I'm not sure if you mean an instantaneous impression of being sexy? If so, it's not about looks for me so much as his bearing, the way he holds himself. That combination of quiet confidence, capability and being comfortable in his own skin is verra sexy to me
What makes a man sexy?
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Yes, that instantaneous impression and not someone you know. After reading some of the responses it is clear that several answered as to someone they know and it was the "little" things they would do etc.
Based solely on looks: I find "sad eyes" with a dense bone structure to be super sexy. I like meat, a little chunk to grab onto... I don't prefer super "cut", muscular bodies.
I tend to notice darker complexions. I don't care much for very tall men, someone around my height is preferable for me. I like girth over length on that regard
Facial hair is hot.
I tend to notice darker complexions. I don't care much for very tall men, someone around my height is preferable for me. I like girth over length on that regard
Facial hair is hot.
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I'll chime @MickeyLee ... some jawlines can be SO sexy.
I think also light colored eyes are often very appealing
A big grin, but not in that crazy "I just ate your butterfly collection and I have several scented erasers shoved up my ass" way. It's more like someone happy at life in that moment.
A really nice smell, too. A natural clean smell like fresh sheets from the dryer smell
And big ass brains, obvi. Which I already sorta said previously. But I'll just go ahead and throw it out there again
I think also light colored eyes are often very appealing
A big grin, but not in that crazy "I just ate your butterfly collection and I have several scented erasers shoved up my ass" way. It's more like someone happy at life in that moment.
A really nice smell, too. A natural clean smell like fresh sheets from the dryer smell
And big ass brains, obvi. Which I already sorta said previously. But I'll just go ahead and throw it out there again
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Because no one is sexy to me the first time I see him. Good looking, sure. Sexy? Not really.
Agree. Sexy (to me) is more of an attitude than an appearance. Granted, I can see if a guy is tall, has a nice smile, is vascular, and has all the things that I view as a panty-dropper... but if he's an asshole, my gutchies will stay firmly in place. Conversely, a man who's not so physically ideal could get in my shorts if he'd funny or kind or smart or confident.
Sexy is like art. It's highly subjective. And I may not know much about it, but I know it when I see it.
I have not seen sexy in too many young men, but older guys seem to exude it. One of the sexiest men I know, husband excluded of course (love you, Sweetie!) is in his mid-60s and just has the air about him that makes me put my chin in my hands and sigh. I could seriously listen to him tell stories all night.
Sexy is also watching a man in the kitchen in his domain. BUT he also has to be cleaning up as he goes and leaves nothing for the "help" to deal with. I've tried telling him that the only thing sexier would him to be wearing nothing but an apron, but he's not buying it. I'll pour a glass of wine and sit and watch him.
I have not seen sexy in too many young men, but older guys seem to exude it. One of the sexiest men I know, husband excluded of course (love you, Sweetie!) is in his mid-60s and just has the air about him that makes me put my chin in my hands and sigh. I could seriously listen to him tell stories all night.
Sexy is also watching a man in the kitchen in his domain. BUT he also has to be cleaning up as he goes and leaves nothing for the "help" to deal with. I've tried telling him that the only thing sexier would him to be wearing nothing but an apron, but he's not buying it. I'll pour a glass of wine and sit and watch him.
Just to be clear, and while I may not speak for all women, I think I'm kind of representative of some:
Because we consider a man to be sexy does not in any way mean we want or need to sleep with him, go out with him, even be with him. He's just sexy, and some other woman or man might be very fortunate to be his partner. Or not.
Just because you're sexy does not make you a good partner, person, lover, or anything. It just means at this moment in time that you have a condition called sexy. It may not be a permanent solution. My husband can be very sexy one moment and then trip over the cat the next.
Because we consider a man to be sexy does not in any way mean we want or need to sleep with him, go out with him, even be with him. He's just sexy, and some other woman or man might be very fortunate to be his partner. Or not.
Just because you're sexy does not make you a good partner, person, lover, or anything. It just means at this moment in time that you have a condition called sexy. It may not be a permanent solution. My husband can be very sexy one moment and then trip over the cat the next.
