Weird fetish

[SR1]

Hello,
New here and I wondered if I am being unreasonable with my partner. I love to be teased about being circumcised during sex but she won't do it! I think it stems from being teased at school by girls and also being circumcised by a woman. Any thoughts?

 

[TinyPrincess]

I think for a fetish to work in a relationship it should preferably be shared.

I love my men intact but I would never tease one for being circumcised - positively or negatively.

 

[SR1]

Yeah I think your right and despite my best efforts I can't convince her it's just for fun and I'm not offended by it. Doesn't turn me on at all until things get going!!

 

[SR1]

Should point out that this (I think) is a humiliation type fetish or one where the woman has control over me.

 

[AlteredEgo]

If it makes her uncomfortable so be it. Nothing you can do about that. Fap to it.

 

[SR1]

Maybe get a new woman then, one less selfish.

 

[693987]

Maybe get a new woman then, one less selfish.

It's not selfish to not have a fetish. It IS selfish to try to force someone to do something they're not into. Humiliation based kinks are most definitely not for everyone.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Maybe get a new woman then, one less selfish.

She doesn't seem like the selfish one to me.

I have kinks my guy isn't into. I don't try to shove them on him, and I don't call him selfish for not being into every single thing I am.

Just sayin.

 

[SR1]

Yeah I get that but it's just a bit of fun I'm after. Not wanting to be tied up and paraded round a field. Just a bit of light hearted dirty talk if you like.

 

[693987]

Yeah I get that but it's just a bit of fun I'm after. Not wanting to be tied up and paraded round a field. Just a bit of light hearted dirty talk if you like.

That's all it is to you. I'm pretty kinky and I still am not into humiliation based stuff. Humiliating someone over anything, much less a part of their body is extremely not my thing. Not all fetishes are for everyone. To say your partner is selfish for not being into it and suggesting finding a new partner over it is a pretty strong response over something very small.

My partner doesn't share all my kinks. I don't call him selfish for that. I don't share all of his, and he doesn't call me selfish. It's selfish and naive to expect and/or demand that a single individual be exactly what you want in every aspect.

 

[SR1]

That's all it is to you. I'm pretty kinky and I still am not into humiliation based stuff. Humiliating someone over anything, much less a part of their body is extremely not my thing. Not all fetishes are for everyone. To say your partner is selfish for not being into it and suggesting finding a new partner over it is a pretty strong response over something very small.

My partner doesn't share all my kinks. I don't call him selfish for that. I don't share all of his, and he doesn't call me selfish. It's selfish and naive to expect and/or demand that a single individual be exactly what you want in every aspect.

 

[SR1]

I appreciate what your saying and I agree. Guess it goes deeper than this issue, I pretty much do whatever is asked of me generally speaking and get next to fuck all back. Hence my comment.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Yeah I get that but it's just a bit of fun I'm after. Not wanting to be tied up and paraded round a field. Just a bit of light hearted dirty talk if you like.

This entitled attitude is disgusting. I can't believe she fucks you at all.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

do-me subs are soooooooooo boring.

 

[SR1]

This entitled attitude is disgusting. I can't believe she fucks you at all.

Ok so I stop doing what she wants because there's nothing in it for me to even it out. She fucks me because I'm very good at it and she gets what she wants. Freak.

 

[SR1]

do-me subs are soooooooooo boring.

Long way from boring dear

 

[MickeyLee]

you sound boring, needy and entitled. None of these attributes are conducive to being great at sex.

 

[SR1]

Because I have been happily married for 22 years, give my wife whatever she wants if I can, satisfy her in bed and emotionally, support my entire family single handedly financially and ask for a bit of fun back I'm entitled and selfish. What a load of shite. You know literally nothing.

 

[SR1]

Lol. I'm none of those if only you knew, but hey offer an opinion anyway. Point is I do whatever she asks as I'm just like that and want a bit fun back. The point of my post wad simply is the mature of the fetish too much. My other half gets everything she wants from me as do my kids. Plus I'm no dom either.

 

[MickeyLee]

A person can provide for other while still being entitled. Just because you perform A thought C doesn't entitle you to D. Your have asked your partner if she is interested in your fetish. She replied in the negative. You came here seeking permission to continue pestering her for what you want. You didn't get it and still throw out reasons why you feel you should get what you want.

Of all the sexual things you do for your partner how many make you uncomfortable or do you find distasteful?