It’s well known that sexuality is fluid and we all have different thresholds for what turns us on vs what turns us off. I’m curious to hear from the straight guys how much of a turn on/turn off is the idea of getting a BJ from another guy? This is all subjective and there’s no set-in-stone reaction that all of us must feel. So let’s talk about it!
I’ll add my opinions on this. I’ve been curious about this for a while - really ever since I’ve been fixated on this one guy and can’t get the idea of blowing him out of my head. I would never act without his approval, so I tried to put myself in his shoes to see just how far-fetched that approval is. I am definitely a gay man. I identify as gay and do not have an interest in performing any sort of sexual acts with a woman. But at the same time, the thought of having sex with a woman or the thinking of vaginas, tits & clits, isn’t anything that I would find to be “gross”. I fooled around with different girls when I was in high school (remember, back when you believed you could fix your gayness just to be normal, PLEASE GOD! … anyways) and we wen’t to almost every base, actually. More recently, my friend and I went out on New Years Eve and when midnight arrived, we didn’t have anyone significant to kiss, so we shared a kiss. She and I have been friends for almost 10 years now, and it wasn’t uncomfortable or strange at all. So no, I don’t seek out women to satisfy my sexual needs, but if it came to it, a woman could probably get me to the finish line. Even if it’s just a biological reaction.
Alright… Straight men - let me know your thoughts. Can you tell me how realistic my dream of sucking this man off is?
(I should add that this guy and I work together and have hung out together outside of work. He currently has a girlfriend, but I would argue that at times, he can be flirtatious with me. Maybe it’s just in a playful way - he knows I think he’s cute and he will occasionally tease me about that. But on another occasion, after he had spent a week or so working out, he asked me to feel his biceps, and then had me rub my hands across his chest, his stomach, his back… That seemed odd to me. But I‘ll say that I’ve never had a close male friend. Maybe guy friends will do that kind of thing.)
I’ll add my opinions on this. I’ve been curious about this for a while - really ever since I’ve been fixated on this one guy and can’t get the idea of blowing him out of my head. I would never act without his approval, so I tried to put myself in his shoes to see just how far-fetched that approval is. I am definitely a gay man. I identify as gay and do not have an interest in performing any sort of sexual acts with a woman. But at the same time, the thought of having sex with a woman or the thinking of vaginas, tits & clits, isn’t anything that I would find to be “gross”. I fooled around with different girls when I was in high school (remember, back when you believed you could fix your gayness just to be normal, PLEASE GOD! … anyways) and we wen’t to almost every base, actually. More recently, my friend and I went out on New Years Eve and when midnight arrived, we didn’t have anyone significant to kiss, so we shared a kiss. She and I have been friends for almost 10 years now, and it wasn’t uncomfortable or strange at all. So no, I don’t seek out women to satisfy my sexual needs, but if it came to it, a woman could probably get me to the finish line. Even if it’s just a biological reaction.
Alright… Straight men - let me know your thoughts. Can you tell me how realistic my dream of sucking this man off is?
(I should add that this guy and I work together and have hung out together outside of work. He currently has a girlfriend, but I would argue that at times, he can be flirtatious with me. Maybe it’s just in a playful way - he knows I think he’s cute and he will occasionally tease me about that. But on another occasion, after he had spent a week or so working out, he asked me to feel his biceps, and then had me rub my hands across his chest, his stomach, his back… That seemed odd to me. But I‘ll say that I’ve never had a close male friend. Maybe guy friends will do that kind of thing.)
