weird question about anal & hating condoms...

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is there any reason why a female condom {femidom} couldn't be used anally?
would it solve the problem for guys who hate wearng condoms?

thinking about it, it would be easy enough to insert during foreplay...

gimme your thoughts?
 

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Thought about it, tried it. It didn't work. The flexible ring is very very difficult to insert, and does not stay in place.

I was surprised at just how SHORT the female condom is, though. It's plenty wide...
 

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Thought about it, tried it. It didn't work. The flexible ring is very very difficult to insert, and does not stay in place.

I was surprised at just how SHORT the female condom is, though. It's plenty wide...
heh, i'm not very experienced in inserting things into arses :biggrin1:
i'm usually on the receiving end.

i've never actually used one either...

too short & the ring is awkward...
but maybe there's an invention waiting to be made there.

ps. stop thinking of my ideas first!
 

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heh, i'm not very experienced in inserting things into arses :biggrin1:
i'm usually on the receiving end.

i've never actually used one either...

too short & the ring is awkward...
but maybe there's an invention waiting to be made there.

ps. stop thinking of my ideas first!
Mother is the necessity of invention, dear.
 
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I JUST saw a study on this... At least I think it was this.... let me look.
 

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It would not be conducive to lovemaking. Of course we have been together for years and there is no fear of STD's. She is remarkably clean internally, even without enemas, it is very rare to see any traces of feces on my cock. Body contact is very important to us and condoms of any type just doesn't feel right.
 

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No need or desire for condoms of any kind here.Been doing it bare back with my wife for 10+ years.Butt maybe she just has a realy clean ass!!lololol!
 

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I tried it with a former fuck buddy and it worked fine.
could they be improved for purpose?
and was it better than regular condoms, for sensation?
No need or desire for condoms of any kind here.Been doing it bare back with my wife for 10+ years.Butt maybe she just has a realy clean ass!!lololol!
i was thinking more std protection.
 
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I JUST saw a study on this... At least I think it was this.... let me look.

Found it!
[SIZE=+1] Safety and acceptability of the RealityTM condom for anal sex among men who have sex with men[/SIZE]

[SIZE=-0] Source: AIDS 2003; 17(5):727-731[/SIZE]

[SIZE=-0]Authors: Cristina Renzi; Stephen R. Tabet; Jason A. Stucky; Niles Eaton; Anne S. Coletti; Christina M. Surawicz; S. Nicholas Agoff; Patrick J. Heagerty; Michael Gross; Connie L. Celum [/SIZE]

[SIZE=-0]Abstract: [/SIZE]

[SIZE=-0]Objectives:
To assess safety and acceptability of RealityTM condoms for anal sex among men who have sex with men. [/SIZE]


[SIZE=-0]Methods:
Crossover study among HIV-seroconcordant (33 HIV-negative and 5 HIV-positive) monogamous male couples, randomized to latex male and Reality condom use with anal sex. [/SIZE]


[SIZE=-0]Results:
Slippage with removal was reported more frequently with Reality than male latex condoms [odds ratio (OR), 2.7; 95% confidence interval (CI), 1.2-5.8 for receptive partners and OR, 34.1; 95% CI, 13.8-84.1 for insertive partners]. Receptive partners more frequently reported pain or discomfort (OR, 5.0; 95% CI, 2.6-9.4) and rectal bleeding (OR, 1.9; 95% CI, 0.9-4.1) with Reality condoms than male condoms. Over 20% reported willingness to use the Reality condom in the future with a partner of unknown HIV status; willingness was associated with past problems with male condoms and no problems with Reality condoms among receptive partners, and with past use of Reality condoms and HIV seropositivity among insertive partners. [/SIZE]


[SIZE=-0]Conclusions:
Men reported more frequent problems with Reality condoms than male latex condoms used for anal intercourse, particularly slippage, discomfort, and rectal bleeding. Design modifications, training, and research on the clinical significance of safety outcomes are needed for use of Reality condoms with anal sex. -University of Washington
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I have another question and hope the op doesn't mind another question on her thread.

A couple of you have said your mates are very "clean" internally. I have tried enemas and they don't work on me, I don't understand it.

I want anal more often than I get it because I am always worried about what might happen. I never feel empty, so I don't do it.

Any suggestions? I want to mention as well that I bought a bulb and mineral oil and have tried giving myself one with a little extra oil and it still doesn't work for me!!
 

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I have another question and hope the op doesn't mind another question on her thread.

A couple of you have said your mates are very "clean" internally. I have tried enemas and they don't work on me, I don't understand it.

I want anal more often than I get it because I am always worried about what might happen. I never feel empty, so I don't do it.

Any suggestions? I want to mention as well that I bought a bulb and mineral oil and have tried giving myself one with a little extra oil and it still doesn't work for me!!
maybe it's your diet...
lack or fiber could be making your system sluggish and keeping thngs as little fuller than they should be?
 

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A couple of you have said your mates are very "clean" internally. I have tried enemas and they don't work on me, I don't understand it.

I want anal more often than I get it because I am always worried about what might happen. I never feel empty, so I don't do it.

Any suggestions? I want to mention as well that I bought a bulb and mineral oil and have tried giving myself one with a little extra oil and it still doesn't work for me!!

My wife has a tendency towards constipation and eats a lot of fiber and also uses a fiber formula in water. She does not use enemas, but if you do just use water, 6-8oz, store bought formulas and mineral oil are harsh on your insides. I have read where some people don't eat anything for 12 or more hours before anal sex which seems extreme.

Do whatever you are comfortable with, take it easy and stop worrying. A little bit of "evidence" shouldn't be a big deal for you or your significant other.
 

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My wife has a tendency towards constipation and eats a lot of fiber and also uses a fiber formula in water. She does not use enemas, but if you do just use water, 6-8oz, store bought formulas and mineral oil are harsh on your insides. I have read where some people don't eat anything for 12 or more hours before anal sex which seems extreme.

Do whatever you are comfortable with, take it easy and stop worrying. A little bit of "evidence" shouldn't be a big deal for you or your significant other.
that's for on camera.
time is money and nobody wants poop in porn.

...well ok, maybe some do.
 

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my partner and I use Reality condoms for anal, mainly because it lets me relax and not worry about anything being "messy".

yes, it is a bit awkward to insert, and I find it best if i insert it myself rather than him doing it. just a little pain for me during insertion, but fine otherwise. i can do it as soon as we start to fool around, then i'm ready for him whenever the mood strikes. nice that it's not latex and any lube can be used.

like i said, it's great for me to not worry about whether or not i'm clean inside, and for me to be able to suck him more after he fucks me a while. i wouldn't do that if it had been in my ass bareback!

i buy them on Amazon.com and they come in a plain brown box, so no one knows what's in there. i recommend them!
 

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I was surprised at just how SHORT the female condom is, though.

Indeed. I have a partner who prefers them, and I consistently break them.




I have another question and hope the op doesn't mind another question on her thread.

A couple of you have said your mates are very "clean" internally. I have tried enemas and they don't work on me, I don't understand it.

I want anal more often than I get it because I am always worried about what might happen. I never feel empty, so I don't do it.

Any suggestions? I want to mention as well that I bought a bulb and mineral oil and have tried giving myself one with a little extra oil and it still doesn't work for me!!

I find prepared saline enema solutions that one can purchase at a drugstore or a supermarket to be most effective.