What if your sister started dating a small?

[5104]

I haven't read every single post, but I don't recall anyone specifically saying that micropenis was not a legitimate condition, it is just not a prevalent condition.

You missed Kim's several posts on just that point!

Each situation and partner presents different challenges. Where the match isn't ideal regarding size, the challenge vary from very severe to insignificant.

 

[5104]

And again, if your relationship status hinges solely on the size and appearance of genitalia, it isn't a solid relationship to begin with.

Now, I'm not saying that it's easy to put yourself out there, because it can be a hurdle to get over, but if a relationship is built upon mutual trust and respect, then the intimacy side of it will be easier.

I never mentioned solely did I? Part of the situation that determines the challenge is the extent which a particular individual feels size is important.

Yes, confidence is a big problem for the smaller, not just for the micropenis. This problem can be mostly in the head for some, but it is a problem much less frequent in the normally large (not extreme). Yes, and porn has intensified this problem.

 

[hammer75]

And again, if your relationship status hinges solely on the size and appearance of genitalia, it isn't a solid relationship to begin with.

Now, I'm not saying that it's easy to put yourself out there, because it can be a hurdle to get over, but if a relationship is built upon mutual trust and respect, then the intimacy side of it will be easier.

I am not sure I want to get involved in this again but I can speak from some experience in these situations, not that this thread probably needs to take a dirt nap, but I am a believer that the mental can and does affect the physical. Now it can be absolutely said that my performance problems can be traced to poor self esteem but where is the genesis of that issue? It lies within the framework of feeling physically inadequate, which again can be construed as a feeling alone, but having said that if you are with someone who has a certain expectation or preference that is known that can be the point of origin for such problems. I use to have a boss who I assumed had a small one as his joke use to be” when I dropped my pants the girl said who am I going to please with that and I said ME lol”. So I will admit that there are definitely ways around size issues,real or perceived, but I am guessing all who have commented here have preferences for size but don’t lost them as deal breakers for a meaningful relationship. In my personal experience both sides have contributed to relationships going south of cheese, partners being vocal about their lack of contentment physically and my inability to deal with such things in the most positive way. I think what some are saying here is that in their experience, which shouldn’t be devalued because someone disagrees based on their experience, is that there are real consequences for being “shortchanged” manhood wise personally and in the greater social circle and then others who say you should count your blessings as it could be worse. I think life experiences definitely hem us into a subjective world view but I don’t think it should be discounted when dealing with someone who has suffered through difficulties due to it nor should it be magnified to represent more than what it is. In a world full of unreal injustices and pain I’ll take a small cock over having been born way too early,heart defects or a million other scary problems. That being said I think my personal confidence would soar knowing that I can walk down the street with a whopping cock between my legs knowing I am an alpha of the species. I could be wrong though too.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

You missed Kim's several posts on just that point!

Each situation and partner presents different challenges. Where the match isn't ideal regarding size, the challenge vary from very severe to insignificant.

You should post them, so he can see how full of shit you really are. I've repeatedly stated that small penises are not a handicap. I've repeatedly stated that the problems are mental, not physical.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Why are you distorting what he said. He talked about someone large, like yourself, suddenly waking-up one morning with a 1" micro. It is the change that would be dismaying. This doesn't apply to Wally. You aren't trying to read and think while you have an erection again, are you?

You think the change would send the guy over the edge to suicide. Men have lost their penises entirely, in accidents and to disease, and somehow manage to live their lives. And the issue still points to what most of us have been saying...the problems you perceive are not a physical handicap, but emotional weakness.

 

[5104]

You think the change would send the guy over the edge to suicide. Men have lost their penises entirely, in accidents and to disease, and somehow manage to live their lives. And the issue still points to what most of us have been saying...the problems you perceive are not a physical handicap, but emotional weakness.

Losing entirely is, of course, a tragedy. But it would be quite different than waking-up with a tiny, but perfectly functional penis. Fortunately, this is just a thought experiment which, so far, you refuse to consider.

 

[5104]

You think the change would send the guy over the edge to suicide.

Wasn't it Wally that said that, not me? Trying to present it to others and use it, would be a very dismaying change.

 

[5104]

I've repeatedly stated that the problems are mental, not physical.

Don't worry, everyone knows you refuse to change your opinion whether or not your argument holds water.

 

[wallyj84]

You aren't right, no matter how many times you try to spin this. Learn how to be a man. It has nothing to do with your dick.

Oh, I am right. Being hung is better than being small. The benefits of being hung far outweigh any of the problems. It is just delusional to say otherwise.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Losing entirely is, of course, a tragedy. But it would be quite different than waking-up with a tiny, but perfectly functional penis. Fortunately, this is just a thought experiment which, so far, you refuse to consider.

I have considered it...you really should stop telling me what I have or have not done, written, or thought. A small penis is not a handicap. All these pages and you haven't remotely made a case for it. Or explained why it's so important to convince me. Your obsession with micropenis, your need for people to accept your idea that it's a handicap...you have issues.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Don't worry, everyone knows you refuse to change your opinion whether or not your argument holds water.

So ignore me. You won't change my mind. Or anyone else's. It's you and wally, two obsessed and miserable trolls.

 

[554279]

Sorry sometimes I can't help myself.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Oh, I am right. Being hung is better than being small. The benefits of being hung far outweigh any of the problems. It is just delusional to say otherwise.

It's delusional to think your problems are worse than anyone else's. A childish, selfish conceit. You can't speak for being hung...you aren't, by your own claims. You can read all you want, but you have no idea what anyone else's life is like.

 

[wallyj84]

It's delusional to think your problems are worse than anyone else's. A childish, selfish conceit. You can't speak for being hung...you aren't, by your own claims. You can read all you want, but you have no idea what anyone else's life is like.

You know, you could replace "hung" with "white", "straight" or "male" and there would be no change to the basic idea of that argument.

Just saying.

 

[5104]

It's delusional to think your problems are worse than anyone else's. A childish, selfish conceit. You can't speak for being hung...you aren't, by your own claims. You can read all you want, but you have no idea what anyone else's life is like.

What nonsense. Mabe not a perfectly exact Idea, but no idea? Your thinking is bankrupt.

 

[1222288]

I opened up this conversation and..wow. This is one of the most toxic, meaningless back and forth troll fests. What are you guys even discussing at this point? It's just an exchange of barbs. The mods should close this.

 

[5104]

I opened up this conversation and..wow. This is one of the most toxic, meaningless back and forth troll fests. What are you guys even discussing at this point? It's just an exchange of barbs. The mods should close this.

What are you a totalitarian? There are substantial discussions here as well as barbs.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

What are you a totalitarian? There are substantial discussions here as well as barbs.

Bullshit. It's a crapfest. At least own up to that.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

You know, you could replace "hung" with "white", "straight" or "male" and there would be no change to the basic idea of that argument.

Just saying.

If you aren't those things, then yes, speaking for others, which is your stock in trade, would be exactly what you'd be doing. What's your point? You speak for women, you speak for gay men, you speak for hung men. You say you're none of those things, yet others should accept your opinions as if you are.

 

[Draconis71]

How would react if your sister, daughter, or whathaveyou, started dating a Small?

Could you accept the relationship? How would it affect your relationship with her? Would you ever be able to look at her the same?

*IF* I had a daughter, and I was my sister's keeper, what difference would it make?
... Or, should I be more concerned about her dating a douche with a huge dick, blowing out her orifices?
TBH, if the guy wasn't an asshole, I'd be HAPPY my sister was dating him.