Alright, so I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. And for the first month, sex was great. But as time progressed, things went slightly down hill on our sex lives. We still enjoy our company together. We love spending time together, but I get really frustrated when there's that sexual tension between two people and he just doesn't want to.
We went on for a dry 2 months without having sex. And he does not like the idea of me masturbating or watching porn because he thinks we should experience it together. He never really initiates the sex, and its gotten a bit ... Boring? Not to mention he doesn't really like to make out. It bugs me because I don't feel what I'm supposed to be feeling when I kiss him or have sex with him. But I do love him.
He says I'm over reacting and we have had numerous arguments over the matter that our sex life lacks excitement. He said he wants to focus on the relationship, that sex is easy. But finding that special someone is hard. Which I totally agree.
And I do sometimes get a little bit bitchy when nothing goes on. It kind of Bums me out. Am I the one wrong here, am I asking too much? I'm glad to be with him, there are just things I wish to have with him.
We went on for a dry 2 months without having sex. And he does not like the idea of me masturbating or watching porn because he thinks we should experience it together. He never really initiates the sex, and its gotten a bit ... Boring? Not to mention he doesn't really like to make out. It bugs me because I don't feel what I'm supposed to be feeling when I kiss him or have sex with him. But I do love him.
He says I'm over reacting and we have had numerous arguments over the matter that our sex life lacks excitement. He said he wants to focus on the relationship, that sex is easy. But finding that special someone is hard. Which I totally agree.
And I do sometimes get a little bit bitchy when nothing goes on. It kind of Bums me out. Am I the one wrong here, am I asking too much? I'm glad to be with him, there are just things I wish to have with him.