wouldn't feel comfortable picking up one of the ones on the street. I just always figured visiting a prostitute would be unsatisfying, sort of like getting jerked off by a stripper. I once had a stripper talk me into paying for a hand/blow job when I was pretty drunk once, but to my dismay it seemed like she rushed things and then after a few songs, said we had to end because the rules say you can't be in there for too long. This was before I even blew my load, what a rip! I have a feeling she just wanted to go make more money.

 

[cdog204]

Nah, I'm too cheap to pay for a hooker. I'm confident that I can do better for free.

 

[wild_boy]

I met up with an old friend from school last night, someone I see fairly infrequently. Anyway, he mentioned that he regularly uses prostitutes, which surprised me: he's a pretty good-looking guy in his late 20s, in good shape, easy to talk to. I asked him why - he said for him, at the moment, it's just less hassle and cheaper than trying to have a long-term relationship (which begs the question about casual sex with acquaintances, but still), and that the sex is very good (him knowing, I guess, where to go for good service!).

So I wonder: how many guys here have visited/do visit prostitutes? If so, do you go to a brothel? An escort working alone? Street girls?

I'm not condemning, and although I never have that is not to say I never would, so I'm just asking.

I've lost my virignity to a hooker, in a friend's car... cost me around $15 to lose my virginity and it was less than one minute fuck, back then I still didn't know how to hold my orgasm. my friends laughed at that and it was embarrasing but I can't change it.
was with prostitutes few more times later, last when I was 23 or so.

 

[cameltoelover]

My guess is alot more guys have visited a prostitute than will admit to it (either brothel, massage parlor, or escort). My view is that modern dating is sometimes nothing more than glorified prostitution and with the massive social change of the last 40 years, men have less power/say in relationships than ever before. Prostitution is in a way just a very honest form of dating.

 

[D_Wally Walnuts]

I have. Sometimes it was worth the money, sometimes it wasn't. I still remember 2 or 3 that really showed me a good time.

 

[FuzzyKen]

To me, the big problem would be health issues. In an individual engaged in this for profit, there is no way to easily guarantee a health screening because it can take days or weeks for some medical conditions to show up in blood work. By the time the condition shows up, the person has been able to transmit the condition to others for a period of time.

We are not talking HIV here. HIV is but one of many conditions which can be transmitted sexually and it is not necessarily the most dangerous.

Remember that even simple herpes can change your life, and have a negative impact on your own sexual future.

Many decades ago I "played" in this manner. It resulted in multiple cases of NGU and exposure to Mono for a second time in my life. All of the people appeared clean and healthy and it was simply matter of chance.

Because there is no way to easily screen in a person this sexually active, I would never in my lifetime do this again. Right now, I am watching a great girl I know die from complications of sexually transmitted hepatitis. She now is in liver failure, has liver cancer (still contained) and is going downhill quickly.

My biological Father many years an alcoholic also died of liver cancer. Before the end came for him, there was not enough morphine on the planet to kill the pain and leave him conscious. He slipped away with myself at his side in 1994.

When we take chances, we also assume these risks. The sex may be the most fantastic you'll ever have, but, is it good enough to be worth dying for?

You have to ask yourself this question.

 

[deleted356736]

Probably they're good thespians.

So she 'acted' her ejaculation and the contractions I felt with my finger, as well as her clitoral sensitivity. I had one escort I used to visit on a semi-regular basis who always came, and then we couldn't have intercourse for a while because she was too sensitive to take me. There are some conceptions about prostitutes, such as not kissing (they do), and hating men and sex (some do, many don't). Almost all prostitutes are in it for the money, but it doesn't beggar belief that they also get aroused during the process. A smaller number of prostitutes are truly in it for the sex, and there's one very much sought after high-class escort in Sydney who is one of those.

Fuzzyken: I take your point on STIs, but if safe sex is practiced, then the changes of infection are reduced. For a prostitute, keeping STI-free is her livelihood, so they tend to be very fussy, probably more fussy than a one-night stand picked up at a nightclub. Condoms don't fully protect against herpes transmission, but truly the only way to avoid herpes is to be celibate until marriage, and then marry a virgin. Not a likely scenario.

Cameltoelover: I generally saw prostitutes and escorts when I was between relationships or travelling, and I saw the money spent as being more a sure thing than trying a pick-up at a nightclub. A guaranteed pleasurable time with an attractive young lady.

 

[cameltoelover]

Any ladies have an opinion on this topic? Please chime in.

 

[B_ILIW]

I have. I sometimes visit a parlour for a rub and tug sometimes, as a convenient way to satisfy the urge.

 

[B_Jules7]

I have done it a few times but almost always it's been a stripper who has danced a few times and then gone to bed with me (for money of course) The rediculous thing is that it seems so different to picking up a prostitute or phoning an escort (neither of which I have ever done). The latter seems so skanky and impersonal... but in all of my cases there was almost a foreplay. They would give me a lapdance and during that process they would often feel my hardon (and sometime make a comment). Then usually a drink a chat, then maybe a private dance with a little more contact, and then eventually I would ask them how we can take things further. Sometimes they had rooms there (brothel type strip club) or other times come back to my hotel. One time we even made an arrangement for the following night when she was not working. I know it's for the money but I did feel that of the clientele I was one of the younger better looking clients and so got quite a lot of attention from the girls and they were into me. This "foreplay" is not much different to going to a club and buying girls drinks and taking one home.

What I can say is that all of them were absolutely gorgeous, and normally the 1 in 50 girl that you get to take home in the "real world". They are also comfortable with their bodies and know what they are doing. And, there is no emotional worries about hurting feelings etc. Most have been in European or Eastern European countries so that laws are more relaxed, it's cheap for the high quality you get, and the girls are often young 19 - 22 students. Often they are very "normal" young girls and not the stereotypical hooker in a dark alley in fishnet stockings and heels!

I wouldn't have wanted them to be my whole sex life because it's a false world and there are health issues (although possibly no less than a 1 night stand in a club!). They make up about 15% of the girls I have slept with... but in terms of looks they occupy most of the top 10 spots!

 

[curiousvirgin]

I don't find anything wrong with it. one's out to make a livelihood, the other for enjoyment. just a business transaction like anything else in the world... as long as it's done with mutual consent.

My guess is alot more guys have visited a prostitute than will admit to it (either brothel, massage parlor, or escort). My view is that modern dating is sometimes nothing more than glorified prostitution and with the massive social change of the last 40 years, men have less power/say in relationships than ever before. Prostitution is in a way just a very honest form of dating.

Prostitution an honest form of dating.... the way you've termed that makes it seem that most guys date just to get some free and safe action just as they would if they could with a prostitute, and girls out to get materially what they can out of guy while they date them. I view prostitution as a business transaction, dating is an entirely different scenario.. its done to create a relationship. To find a person and form a bond, in order to create a family and build a future.Have any guys here had a loving relationship with a prostitute or considered having a family with one? taking one home to meet your parents perhaps? If you did that, i would think it great, at least you see that women/man as a human being and not just a tool for bodily pleasures.

Personally,having sex with a person that view's his/her body as a earning tool via inciting lust and giving sexual gratification is repulsive to me, I am lucky i guess because I have other means to earn an income and can take a high stand and say that i would never deal in prostitution, but i realise that many women/men out there do not have that option and take one that seems easiest to them.And many men and women out there take that option to gratify themselves without looking at the moral aspect of it because it also seems easiest as there are no strings attached and no repercussions.

It would be nice if people respected others more, It would be nice if people loved others more,I would be nice if prostitution were abolished,but the world's no utopia and it's never going to happen.

There's just too much crime out there against women in that business for me to see it in a positive light. It would be better if it were regulated in more countries like it is in Australia. Prostitution's been around for ages in all countries and its not like its gonna disappear with making it unlawful because it's against most religions or what is morally right.

 

[jockmaestro]

I met up with an old friend from school last night, someone I see fairly infrequently. Anyway, he mentioned that he regularly uses prostitutes, which surprised me: he's a pretty good-looking guy in his late 20s, in good shape, easy to talk to. I asked him why - he said for him, at the moment, it's just less hassle and cheaper than trying to have a long-term relationship (which begs the question about casual sex with acquaintances, but still), and that the sex is very good (him knowing, I guess, where to go for good service!).

So I wonder: how many guys here have visited/do visit prostitutes? If so, do you go to a brothel? An escort working alone? Street girls?

I'm not condemning, and although I never have that is not to say I never would, so I'm just asking.

Content: I'd be up for it with guys but not with women.
Grammar: It doesn't "beg the question." It "raises the question." To "beg the question" means to assume part of a conclusion in your original hypothesis.