So my wife and I have been married for over 11 years. To be honest our sexual relationship has been always shaky...but we still had our intiment moments. For the past 5 years things have kinda slowed down to the point were I feel we are just roommates. We had our son almost 2 years ago, and he is our miracle boy, but with over 5 years or trying to conceive, I feel we simply lost sexual interest in each other. Don't get me wrong... I LOVE my wife and son. I can't imagine my life without them, but sometimes I just get sad and depressed about all this. Back at the end of march, my full time contract came to an end, so I was out of work for almost three months. In the time we never had sex... Seems like we are LUCKY to have sex once every couple months. But a lot of stress was brewing with both of us out of work so my wife took on a part time job working a few evenings a week. I finally got work, and my wife has kept her pt job. I am lucky to even see her for a couple minutes when I get home before she is out the door. Her mother a few weeks ago fractured her hip and has since been in the hospital, so she has also been spending a lot of time there too. When we say I love you, all I hear from her is "love you" omitting the "I". We have sat down and talked about this, but so far no real progress. I really really want to get this spark back....I am so afraid of drifting apart. I have been working out at the gym for the past 10 months trying to put on muscle, and a few nights ago I approached the bed naked and asked if I could fish for some compliments. All I got was a WTF LOOK of confusion. Needless to say, I went to bed pretty disappointed. Anyway, my apologies for this rant. I guess I am just unsure where this is all going...and I am afraid of what could happen to "us".