There are quite a few levels to consider and one thing mentioned but not stressed before is that sex involves skills, and an unskilled bj or fuck can be worse than none at all. So you might be judging your sexual responsiveness as inadequate when what's really inadequate is the skill levels of everyone involved. Did everything go well and smoothly in a performance sense, but inwardly you just weren't that into it? Or were there awkward transitions, unreliable hardons, teethscraping blowjobs etc.?
One thing I'd suggest to orient yourself to fucking is to get a Fleshlight. It's SO much more like the real thing than your hand, if you get the feel for it you'll be much more in the groove for fucking a real person. Take it from someone who has been fucking for forty years. Whether you get the pussy or the ass or the mouth model, it's good to practice getting off with something other than your hand.
One thing I'd suggest to orient yourself to fucking is to get a Fleshlight. It's SO much more like the real thing than your hand, if you get the feel for it you'll be much more in the groove for fucking a real person. Take it from someone who has been fucking for forty years. Whether you get the pussy or the ass or the mouth model, it's good to practice getting off with something other than your hand.
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