What opened your bi side?

[chancesare]

I have been wondering if there is anything specific that opens up a straight guy to be bi. It seems like you hear a lot of guys realizing this side as they've gotten older. As a gay man, my attraction to guys has always been present.

Did you always know you like both sexes? Or, did you start experimenting with gay or bi porn and like what you see?

 

[halcyondays]

Specifically? Just honesty.

I grew up straight but by high school I was attracted to a handful of guys and considered I might be bi. I didn't hook up with a guy until I was a senior in college.

 

[TobiasTalon70]

I knew from youth. I liked some boys and some girls.
I had sex with a man before a woman and still prefer it, but I do enjoy both.

 

[Ryanh1978a]

As a teenager I’d never once looked at a man in a sexual way. In the locker room everyone was a bit shy so no one ever flaunted. But one time, one of the guys stripped off completely. I turned and saw this huge uncut cock dangling over the edge of the bench as he sat down. Can picture it to this day. I think my jaw must have dropped and I almost came on the spot. Was quite confusing as a relatively young man but it obviously awoke something primitive.

 

[Blkgymrat]

Specifically? Just honesty.

I grew up straight but by high school I was attracted to a handful of guys and considered I might be bi. I didn't hook up with a guy until I was a senior in college.

Can I just say ditto. This has basically been my experience except my first guy hook up was as a sophomore.

 

[aninterestingguy]

mine was really my fascination with my own cock. once I decided my cock was beautiful, I began to enjoy watching women suck cock more. from there, I slowly became more interested in just the cock itself...since then I've sucked 3, played with a few, and now I'm interested in trying out even more

 

[Warlock08]

After separation, felt like there were nothing holding me to be with women only, the new-found freedom and curiosity developed and opened my bi-side.

 

[Cecil56]

I woke up while camo

 

[Cecil56]

Sorry for the last post.

I woke up camping with a friend. He was jerking me off until I cum and it felt good.

Feeling guilty, I returned the favor.

We read a porn magazine, got horned up and did it again about a year later.

 

[loveblack69]

I personally felt the twinge when I found a German porn vid in my dads briefcase. It's a well known flick and the guys in it are forced to wear lingerie as they fuck the dominant ladies. This led me to crossdressing at the age of 14. I became fascinated by the sight of cocks in lingerie. Then one night an ex g/f cheated on me with a local guy. She admitted it while we were both drunk, as we fucked that night she told me every detail, including his 8" cock. All I could was think about was sucking that cock. A year later I did.

 

[loveblack69]

Unfortunately I passed out drunk that night and had to wait another 15 years to suck a cock!!!

 

[Bittydrew]

Guess it was when my now brother in law was telling me about this guy at the park trying to get him and suck his cock kind of turned me on thinking about it for a long time before I acted on it also noticed that with porn I was more attracted to the cock in the movie than the women....

 

[Razor500]

After separation, felt like there were nothing holding me to be with women only, the new-found freedom and curiosity developed and opened my bi-side.

This is my story too.

 

[Mister2101]

I think very early on I knew deep down that men turned me on as much as women. I "repressed" those thoughts and desires until in my 30's. After beginning to look at and watch gay porn.....I decided to stop denying myself, and give MM sex a try. Hooked up with a nice, caring, considerate gay man who took his time with me and turned my loose......loved every second of the experience.....and haven't looked back.....

 

[Parts Guy]

Great question. I had an experience in college. Never expected it to happen and it didn’t happen again for 25 years. But over those 25 years of purely heterosexual sex, I found myself always interested in men while watching porn or on a couple of occasions during threesomes. Unbenounced to my wife during a couple three ways, I touched and sucked our partner. Then I really couldn’t stand the pent up feelings any longer. I found myself jacking off to pics of guys. Finally the opportunity to be with another guy just happened out of the blue and I took the opportunity. Oddly I didn’t hesitate. I just went for it. He may have been joking when he asked if I wanted to suck his dick, but it was no joke to me. I did and I did, so I did. Now I understand a more omnisexual perspective and realize that sensuality between two or more adults does not have to be defined by gender.

 

[viper11832]

My second gf told me I’d be good at it because I sucked her fingers during sex. Best thing I’ve done. It’s soooooo much fun having that power lol

 

[Razor500]

I think very early on I knew deep down that men turned me on as much as women. I "repressed" those thoughts and desires until in my 30's. After beginning to look at and watch gay porn.....I decided to stop denying myself, and give MM sex a try. Hooked up with a nice, caring, considerate gay man who took his time with me and turned my loose......loved every second of the experience.....and haven't looked back.....

Great that you had a patient, caring guy to help you along your journey.

 

[MilfBanger78]

I had some big-cock curiosity when i was young, from a few VHS porns I found in moms stash and tapes viewed with buddies from school etc.Peter North in particular, i was fascinated by his dick and how much he could shoot.then we had a tall lanky neighbor that always was out in his yard wearing speedo type shorts and you could see a huge bulge. Mom was talking to him a lot, often she'd be by his side door when i would come home from school, lol always thought she was fucking him. I always peeked at it discreetly, he paid me to help clean his gutters a few times and I was really looking up at it when he was on the ladder.

Yrs later, I'd say the explosion of online porn REALLY peaked my curiosity. Along with intenet hookup sites, When I was 32 I finally sucked a hung guy i met on yahoo chat lol. I think thats the case for a lot of guys, you just simply see a LOT more big hard cocks no on an everyday basis via increased porn viewing, compared to decades past. So I think that in in itself leads many men to be tempted to try it. Couple that with the ease of hooking up online

 

[Mister2101]

Great that you had a patient, caring guy to help you along your journey.

I think that is key.....if that first time you hook up with a jerk, the whole experience may turn you off. My guy was super considerate, and allowed me to "try things" that I was ready for...at my own pace......first touching and mutual stroking.....then oral and 69...then rimming....then anal....giving and receiving.....just a wonderful experience...allowed me to "live out" my desires....certainly changed my views on sex and sexual desire and pleasure.....MM sex is so damn good.....

 

[Razor500]

I think that is key.....if that first time you hook up with a jerk, the whole experience may turn you off. My guy was super considerate, and allowed me to "try things" that I was ready for...at my own pace......first touching and mutual stroking.....then oral and 69...then rimming....then anal....giving and receiving.....just a wonderful experience...allowed me to "live out" my desires....certainly changed my views on sex and sexual desire and pleasure.....MM sex is so damn good.....

Would be interested in talking to you more about it. If you're up for it, pm me, we could kik too. Thanks