What makes a good bottom?

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

It's just preference. I'm versatile and couldn't imagine not doing either act. Some prefer to top, some prefer to bottom and there are many degrees of each. Thankfully I have a versatile BF so we have plenty of fun. There are gay guys out there who don't do anal at all (insertor or insertee).

 

[Najedur]

Well, that could be a problem, but somehow, we know who is is what. Not always, but often. I think it is in the energy we send out. I think it would be easier for two tops to be together than two bottoms.

One of the topics that keeps reappearing is cleanliness. Yes and I agree that a clean ass is a good ass. One thing that I like to do sometimes is to watch my diet for a day or two. Eat very lightly and then get a colonic. You will be clean for maybe two days. Great if you have company for a weekend with lots of sex. You will be ready for anything.

 

[phantom73]

Being able to take it in whatever way will please the top. Just knowing that the top is enjoying himself leads to a hands free orgasm for me (sometimes 2 or 3 orgasms) which seems to turn the top on even more. Being flexible enough to be tossed around like a shark attack victim seems to help as well.

 

[vinny_spiruccino]

Um....YES!

Wai wai wai wai wait..... I think you all are leaving someone out here.

But on the subject of a good bottom - I concur with that mentioned above; clean is key. A friend once told me that rule #1 is the Thanksgiving rule - make sure you thoroughly clean the cavity before you stuff the bird. Makes sense to me...?

Beyond that though - a good bottom (to me) is a hungry one. One that has masteres relaxation skills that allow me to progressively get rougher and rougher until I have him on his back, feet over my shoulders. All the while maintaining eye contact and being nice & vocal while I'm pounding away. Not that pounding is all I can do, but if you can take it for an extended period, you're a good bottom in my book.

The end.

 

[Merman127]

Of course it depends on which Top you ask as to what makes a great bottom. I always try to read what my Top guy prefers. I can be a power bottom with the best of them....a few guys have told me "you actually fucked my dick with your ass." LOL Other times I am less "active" for those tops that prefer to do the "fucking." I also love to be able to accomodate tops who can "let go" and fuck as hard and deep as they want. When they open that "second hole" they often get even harder and reveal their pleasure with verbal appreciation. Basically, I get off on them having pleasure, which in turn, guarantees I'm going to feel the ecstasy as well.

What is this 'second hole' you speak of? Anyone?

 

[vinny_spiruccino]

What is this 'second hole' you speak of? Anyone?

Once you get inside (of an ass), there is a secong muscle that remains tight and contracted deeper in. If you can't relax, it'll hurt. Once you learn to unclench this internal "ring", you can take a dick nice & deep & hard.

 

[phantom73]

Once you learn to unclench this internal "ring", you can take a dick nice & deep & hard.[/quote]


AMEN!!!!