What can’t you stand at all about your partner? I don’t think that it makes that much of a difference whether you’re just dating someone or if you’re married. But that’s one of the reasons that I just stated that because that’s just my point of view. For other people it may be different.
One thing that people always have said to me is that I spend too much time in the shower/in the bathroom. Some people might have a problem with that in a relationship. Something such as this can be a problem if you’re trying to clean yourself up too, especially if you’re on your way to work. But would that still be a problem if you don’t have to clean up, you don’t have to use the bathroom and you don’t have to go to work or some type of event? Does that seem like neglect to you? Would you feel irrelevant in a relationship because your partner was always showering to relax and relieve stress? I’m just stating the petty problems. I’m talking about the things that YOU KNOW ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE ANYTIME SOON! Sometimes our friends and family are not enough to ask for advice about issues like this that we’ve already tried to address as much as we understand won’t change.
That’s why I’m setting things up for everyone including myself to see if we can all learn something from each other. A lot of people that are the closest to us don’t have much advice to offer. If you’re one of those few people that never have friends and family to offer anything positive or helpful to say or share that just may always be you helping everyone else. This safe space is something I’m hoping will answer questions for myself and others. Let’s just talk about it….
One thing that people always have said to me is that I spend too much time in the shower/in the bathroom. Some people might have a problem with that in a relationship. Something such as this can be a problem if you’re trying to clean yourself up too, especially if you’re on your way to work. But would that still be a problem if you don’t have to clean up, you don’t have to use the bathroom and you don’t have to go to work or some type of event? Does that seem like neglect to you? Would you feel irrelevant in a relationship because your partner was always showering to relax and relieve stress? I’m just stating the petty problems. I’m talking about the things that YOU KNOW ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE ANYTIME SOON! Sometimes our friends and family are not enough to ask for advice about issues like this that we’ve already tried to address as much as we understand won’t change.
That’s why I’m setting things up for everyone including myself to see if we can all learn something from each other. A lot of people that are the closest to us don’t have much advice to offer. If you’re one of those few people that never have friends and family to offer anything positive or helpful to say or share that just may always be you helping everyone else. This safe space is something I’m hoping will answer questions for myself and others. Let’s just talk about it….
